u/-louise1987-

Looking for someone I can talk to as going through a tough time.

Why won’t he block my work WhatsApp like he’s blocked me on everything else?

You told me on the 20th that that of course you still think about me and there is still love there and that I don’t mean little to you. But then silence ever since.

I was playing Warcraft who I use to play a lot with my ex who ended it 6 weeks ago. As soon as he saw me online he quickly logged off. Why didn’t he just put my character on his ignore list? He blocked me on Battlenet 2 days after me broke up.

I feel like he’s playing mind games.

As on the 20th June he told me that I don’t mean little to him, that of course he thinks about me and that there is still love there but broken trust.

But on the 11th he sent a messages saying he wanted to give me closure like a goodbye. So why the messages on the 20th and why did he act that way last night.

I really need someone to talk too, I feel so alone at the moment to the point I’m on breaking point.

My and my ex split up on 20th May, I’m still madly in love with him and I’m missing him so much. He blocked me on everything but I reached out to him on my work WhatsApp. He’d never blocked that. He sent me messages on the 8th saying

"Of course you crossed my mind."
There is "still some love there."
You left a "deep impact" on things.
He felt you "forced him to say" certain things during your arguments.
He explicitly stated: "I don’t think this can be worked out to be honest."

Then he didn’t message me till the 11th

"Of course this hurts me a lot."
"But sadly I can’t believe or trust you anymore."
"I want to give you closure."

Then he went silent and I heard nothing till the 20th

“Of course I think about you”
“That I don’t mean little to him”
“That there is still love there, but you broken trust”

I’m just really not getting the odd 3-4 messages in the day and then silence for days. I’ve not heard from him since 20th. I’ve sent messages.

I know he’s having therapy and been having it near a year and been doing a group therapy course (which I think is 8 weeks long). I think his last one in next Tuesday.

I just really don’t get the messages and the silence, it’s messing with my head and I’m trying to recover from surgery. I know the break up was my doing but I’m in a bad place at the moment.

I’ve asked him to block my work WhatsApp if he wants me out of his life but he won’t.

My and my ex split up on 20th May, I’m still madly in love with him and I’m missing him so much. He blocked me on everything but I reached out to him on my work WhatsApp. He’d never blocked that. He sent me messages on the 8th saying

"Of course you crossed my mind."
There is "still some love there."
You left a "deep impact" on things.
He felt you "forced him to say" certain things during your arguments.
He explicitly stated: "I don’t think this can be worked out to be honest."

Then he didn’t message me till the 11th

"Of course this hurts me a lot."
"But sadly I can’t believe or trust you anymore."
"I want to give you closure."

Then he went silent and I heard nothing till the 20th

“Of course I think about you”
“That I don’t mean little to him”
“That there is still love there, but you broken trust”

I’m just really not getting the odd 3-4 messages in the day and then silence for days. I’ve not heard from him since 20th. I’ve sent messages.

I know he’s having therapy and been having it near a year and been doing a group therapy course (which I think is 8 weeks long). I think his last one in next Tuesday.

I just really don’t get the messages and the silence, it’s messing with my head and I’m trying to recover from surgery. I know the break up was my doing but I’m in a bad place at the moment.

Me and my ex split up on May 20th and he literally blocked me on everything apart from my work WhatsApp which he didn’t know about which he’s never blocked on that. He split up with me because he said I was needy and that because I doubted him that day that he didn’t love me and told him to throw away my gifts and that I sent to him. He forgets that I’m mild autistic and sometimes that’s how my brain works. I do doubt people which I don’t mean to. He went cold on me for days and sending me the odd messages and then going cold on me for days again. But on the 8th of this month he sent me a message saying “yes of course you cross my mind” and also “there is still some love of course” and then later on that day he sent me another message saying “Louise the things you forced me to say, left a deep impact on me. I really don’t think this can be worked out to be honest” when I asked him what I forced him to say he messaged saying “say it to my face, and tell me you don’t love me. Over and over again and you told me multiple times to throw away the cards and gifts”

Then he went silent on me since the 11th, I had been sending him messages but didn’t hear from him. I asked him if there was anyone else and he stated “Louise, no there is nobody else. Therapy is good but lots of homework etc and you swore to change before, sadly I don’t believe you anymore”. I sent him messages and later on he sent one back saying “ Louise of course it hurts me a lot. You promised and swore me that last time for one last time sadly I don’t believe and trust you anymore I want to give you a closure”.

