u/1995deadinside

I want to leave every time SS comes over

I am so burnt out by my SS(10) and I don’t want to be around him. I know that sounds so awful and I do love him very much, but he has a lot of behaviour issues and I’m just at my breaking point with it.

We have an ours baby (2m) and I’m starting to worry my SS issues and going to negatively impact the toddler. He blows up when he doesn’t get his way. He’ll throw stuff, make threats and run away. My husband has to give SS all of his attention and I’m stuck parenting our toddler alone. I don’t feel comfortable removing myself from the home and leaving the toddler there. But to take the toddler away from home all day is exhausting too and not fair to him.

When SS is here everyone is tense, he’s unpredictable and the day can go sideways at any moment. I just don’t know how to move forwards with this. I feel so trapped and I just want to protect my peace and my baby. I hate feeling pushed out of my home but I don’t know what else to do.

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u/1995deadinside — 4 days ago

I stopped wearing all make up years ago when I went on maternity leave and had to cut costs everywhere. Recently I’ve been feeling pretty down on my looks and thought maybe a bit of light coverage would give back some confidence.

I’m looking for affordable recommendations for a light weight Bb cream or tinted moisturizer. My skin isn’t oily but on the dryer side and I’m pale as a ghost. I’m considering the highly recommended wet n wild tinted hydrator but it might be a big heavier than I want.

It’s so overwhelming going in to the store I have no idea what I’m looking at anymore. Appreciate any help I can get!

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u/1995deadinside — 15 days ago

I know this has been posted a few times and I’ve read through others posts and comments but would like to share my own experience and hope to get some advice.

I met my now husband 5 years ago. Shortly after we started seeing each other I go a yeast infection for the first time in my life. It was easy to treat with over the counter remedies and I brushed it off. But then a month later it happened again….and again. I went to a walk in they did a swab and pretty much said oh sometimes this happens with new partners. It continued so I went to another walk in and another swab was done and the same advice given.

I went to a family doctor after this. He put me on boric acid suppositories twice a week with really no end date. Also gave me the standard advice “drink water, cotton underwear, probiotics etc”. Eventually I got pregnant and stopped taking the boric acid and never really went back to it.

I still keep getting yeast infections here and there and it’s unbelievably frustrating. My husband and I have both treated ourselves at the same time, we are very hygienic, we do all the things we’ve been told but it still continues. He was in a long term relationship before we met and never experienced this issue and I never had one in my life before we got together. I don’t know if there is anything else we can try but I’m sitting here in tears desperate for answers.

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u/1995deadinside — 22 days ago