u/AITAHbdayforgotten26

bamboo? silk? what’s your favorite and from where? Estimate cost range?

I usually run colder at night during winter and ok during summer. my husband sweats and is oily (i used to wash my sheets like once a month because I literally don’t sweat and I’m asian - one of the ones who don’t have BO). but quickly found he makes a body print of oil when I don’t wash more frequently. so any feed back or recs based on this would also be appreciated.

i have decent money and willing to buy a costly one if it’s worth it, but I would hate to spend hundreds on something that I don’t even feel outperforms my 35$ amazon basics.

My bday was during the week and I was working 36 hr shift. He didn’t call or text happy bday and forgot it.

Well, today he suddenly remembered and had my son make a bday card to give me. He also went into his cousin’s “stash” of purses and gave me a YSL purse (not my style) as a bday gift. I said I was more offended by his gift than not getting anything.

quick background on this “stash”: a month ago I stumbled on this black COACH bag. Despite how we are both high income, I don’t own a single “luxury“ bag. (I’m not a huge bag person, and I don’t really see a point of brand name products, but wouldn’t mind them). So I ran out with the bag and was like “ooooo did you get me a COACH bag????”. he told me no, his cousin shipped some bags to him from china to sell in America (idky, maybe import tax or whatever). I said wow the first time a brand name bag making it into our home, and it’s because you were storing it for your cousin (and possibly illegal). today, he went into the stash (idk how many there are, maybe 10?) and picked out a bag and was like “i realize we forgot your bday so here is a purse for your bday.” i asked if it was from the “stash” and got upset when he confirmed it. Told him I didn’t want it

1. am I the jerk for not being appreciative and not accepting it?
2. I am bad with words and feelings, if you think my feelings are valid, could you help me more eloquently explain my feelings?

edit: The “stash” is actually from the counterfeit that his cousin sells but then are returned but the returning process costs more than the product is worth. So he told his customers to return the bags to OUR home. So he picked a bag from 4 return counterfeit products!!!

My bday was during the week and I was working 36 hr shift. He didn’t call or text happy bday and forgot it.

Well, today he suddenly remembered and had my son make a bday card to give me. He also went into his cousin’s “stash” of purses and gave me a YSL purse (not my style) as a bday gift. I said I was more offended by his gift than not getting anything.

quick background on this “stash”: a month ago I stumbled on this black COACH bag. Despite how we are both high income, I don’t own a single “luxury“ bag. (I’m not a huge bag person, and I don’t really see a point of brand name products, but wouldn’t mind them). So I ran out with the bag and was like “ooooo did you get me a COACH bag????”. he told me no, his cousin shipped some bags to him from china to sell in America (idky, maybe import tax or whatever). I said wow the first time a brand name bag making it into our home, and it’s because you were storing it for your cousin (and possibly illegal). today, he went into the stash (idk how many there are, maybe 10?) and picked out a bag and was like “i realize we forgot your bday so here is a purse for your bday.” i asked if it was from the “stash” and got upset when he confirmed it.

1. AIO for not being appreciative?
2. I am bad with words and feelings, if you think my feelings are valid, could you help me more eloquently explain my feelings?

The “stash” is actually from the counterfeit that his cousin sells but then are returned but the returning process costs more than the product is worth. So he told his customers to return the bags to OUR home. So he picked a bag from 4 return counterfeit products!!!