Night out ruined by friends boyfriend. She still defended him.
Don't you just love it when you have fun night out, drinking with your gals, talking about anything and laughing your hearts out ? I do, I love the happy hormones releasing into my brain.
We were talking about a new guy one of us started dating. He definitely is a looker so we complimented him. She is happy, we are happy. As we are still talking about how good they look together, a boyfriend of another friends comes to us. He listens to our convo and then has the biggest crashout.
Suddenly he is yelling at all of us, calling us names and slur. The bar gets quiet, everybody is watching. Now he is threatening us. Great. What does his gf do ? Trying to calm him down with measly "Babe, this isn't you 🥺."
He is only getting more and more agitated. He is foaming at his mouth and spitting at me as he is yelling.
Since he is not leaving, I do. I get up and pack my things, other girls do too. The girl with the rabid boyfriend asks us why are we leaving. We tell her that none of us want to be berated by her boyfriend. She finaly tells him to fuck off and he leaves. But we are also leaving, nobody is realy in good mood after being threatened by grown me that he is going to punch us.
In car she tells us it's our fault. We apparently provoked him because he is self-counscious about his looks.
Excuse me ?!?!?!
It's not my job to accomodate his low self esteem. He came to US in the middle of OUR convo. If he didn't like it he could have just fucked off.
She is now playing the victim. We are apparely too sensitive for wanting to leave because he is always like that and we should get used to it.
If you want to suffer please do continue but don't involve innocent bystanders into it.