A sad realization

TLDR the realization: it is far easier to just steal borrow the ebooks I already own from the internet than it is to mess with de-DRMing them 😭

I have really been enjoying my RMPP this last month. I’m still finding new ways I can customize it and this is truly exactly the type of gadget I needed as someone who is at a crossroads of “slightly tech savvy” and “easily overwhelmed by software stuff”.

DRM stuff is so annoyingly frustrating. I fully blame Bezos, McGraw-Hill, Pearson, Elsevier, etc. the whole lot of them, but not Remarkable. Just crazy we have allowed companies to gatekeep knowledge like this. It’s not even the writers or artists doing the gatekeeping, that I might understand a little more. It’s just giant monopolies who exist only to profit who are keeping our purchases behind a firewall, essentially making our money useless.

Also sorry if this rant is against the rules, please remove if so. but really just wondering if anyone else commiserates?

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u/1973tour — 1 day ago
▲ 19 r/Coach

New Bag + Comparison Photo + What Does My Collection Say About Me?!

Alright just a little back story about me: I fell on hard times about 6 years ago and had to sell my whole purse collection. I have been slowly rebuilding my collection, and my main goal this time around is to not repeat any styles or colors if possible.

Today I passed a big test at school! (I’m 35 btw 😂 never too late) so I treated myself to this suede Carey bag from the outlet. I went in the store to look at the loved leather collection, but this one really caught my eye. I was torn between the suede and loved leather, but I finally concluded that it was just due to the popularity of the LL that had me coveting it. I didn’t actually like the look of it, in my soul. I had to stick with my gut and go with the suede! The LL Carey just looked a little too… AI or computerized or whatever, to me. The only LL that really caught my eye was the Laurel, but all the other ones looked like a robot brushed the same streaks on each one. I wanted to love it, but I just didn’t. Also, I am not big on silver hardware. So that’s just a me-thing.

Anyway, here’s my collection! The crystal denim Tabby was a birthday gift to myself last month 😅 I probably won’t buy anything new until Christmas time, so I’m just going to enjoy and be thankful for all that I have!

All I can say about Coach is that I really love how they hold their value and the quality really lasts a long time for the price. I know spending can feel frivolous (and it certainly is to some extent), but if you keep the bags clean and nice they really do become investment pieces over time. I was quite thankful I had my old collection to fall back on liquidating. Wouldn’t want to do it again, but I’m thankful it was an option for me.

u/1973tour — 13 days ago
▲ 2 r/Hernia+1 crossposts

35F mom of 3 with abdominal muscle pain after coughing

I think I have a hernia, but I’m wondering if there’s something else it could be that I’m not aware of. Diastasis recti isn’t supposed to be painful so I don’t think it’s that. Because of my c-section, is it possible I didn’t get stitched up correctly?

35 year old female describes twisting and spasming sensation of abdominal muscles. Pain 6/10 at highest point, but not that high for long. mostly the left side, but the ab muscles of both sides will visibly spasm when it happens. Like super freaky waves of muscle movement lol

History: vaginal delivery of a singleton in 2017. C-section of twins in February 2025

Onset: began 6 months ago and has slowly intensified

Causation: happens when coughing, sneezing, or pushing for bowel movement.

Palliation: feels better after wiggling side to side and stretching out torso

H: 5’6” W: 170lbs

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u/1973tour — 20 days ago
▲ 78 r/Coach

Select charms on sale on Coach.com

This isn’t all of them! Pretty decent discounts

u/1973tour — 27 days ago

Pretty good cold

Crepes are one of those foods that I miss dearly from before finding out I have celiac. I had to try these. They aren’t perfect, but they do scratch the crepe itch a little bit. They might taste better warmed up and with toppings

u/1973tour — 27 days ago
▲ 49 r/Coach

Amazon Mark Downs 30-50%

I'm not buying anything for a while, but doesn't mean I can't scroll and share what I found :) Really love that Tabby 30 in cream

u/1973tour — 29 days ago
▲ 180 r/Coach

I’ve never needed a bag so much (Tabby 26 crystal denim photo and video dump)

When I was researching this bag, I struggled to find non-model, real-life photos. So here’s a few photos in the comments and a video of what fits inside, how it looks on a normal (or larger) body, and of course the sparkle. The camera still doesn’t do the sparkle full justice.

