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I can’t decide what way to go between these two dresses
I’ve been struggling to feel like a bride even after already purchasing a dress from david’s bridal. the experience just wasn’t it. I finally went to try on some designer wedding dresses and fell in love with two of them and several veils
I finally feel like a bride, just don’t know what style of bride I am

u/-stargazers- — 6 days ago
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Flower girl box

Bridesmaids are getting a handwritten letter and a gift card, also free will to buy whatever dress they want

His niece is the flower girl, did anyone else get their flower girl something or have a fun way of asking her to be the flower girl? She’s only 6 so she loves consumerism and getting stuff, so we were thinking a fun “care box” of things. I’d love to buy her a new dress, but definitely want her to be able to pick it out first

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u/-stargazers- — 6 days ago
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help us pick an elopement date

we are thinking July/August 2026
what date sounds good to celebrate literally forever?? 😂
I know I know who cares, but would love to hear what y’all think sounds good if you want to participate!

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u/-stargazers- — 6 days ago

Guest list dilemma

Hello, this is more of a vent I guess.

I don’t have a lot of friends and that’s okay! I spend a lot of time by myself, with my family, or with my fiancé. I have two good friends that live in Pennsylvania (I moved to Texas), one used to be my best friend in elementary school but eventually when I moved to Texas we grew distant. She has come to visit me in Texas twice and we really are good friends still, but just don’t talk often because life is busy. My other friend in PA I met several years ago while living in Texas through my brother’s mutual friends. She’s visited once but has terrible flight anxiety and social anxiety in general. We also rarely talk but do call more than my long term friend.

when I visit Pennsylvania we don’t hang out all together. I go do separate things with each of them.

My fiancé has lots of friends! we agreed to keep the guest list minimal on family. Our parents, my siblings, his sister, his grandma and grandpa, and we are both bringing one aunt.

So the rest of our 60 person guest list are “our” friends, but really they are his friends that are now friends with me kind of. They are all very nice to me but I don’t feel like I know any of them on a deeper level at all. Even though we’ve been together 2 years. It’s just not possible to spend a lot of time with all of them.

I used to be the bell of the ball, had so many friends, but when I decided to start going to church all of my “friends” no longer asked to hang out because I wasn’t going to clubs and raves anymore. Mainly because I am a little old for it now (26 years old)

I have no one to invite to the wedding besides these two random friends in Pennsylvania.

I’ve already decided they aren’t bridesmaids.
my sister is my maid of honor, my two sister in laws (my two brothers wives) and my fiancé’s sister are going to be my bridesmaids because they are family.
My fiancé will be having like 10 groomsmen which I supported, I don’t care if it’s not even.

Should I invite them or just enjoy my husband and his friend group that are kind to me?
PS I know I’m overthinking this, I’m just curious if anyone else had to make this hard decision on whether or not to invite out of state long term friends.

UPDATE: Thank you all for your advice! I don’t feel the need to have extra representation nor do I want to feel like I am having a reunion on my wedding day. Will most likely just invite them with a plus one.

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u/-stargazers- — 11 days ago