u/Acceptable_Ask_2986

My best friend got put away in jail on some serious accusations. I know she would never do what shes accused of. But since she got put away in jail my phone has been silent. I miss having messages in my inbox to have a conversation with. Im looking for someone with an open mind so I can talk about my situation. Preferrably in their 30s so i know this person has life experience. Feel free to message me.

My wife and I have been married for 10 years now. Over the course of 10 years our marriage has changed drastically. Even as individuals we have changed. We have been caught in a vicious cycle of having good days to suddenly we have extreme arguments that just push each other away. In the past, and even recently, She has told me she wants to seperate. This last time I told her we will and it might be for the best. Later in the same conversation, She tells me she still wants to try to work things out. My dumb brain felt an obligation to agree and just say yeah, Knowing its not really what I want. How do I rid myself of the obligated feelings and proceed with breaking the news that a seperation/divorce is what I want?