On a personal note if anyone wants to give advice: I am still on the fence about the 36!! The 26 has less space than I’m used to, but it’s not unmanageable. This is my first Tabby, I usually go with a Laurel or soho/tote type of bag. I actually really like how chic the 26 looks, I just fear something kind of silly TW body image: … does it look too small for my body? I worry that a small bag might make me look bigger? Or am I crazy? The Dillard’s lady also seemed surprised that I was buying this bag for myself, not sure if it’s because I’m old or fat 😂 or if I read too much into what she said (probably). At the end of the day, I think the bag is beautiful and it doesn’t matter what anyone else thinks. Anyway, see photo below of it on me. At any rate, I’m now psychoanalyzing how much I’ve always hidden behind my giant bags 🫠

u/1973tour — 29 days ago

Hot take on Carnival Fog

The candle smells like the inside of a Halloween mask to me 😂 and I actually love it because I’m weird 😭

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u/1973tour — 30 days ago

Scrub deals

I hate being a free advertiser for a company lol, but I’m in nursing school and trying the different scrub brands. Fabletics has a couple colors of their joggers for $18.95 on Amazon right now. Haven’t seen any other good deals on like Figs or anything. Wanted to share with yall now that I’ve already snagged what I want 😅

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u/1973tour — 2 months ago

Hernia vs. diastasis recti

Hey there everyone! I already have an appointment with my doctor, but it’s a few weeks out. I’m wondering from those who have experienced either a hernia or diastasis recti or both after twin/multiple pregnancy how it felt for you.

I’m about 17 months post c-section for twins and over the last few months I’ve been having these moments every few days where I cough or sneeze (or poop lol) really hard and end up with pretty intense and tight abdominal wall pain/spasming. It feels like something is moving into the wrong place. I have to lay flat on my back basically or stand up super straight and then wiggle side to side to stretch the muscles to get it to stop. Feels muscular, but I’m not super familiar with organ pain thankfully so I’m not sure how a hernia would differ. This last time it happened, I legit saw my ab muscles twitching and contracting involuntarily for about 30 secs.

Thanks for any anecdotes!

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u/1973tour — 2 months ago

Passed D441! 🎉

Celebratory humble-brag post: just passed my OA for D441!

My advice on this course: do not underestimate the OA requirements. I answered about 7,000 EAQ questions to even be allowed to take the OA. The OA itself was not difficult in my opinion, but meeting all of the requirements to get there definitely took some time.

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u/1973tour — 3 months ago

Hating a lot of parts of pharmacology

Please tell me I only need to memorize this stuff for the test to pass this class and won’t need to really use it in the field. Semi-freaking out because I generally am great with dosages and drug calculations/interactions/contraindications. But these nitty gritty parts about anti-cholinergics, alpha-andrenergics, beta1, beta2, etc etc etc. it’s just not clicking with my brain. How much of this is actually on the NCLEX? And how much of this is used in day-to-day nursing?

Anyone have some tips or resources for pharmacology? It’s so much dense information, I feel like my brain is not big enough lol. Trying not to lose motivation. Mostly this is a vent post 🥺

Liiiike, sorry if this is rude to say, but there’s a reason I’m in nursing school and not med school 😅

u/1973tour — 3 months ago

Help name the kitten we found yesterday so I have something to write down at the vet today!

Pretty sure he’s a boy, but kind of hard to tell! He is so smol, maybe 3 weeks (canines are coming in and his eyes look like they opened recently). We go to the vet in a few hours and I need something to write on the intake form lol. We currently have all boy cats: Bean, Odin, Boo, and Miso. We really like short and cute names. Maybe food inspired.

Here are the names I’ve thought of so far, but am definitely open to new suggestions:
Oddish (like the Pokémon, stolen from Reddit)
Vesper
Lupin
Yoda (because of his ears)
Dobby (also because of his ears)
Mushroom/shroom
Enoki (a type of mushroom)

u/1973tour — 3 months ago