u/6ixthLordJamal

For anyone applying in the Nebraska or Iowa area, what salary was offered? The range for the role is 78-118.

I was told that was the general range across the US but actually salary is location specific.

Also outside of sign on bonus and relocation. Did you receive any assistance with selling your home?

Feel free to DM.

Thanks,

Just finished this call with for an DCT II / Operation technician role.

Its hard to say how it went. My experience clears all the requirements but the interviewer seems a bit upset.

Almost like he was mad he had to take the call.

Anyways I updated my recruiter.

How long should I wait to hear back?

** Update **

I've been asked to verify my identity. Not from Google directly but from the Alphabet company. 🫣

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I M31 just married last month to my now wife F31. We've been dating for almost 2 years overcoming our differences and trauma.

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I do bring a toddler into the relationship with she was fine with.

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I try my best not to just be a weekend dad but I work and go to school fulltime.

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My one income is supporting multiple houses and still has to make time for date night and kid activities. Along with being the atm for various needs.

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Anyway things were toxic with my bm F28. We lied cheated fought etc. Forgave but didn't forget.

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Where i drew the line at was her reckless decisions and lack of motivation to do anything with herself.

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Our kid was her second and I'm also the father figure for her other kid since i was around while dating.

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I treat both kids the same and their mom with tough love.

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My relationship is fine but some reason I've found myself lusting after my bm. Not sure if its the stress or depression or self sabotage the Army has taught me.

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I caught myself plotting it like she didn't have a problem cheating on me with her other bd and he was married so why would i be any different.

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Anyway I need to get my shit together.

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Does this happen normally?

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TLDR: lusting after my bm after things didnt work out.

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As the titles states I'm seeking knowledge.

I just finished the BSCNE (WGU), and I'm trying to leave the help desk.

I have about 10 years of experience. 6 years military 4 years help desk/sys administrator.

How realistic is to land a network engineer role. I'm starting the CCNA journey next month but wanted to see how I hold up without it. See my other certs below.

Comptia CySA+, Cloud+, Security+, Network+, and A+.

Thoughts?

Hi all,

I’m looking to relocate in the next 6 month - 1.5 year.

Preferably to the Dallas Ft Worth Area. By the end of the year I’ll have 10ish years of IT experience MS/BS degree with a few certs as well.

I’m also 100% P&T. Can someone point me in the right direction?

I (American blk M) have been dating this woman (Kenyan) for over a year now.

I’ve met other women who wanted to marry for citizenship etc. Never been interested but fully transparent about it in my relationship. (No secrets)

As much as I love her I can’t help but to wonder if she’s really committed to being in a relationship long term or until she’s stable in the US.

Things have been great over time. We talk, we go out, we have dinner together daily. We have deep conversations and discuss our future regularly.

However….

I don’t speak Swahili but I’ve learned a few phrases

Things what bring me discomfort are from previous situations.

I ran into situations where men will intentionally check to see if I understand what they’re saying and proceed to have a conversation in Swahili in attempts to ask prying questions.

Usually it’s like how long have you been here? Why are you dating an American? Can I have your number? We should go out or marry my friend from back home.

I only know because she tells me the watered down version of the story later. (Fully respect the honesty).

She’s explained to me the comfort of speaking her native language when talking to friends / family so I try not to be a 🍆 but it’s hard when you know people are talking around you.

Thoughts?

No new news that the job market sucks.

I’m down to my last 3 classes for the BSCNE degree (WGU).

Along side the included certs I’m adding CySA+ & CCNA.

I have 3 years doing L1-L3 work in a mid help desk role and a year of doing Sys Admin work. I also have 6 years of private sector experience (military)

I had initially planned to do a masters program after CCNA (procrastinated way too long) but now I’m curious if it’s worth it.

I feel like I’m at the end of my rope trying to escape the desk help.

Thoughts ?