u/AMoMmy22

So initially I wanted to wait for September to start trying so that baby is born when my youngest is 2.9. If I start from July is that 2 months really a big difference. The reason for wanting to push it up is that my oldest starts
Primary school in September next year and I really do not want her to have too much change in a short space of time (new sibling and new school) I’d have loved to have a July or august baby but if we try from say July we have May- September to settle in. I worry that my youngest wouldn’t be old enough and closer to three is best? Or wait till 2028 to have baby but I’ll be 34 and would like to have my kids before 35 :)

So MIL has gotten worse as my kids age and she caused me some major post
Issues after my second so I know I already just go in defensive.

She is Italian and language is a barrier but I accept if I’ve misunderstood.

Today we go to the pub with my 3.4 year old and 19 month old. I’ve put the baby in the seat got coloring for both and got some wiggles on my phone started in case. I’ve barely sat down, noticed baby is trying to chew the table and put it in my head that it’s clean I’ve wiped it ill move her now. Lazy MiL from across the table says “ ma no non (in the mouth) in Italian)” and I snapped I said wtf do you want me to do !
My thoughts she’s a toddler and it’s not the bin, I’ll get her tether in a second. So I got up to cool down in the loo cause I have a sharp tongue when escalated.

Do you see my frustration in her constantly pointing out what my kids are doing? Like I don’t know or won’t sort it? It was a table!

Officially going to star trying for our last baby in September!! 3.5 months to wait!