Then he went silent on me for nine days and message me this Saturday just gone as I asked him if I meant little to him. He said “No you don’t, i’ve been struggling as well barely touching my phone, sleeping problems, eating problems and no nothing of the stuff you asked is true” I asked if he met someone else as he’s having group therapy and before me he was talking to a girl on discord but blocked her when we got together. But when I asked him if he thinks of me. He said “ of course I think about you. No, therapy is just once a week only got a tough evening and the day after eating the sleeping is because of us” and when I asked if you love me still he sent “yes there is still love, but you broken trust” then he basically sent me a message saying he was having something to eat and then going to go watch the football with his mates and I’ve heard nothing since.

I now haven’t heard from him in 6 days, is he messing with my feelings or is he genuinely hurt? I find it hard to believe he’s barely touching his phone if he can arrange to go his mates to watch football.

I really don’t know what to make out of all of this.

I’m lost, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks today. It was a 2 year and 3 month long distance relationship. He been hardly messaging me but did a couple of days going saying “I left a deep impact on stuff I forced him to say” when I asked what he said “that I forced him to tell me he didn’t love me and to throw my gifts away”. He told me there was some love there for me still and that I cross his mind. I don’t believe in just some love or things wouldn’t have took a big impact on him. He messaged me yesterday saying that he can’t give me another chance as he doesn’t believe I can change this time.

He told me I was needy, I’ve not long lost my Nanna two months ago and I have been struggling. It made me needy towards him from the day I found out she was really poorly. I’m also mild autistic and that makes you needy and doubt people.

At first he blocked me on everything but when I messaged him on my work WhatsApp and told him to block me if I didn’t mean anything he hasn’t.

He’s going through therapy and I think that’s really taking a lot out of him. He’s not this kind of person to be the way he is.

I’m lost, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks today. It was a 2 year and 3 month long distance relationship. He been hardly messaging me but did a couple of days going saying “I left a deep impact on stuff I forced him to say” when I asked what he said “that I forced him to tell me he didn’t love me and to throw my gifts away”. He told me there was some love there for me still and that I cross his mind. I don’t believe in just some love or things wouldn’t have took a big impact on him. He messaged me yesterday saying that he can’t give me another chance as he doesn’t believe I can change this time.

He told me I was needy, I’ve not long lost my Nanna two months ago and I have been struggling. It made me needy towards him from the day I found out she was really poorly. I’m also mild autistic and that makes you needy and doubt people.

At first he blocked me on everything but when I messaged him on my work WhatsApp and told him to block me if I didn’t mean anything he hasn’t.

He’s going through therapy and I think that’s really taking a lot out of him. He’s not this kind of person to be the way he is.

I’m lost, I broke up with my boyfriend 3 weeks today. It was a 2 year and 3 month long distance relationship. He been hardly messaging me but did a couple of days going saying “I left a deep impact on stuff I forced him to say” when I asked what he said “that I forced him to tell me he didn’t love me and to throw my gifts away”. He told me there was some love there for me still and that I cross his mind. I don’t believe in just some love or things wouldn’t have took a big impact on him. He messaged me yesterday saying that he can’t give me another chance as he doesn’t believe I can change this time.

He told me I was needy, I’ve not long lost my Nanna two months ago and I have been struggling. It made me needy towards him from the day I found out she was really poorly. I’m also mild autistic and that makes you needy and doubt people.

At first he blocked me on everything but when I messaged him on my work WhatsApp and told him to block me if I didn’t mean anything he hasn’t.

He’s going through therapy and I think that’s really taking a lot out of him. He’s not this kind of person to be the way he is.

I split with my ex nearly 3 weeks ago, his choice. He blocked me from everything. But then I messaged him on my work WhatsApp and at the start he ignored me. I messaged him as a friend was saying lies about him to me. He sent me 3 messages then nothing for another week nearly as I messaged him saying I was worried about him. He sent 2 messages on Thursday and now silents again. He’s having therapy and doing a course and told me he was having bad times. But he told me gr loved me before we split. Also that he barely touches his phone anymore.

I just really love him still and wish he would give me answers. He ended it with me cause I doubted he loved me due to not long coming bipolar but kept that from him and was grieving as lost my Nanna 2 months ago. I mentioned it when we had an argument and he said I only bring stuff up like that when we argue. The next day I was in hospital having seizures and 2 weeks ago I was in a&e on fluids. He said I was guilt tripping him when I told him. It was cause I wanted his support. I’m struggling so much as we’ve went out 12 years ago and that ended and I was the love of his life. But over 2 years ago we got back together and now this. I feel like he chosen his therapy over me. Which I know he’s finding his therapy hard as he told me. But when he said he barely touches his phone I feel like it’s a lie 😔. 

