u/2workigo

New boss problems, need advice.

I have a new boss in a senior leadership role. We work in a field that requires dealing with a lot of convoluted regulations and government policies. It’s often confusing and regulations and policies often seem to contradict each other. The new boss is knowledgeable but has different experience than me which I thought would be great. I love working for folks I can learn from.

The problem is that over the last month or so, they have made changes some processes based on their interpretation of regulations that are simply incorrect. It’s causing chaos for my staff and will eventually have a larger impact on the company and the reputation of our department. When I catch these inconsistencies I always try to have a private conversation to iron it out but the boss isn’t listening and often won’t budge.

I’m finding myself spending a lot of time digging through regulations and sending them to verify the new direction they have implemented. I’m not always successful in getting the boss to change their mind and the weekly pivots in my staff’s direction is making it difficult for them to know what they should be doing. Some of my staff are losing confidence in me because the boss is very confident in their incorrect direction. Others will call me and ask WTF is going on knowing the direction is incorrect.

I’m usually very good at smiling and nodding and going with the flow. But like I said, some of the direction we’ve been given will certainly blow up in our faces. I don’t know what to do here. Do I go over the new boss’s head to our VP in these cases? I don’t know the new boss well enough to know how that will go over but I can’t imagine it will be good. Do I start cc’ing our VP when I send emails with regulations and my questions? In our corporate culture that is often interpreted as aggressive. I dunno, I need help and for some reason this scares me. But the frustration is coming to a head and I’m aware I need to step up and speak up in a more impactful way.

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u/2workigo — 9 days ago

It’s nerve-racking when your box arrives like this.

Fortunately all was well but I was definitely cursing as I was carrying it into the house. ;)

u/2workigo — 9 days ago

52 yo. I’ve been battling hyperpigmentation for a while. It seems to be getting worse. Current skincare includes:

* Vanicream face wash (AM & PM)

* AM Regimen Labs Vitamin X (have been using various vitamin C serums for years)

* AM Regimen Labs Level Serum (previously used Faded which may have worked better for me??)

* Eucerin Urea Face Cream (my ride or die!)

* CeraVe Invisible Mineral Sunscreen (chemical burns my eyes and I’m still looking for a holy grail mineral that doesn’t dry me out, make me super shiny, and plays well under makeup)

* PM Kojic acid serum (have used lactic acid but not sure it was effective, willing to give it another go)

* PM INKEY List Glycolic acid several times a week (or whatever brand I buy when one runs out)

* Various thicker moisturizers, whatever catches my fancy when I run out.

So, do I just bite the bullet and try a laser? Or maybe a peel? Are there any other products I should try? Not sure where to go next but this is really bothering me.

Also, if you have any suggestions for the puffiness under my eyes, I’d love to hear them!

u/2workigo — 18 days ago

A couple years ago I set out to find the right bras for me. At that time my measurements came out to 36G (US) or 36F (UK). I tried on no less than 50 bras and the ones that fit best were a weird brand from Amazon. I tried all possibilities from Victoria’s Secret, and a few from Freya, Elomi, and Panache - none fit right. The Amazon ones were listed as balconette but I’m not so sure they were true balconettes. I’ve always had problems with straps slipping off my shoulders but these bras were pretty ok.

I’ve since lost a little weight and a lot of volume from the top of my breasts. They’re more saggy and sad with more loose skin now. And I’m no longer filling the top portion of the supposed balconettes I’ve been wearing.

My new measurements come out to a 34DDD (US) or 34E (UK). I need support as I’m even more bottom heavy than before. I want lift and separation. I’m again looking at balconettes but I just know I’m going to have problems with the straps falling. Are there balconette type bras for sloped/narrow shoulder ladies? Should I be looking for a different style?

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u/2workigo — 23 days ago