u/Able_Firefighter468

Baat ye ha k mein ho gyi hun pagal

Mere bus ki baat nai ha

Ye ho kya raha ha

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Idk if this fits here but I have this habit of mentally giving people some chances like if I get disrespected a certain number of times I cut them off. And sadly now I have no friends left . I just know a bunch of people that's it. I thought for quite some time that I am doing a great thing by cutting off toxic people but now I don't know I feel like I am the problem. I had so many friends like so many. But I was a giant people pleaser then. I really don't know

How do I deal with this?

How do I know when cutting people off is healthy?

Like I can't forget anyone who did me dirty and it's messing up with my mental health so bad

Hi everyone, I hope you’re doing well(which you are probably not after exams). I’m in a confusing situation and would really appreciate sincere advice. I’m from Lahore but couldn’t get admission in the Lahore campus of FAST, so I joined the Islamabad campus and I’m currently living in a hostel. So far, my experience hasn’t been great socially(everyone is just so miserable here and I HATE people who don't make an effort to make their situation better and just cry), and now I’m considering whether I should apply for a transfer back to Lahore if possible. I’m confused because both options have pros and cons for me: staying in Islamabad gives me independence and hostel experience, which I do value, but transferring to Lahore means being back with my family and possibly better focus on studies, although I would lose some independence. My social life in both places isn’t very strong, but I feel more isolated in Islamabad, so I’m really unsure what to choose and would really appreciate any advice from people who have been in a similar situation.