I’ve told him I want to support him with his therapy but he won’t talk to me.

It’s been nearly 3 weeks since he ended it with me and he blocked me on everything. The night we split he told me he loved me and cried. I messaged him on my WhatsApp work number as a friend was saying lies. He messaged me back a couple of times and that was it. Thursday I messaged him saying I was worried about him. He sent a couple of messages saying he needed space as his therapy course was taking a lot in and that his mom had been poorly. Every time I ask him if he misses me or still loves me he avoid me. Now he’s gone back to ignoring me. I just don’t get what’s going on.

I broke up with my ex over 2 weeks ago, his choice as we had a bad argument which was my fault. He told me he loved me on that day and that it was unfixable. He blocked me on everything but then I messaged him on my work WhatsApp. He messaged me last Friday as a friend was telling lies. But then he messaged me yesterday saying her needed space due to therapy course and his mom being poorly. He sent me a couple of messages but now he’s stopped talking again. But when I ask if he misses me or still loves me he avoids it.

He won’t block me when I ask him too.

Do you think of me?

He ended it with me 2 weeks go today which was the Wednesday night. By Saturday he blocked me on everything like I was nothing. Friday just gone I messaged him on my work WhatsApp asking for answers about a friend saying lies. He messaged me back 3 times and that was it. I asked if he misses me and he would avoid it. During the weekend I did message him a few times wanting answers but nothing. I asked him to block and delete me if he wanted nothing to do with me and wants me out of his life but he hasn’t? But then he won’t talk to me? I know he’s been having therapy for mental health issues. But worried in the space of 2 weeks he’s stopped loving me and isn’t missing me. He did say in one message that he was having ups and downs

My ex has blocked me on all social media, WhatsApp, Facebook, discord and on Warcraft. But I message him on my work WhatsApp and he hasn’t blocked me? He sent me 3 messages Friday night as I needed answers due to a friend saying lies. But now he won’t message me back. I’ve asked him to block me if I don’t mean anything to him or he doesn’t want me in his life but he won’t block me but won’t talk.

We were in a long distance relationship, we were together 2 years and 3 months and 2 weeks on Wednesday he ended it with me. I not long found out I had bipolar. I didn’t tell him as he has mental health problems and I didn’t want to add anymore stress to him as he’s having therapy. The day he ended it my bipolar got the best of me and I kept doubting that he loved me and called him heartless at one point. We were on the phone till late and he said it was unfixable and that I tell him about stuff about me when we get into an argument. Then he’s blocked me on everything, as he said I was guilt tripping him, as I’ve been in hospital twice since then. He’s blocked me on everything but I message him on my work WhatsApp and he did message me 3 times Friday as my mate told lies about him to me. Ever since he’s not replying to my messages but hasn’t blocked me? I’ve asked him to block me if he wants me out of his life or if I don’t mean anything to him. I have been messaging him loads which I’m not proud of. But messaged him last night saying I’ll give him space. It’s just hurting so much as I need answers and it’s affecting my health.

My ex has blocked me on all social media, WhatsApp, Facebook, discord and on Warcraft. But I message him on my work WhatsApp and he hasn’t blocked me? He sent me 3 messages Friday night as I needed answers due to a friend saying lies. But now he won’t message me back. I’ve asked him to block me if I don’t mean anything to him or he doesn’t want me in his life but he won’t block me but won’t talk.

We were in a long distance relationship, we were together 2 years and 3 months and 2 weeks on Wednesday he ended it with me. I not long found out I had bipolar. I didn’t tell him as he has mental health problems and I didn’t want to add anymore stress to him as he’s having therapy. The day he ended it my bipolar got the best of me and I kept doubting that he loved me and called him heartless at one point. We were on the phone till late and he said it was unfixable and that I tell him about stuff about me when we get into an argument. Then he’s blocked me on everything, as he said I was guilt tripping him, as I’ve been in hospital twice since then. He’s blocked me on everything but I message him on my work WhatsApp and he did message me 3 times Friday as my mate told lies about him to me. Ever since he’s not replying to my messages but hasn’t blocked me? I’ve asked him to block me if he wants me out of his life or if I don’t mean anything to him. I have been messaging him loads which I’m not proud of. But messaged him last night saying I’ll give him space. It’s just hurting so much as I need answers and it’s affecting my health.