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Yall have heard of 20-something's moving back in with their parents... but I'm 22 and my parents have badically moved in with ME. Wtf is this weird ahh

What do you guys prefer? I personally like boosts a bit more because they just have a different feel in my opinion. Right now I'm running a Warm Audio Centavo (as my base tone) into an EHX LPB-1 for higher-gain things. The EHX booster really has a great sound to it, it gives me really saturated distortion (with the overdrive on) that feels super natural.

And, alone, the LBP-1 has this really unique fuzz-like quality to it but also a clean quality? I can't really explain, it feels clean, overdriven, and fuzzy at the same time and it's just awesome.

I think I'm going to get the MXR Micro Amp and add that to the mix too, maybe replacing my overdrive

Edit: I’m using a fender twin revered tone master

First, let me make it clear that I really am gay, and this is genuinely how I feel. I’m fully aware this is a form of internalized self-hatred, but I can’t change the way I feel. I’ve already been conditioned by patriarchy. I’m obsessed with masculinity, and I’ve lost the ability to resist it.

In my view, all gay men are not real men. No matter how much muscle they build, how masculine they try to act, or how deep and rugged their voices are, given enough time, they will inevitably reveal the femininity and effeminacy that lies underneath. I simply don’t believe that truly masculine, manly gay men can exist.

At the same time, when a straight man is even slightly good-looking, his masculinity will always have an incredibly strong sexual appeal to me, regardless of how bad his character or morals might be. In fact, having worse character can sometimes make him even more attractive. I’m attracted to the kind of toxic masculinity that you criticize.

To me, other gay men are basically like girlfriends or sisters. I can’t see them as sexual objects. Being intimate with another gay man feels to me like watching two women being intimate and it simply can't give me the kind of fulfillment I’m looking for and always feels like something is missing.

I’m sexually frustrated. What I want is a real man, but a real man needs a real woman. That’s what makes me feel repressed. Then all sorts of psychological problems start piling up. I know deep down that I don’t need a doctor or therapy. All it would take is one night with a real man, and I’d be cured of everything.

Before I decide to get serious with someone I meet on dating apps, I usually check their social media first. I just want to know more about them before getting too involved.

Recently, I also started using some AI tools that can help with background checking, like acciowork and similar ones. I basically put together some public information from their social media and let it help me organize things I might have missed. But honestly, the results always make me hesitate. I’ll notice some small things, some different opinions, or some patterns that make me question if we’re actually a good match. And sometimes I feel like I’m just finding reasons to walk away before even giving someone a real chance.

Now I’m wondering if this actually helps me avoid the wrong people, or if I’m just making it harder for myself to meet someone good. Do you guys do any kind of background check before dating someone online?