r/whatstheword

WTP for giving someone the privilege of not knowing/being oblivious legally?

I remember watching a movie and the kidnapped man asked the kidnapped why he won't reveal his identity and the kidnapper said something that meant he didnt want him to face the consequences of knowing who he is (basically giving him a legal defense for not knowing)

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u/Nerdy_Metalhead — 2 hours ago

WTW for someone who always. has. to. question

Somewhere in the same group as “contrarian,” perhaps, but more so someone who questions authority (not merely as a form of rebellion), held narratives and beliefs, the meaning behind and use of words. A deconstructionist?

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u/CCMacchiatto — 8 hours ago

WTP for when you can call somebody else something because you are also that thing?

It's not like being hypocritical like "pot calling the kettle black" or being frank by "calling a spade a spade." It's like, if someone with poor time management is qualified to call out/more apt to notice that behavior in someone else...

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u/UncomfyBaby — 9 hours ago

WTW for dogmatically repeated phrases like "hate the sin, love the sinner"?

"Dogmatic" or "ad nauseam" is the closest I've been able to find, but I am pretty damn sure there is a word for when a sentence in particular is being repeated by a social group without thinking about it or its implications.

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u/woraw — 13 hours ago

ITAW for demystify but specifically for making things less scary?

Is there a good word that's similar to demystify but specifically about making things less scary by providing more information? e.g.: "the herpetologist's lecture served to WORD pit vipers for the kids, assuring them that the venomous snakes were much more interested in biting mice than humans."

it might end up that demystify is the best word for this but I associate that with things that are more, well, mysterious, and I want to emphasize the scary part. instead of "remove the obscurity from" I'm looking for "remove the horror from".

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u/v0rpalsword — 12 hours ago

ITAW for when someone online goes like "as a ____fan i agree that ____ is better" or "when theyre slandering your team but theyre lowk right" but you know that hes not really a fan hes probably a hater or a fan of the opponent,so is there a word for that?

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u/Primary-Judgment1359 — 16 hours ago

WTP for cleaning yourself with a cloth and sink instead of shower or tub

There's a very specific phrase I just know it. It's not a dry bath or a towel bath or sink bath. It's less formal sounding, something casual, swear I've heard it a million times but now I can't think of it

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u/daydreamz618 — 1 day ago

ITAW for never finding something your obsessed with?

This keeps happening to me where I get really obsessed with something that I saw literally everywhere but after I get obsessed with it, I can't find it at all - it happens with like day to day things, shows, games, ect.

Is there a word for this??

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u/EvieCyan — 24 hours ago

ITAW for mispronouncing a word because you only saw it in print and not spoken?

Erudite describes the more general case of being well-read. Is there a more precise word?

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u/ShortBusRide — 1 day ago

WTW for / pronounced something like [kay-dum] in the phrase "playing __" (?)

I remember hearing it in a phrase that was pronounced like "[kay-dum]" and I'm pretty sure the phrase means something like appeasing or entertaining someone. Maybe I'm remembering wrong.

Does this post make any sense?

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u/legacy-of-rats — 1 day ago

WTW for widely believed misconception

Example would be that bears sleep through the entire winter, or that putting potatoes on your feet will stop you from getting sick.

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u/AwaiGhost — 1 day ago

WTW for when someone is stressed and takes it out on others?

Like- Dad had a bad day at work and came home and yelled at the kids, kinda thing. Not exactly projection. Misplaced emotional reactions? Thanks in advance yall.

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u/er7 — 1 day ago

WTW for stupidity in gameplay on ads as a marketing tool

You know when you’re watching an ad for a mobile game and the “player” keeps making objectively dumb or wrong moves, which I assume is a way to try and make viewers want to download the game to prove they can do better? There’s got to be a marketing term for that but I can’t find it.

Example: I was just watching an ad for a word sorting game and the “player” kept trying to put the word “tree” in a category for “blue things” and it was infuriating and I think that’s the point of the ad?

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u/skarlatha — 1 day ago

WTW for feeling genuinely happy for a friend’s success but with this undercurrent of personal envy that makes you feel guilty

I’ve been trying to pin down the right word for this specific mix of emotions that keeps hitting me lately and it’s driving me nuts because I can’t find anything that fits exactly. Last weekend my best friend from college finally landed her dream job at this big design firm after grinding for years with side gigs and rejections. We all went out to celebrate, I bought her drinks, posted congrats on Instagram, hugged her and meant every word when I said how proud I was. At the same time though there’s this low-level sting because I’ve been stuck in the same entry-level role for three years, sending out applications every night after work, and watching her move forward makes me feel like I’m falling behind even though I really don’t resent her at all. It’s not full-on jealousy or schadenfreude or anything toxic; it’s more like bittersweet pride with an extra layer of self-comparison that leaves me feeling kind of small and petty afterward. I keep replaying the night in my head and wondering if there’s a single term that captures being supportive yet quietly envious without the negative judgment usually attached to envy. Any ideas would help because “mixed feelings” is way too vague and I want

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ITAW for an antonym of "Rome" in "when in rome..."

I'm writing a little something and it has a line "Outside is not rome, whyever would you deign to do as they do?" And i wanted to know if there's any way to further juxtapose Rome to something

And also I need to illustrate "the outside" and i need something to base visual reference on but that's beside the point

Edit: gratitude to everyone who responded, didn't expect to get this much feedback, quite insightful indeed

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u/darksider66677 — 3 days ago

ITAP for building *into* the ground

Like, an antonym of "building a building up", but you're carving into the ground to make something instead, like carving out an area to make a basement or a bunker? thanks!

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u/roketj_ — 3 days ago