u/1975galaxy

So after three recent dates (2 with one person one with another), i’m feeling like i should delete hinge again. one of them gave me the “im not really feeling romantic vibes” and the other one just unmatched me after the date.

im failing so bad at dating and getting people to like me. should i give up altogether on finding a partner? or is there a better way? an easier way? a different app i should use?

for context i delete these apps pretty often after a series of disappointing dates/connections or a relationship ends because i don’t like how it makes me feel like a failure and that there’s something wrong with me. what would you do? is taking breaks a good strategy? or should i just push through and ignore my feelings? i’m not getting the result i want - a long term relationship.

i’m 28f if that helps at all.

So after three recent dates (2 with one person one with another), i’m feeling like i should delete hinge again. one of them gave me the “im not really feeling romantic vibes” and the other one just unmatched me after the date.

im failing so bad at dating and getting people to like me. should i give up altogether on finding a partner? or is there a better way? an easier way? a different app i should use?

for context i delete these apps pretty often after a series of disappointing dates/connections or a relationship ends because i don’t like how it makes me feel like a failure and that there’s something wrong with me. what would you do? is taking breaks a good strategy? or should i just push through and ignore my feelings? i’m not getting the result i want - a long term relationship.

i’m 28f if that helps at all.

hi! i, 28F, have been single most of my life. i’m talking like 99% and have never had a serious relationship.

this past weekend i went on a second date with a guy. then he told me he’s feeling more of a friend connection.

this happens to me a lot. people say “i’m don’t feel a spark” “im not feeling a connection” “this is giving more of a friend vibe” and i don’t know what to do anymore.

am i supposed to kiss them after the first date to let them know that i don’t just want to “be friends?” (i don’t kiss ppl on the first date anymore bc that usually led to bad decisions.) all of my profiles say im looking for a long term relationship. so what am i doing wrong? how do i get people to stop seeing me as a “platonic” or “a friend?” i mean i thought you were supposed to be ~nice~ to the person you’re dating but maybe not?

i also just want to know why this keeps happening? is there something wrong with me? also i do believe you should be friends with the person you’re una. relationship with and actually like them as a person, but that’s not the ONLY thing i want.

help! how do i get this to stop happening? and get someone to take me seriously as a romantic partner.