u/Acceptable_Wall_908

So it sounds ridiculous but this is 100% true and happened just last week. For context, me and this girl(I’ll call her Bff) are in our final year of school, we both have been friends for 3 years and we do everything together. I was there for her when her parents got a divorce. She was here for me when my uncle and grandparents passed away. So it’s safe to say we are really close and it’s not rare for people to mistake us as a couple.

Anyways, this semester has been pushing weight on me a lot. I have probably the hardest classes in the school, tests every few days, I study for hours everyday and that now means I don’t have much time to talk or hangout with bff.

So just last week she dropped by unannounced, luckily my parents weren’t home and I led her to my room where I of course was studying. It was quiet, I was focused and locked in and she notices and doesnt like that. So her big brain idea was to grab my Lego Bugatti Chiron and hold it above her head. I, the ever so sane person reacted quick and stood up to grab it back. She kept back backing away and I didn’t want to do anything rash that would make her drop the set so I just took steps closer, and closer until she was fully backed up agaisnt the wall and unable to move and I took the chance to grab the set. But I however didn’t know just how close I really was because this girls ears were genuinely so red that I thought she was bleeding. Then I looked further down and realized why that is. Children, close your eyes or wtv because her breasts were so pressed against my abdomen that I thought she got a flat tire for a split second. Like the gentleman I am, I backed away and put the set on its rightful place on my desk.

I tried to ignore the fact that I was pressed up on her like that and I just sat down. So 20 minutes passed in silence when I hear her shuffling around. I turn around and she has this expression on her face that I have never seen before. It was like a half playful smile but I could tell she was nervous as hell.

I don’t want to get into the person details but one thing led to another and we were getting prepared to do “it.” And just a heads up, i wear baggy clothes. Like my whole closet is full of baggy clothes, so when I took my jeans off, I guess she expected skinny legs or whatever but no, they were apparently not. And I don’t understand why she was surprised. I run, I play soccer a lot. I work my legs out a shit ton and she knows this so I don’t know what the hell was going on in that head of hers but it certainly wasn’t “oh I knew this was happening.”

So a few hours pass. She took a shower and I was leading her downstairs to the door, i dont have a car otherwise I would have dropped her off but Yk, im broke. So she left but has been more distant. So im texting her because im genuinely worried I did something wrong. She gives me vague answers and bland responses. “Im fine” “yeah” “it’s good” and allat. So I text a friend of hers and ask her a favour to ask if I had done anything wrong and I will just copy and paste what she texted back.

“So I texted her”
“She said your thighs were bigger than hers”
“Thats it”

So im here thinking “the fuck?” Shes upset I have thunder thighs or smth?

Update(she texted me)

So literally a few minutes ago she texted. Asked if we’re gonna go to Tim Hortons for lunch like we usually do on Monday’s/Fridays. Dont know why she texted this out of the blue considering she’s been so distant. She used the humour she usually does when texting. Word for word: “broski, we going tims or not???🥺.” Im still going to ask her tmrw morning why shes been so different. It could be i didnt “feel good” enough, it could be that I just took her virginity. Not sure, dont think I ever will be. hopefully it’s nothing too tragic. She could be lying about the thighs like one of the comments did say, that thought had crossed my mind, im not stupid but she didn’t have to lie about it considering she’s always honest to people with many other things about how she feels. I’ll update tomorrow and I’ll try to do it soon as possible

I wanna promote my Batman who laughs but as we all know, promoting metal cards, you’ll always need more than one extra card. So what are the chances to pull two metal cards from either an 800 pack or 400 pack

1. Ra’s Al-Ghul. Probably one of my favourite villains. It could be just a prime Ra’s or an Arkham Ra’s to be better with other Arkham characters. Hus ability would be a resurrection but he comes back with 50% health only but a 150% damage increase and two bars of power because the Lazurus pit makes the user moe dangerous. If it were the Arkham version, other Arkham teammates can resurrect with 25% health but keep the power they had when they were KO

2. Arkham City Solomon Grundy. Probably yhe best boss fight in the game. More electrical abilities to match the boss fight in the game and the ability could also be resurrection

3. Flashpoint Cyborg. Cyborg is a really overlooked character imo and they did him dirty in Injustice mobile. Having another Cyborg would be so sick and would give way more possibilities for the already insane Flashpoint team. I would think his ability could match SS Deadshot with the SS team with background help

4. Any robin variant, we have Dick Grayson and Damian Wayne as nightwing but imagine Tim Drake or Carrie Kelly. This could also branch into The Red Hood instead of only having Jason Todd as The Arkham Knight

5. Supergirl. Pretty self explanatory. Super(pun intended) underrated character. Ik shes in the second game but having different variants of her in this game would be awesome.

Before I start i wanna say i dont hate second son at all. I love the game, story, gameplay and was very excited when i figured out there was more to release after infamous 2. Second son really used all aspects of the ps4 and I will always have a special place for it in my heart

Anyways, for whoever did finish all games or at least the main three, you’ll know that >!Cole died by using the RFI to kill every conduit so nothing bad would happen if someone gained powers from theyre genes as a conduit. It said that all conduits died but when second son released it instead said that only ten percent of conduits were still alive.!<

Now I don’t hate that, it gave the series more story but at the same time it feels like it kinda undermines Cole’s full efforts and what his sacrifice meant

I can’t be the only one who feels this way, right?

So basically this has been going on as long as I can remember. For example an hour ago everyone is eating dinner, normal family stuff then my eldest brother asks my mom if he can have the car tmrw, my other brother says he doesn’t need the car bc his friend will pick him up bc they will be going to Hang out, my sister and dad have work and me and my mom will be home. My mom turns to me and asks why I don’t just hang out with my brother and his friends, and I need to say that I don’t like hanging out with my brothers friends. We have a two year age gap, all of them are in university and im in the 11 grade. I do talk with some of them but i wouldnt want to make it awkward. So, I refuse to hangout with my brothers friends tmrw morning and basically tell my family that I would rather stay home then hangout with people i dont even know the names to. My sister tells me I don’t have friends which is just false. My mom says i need to socialize more. Dad and eldest brother tell me it’s embarrassing for me, a 16 year old boy to not have friends. I told them I just don’t want to hang out with these people. Anyways, a few hours prior to this I told both my mom and dad I would go hang out with my friend on august 20th because thats when he is free, and during the dinner conversation my dad just starts making fun of me in a condescending tone, telling my siblings word for word this: “oh dont worry, he’s going with his friend on the 20th as if that will make up for him being a introvert”(he said this all in Urdu but thats just a sure fact) I got a lil mad, stood up, told them im tired and went to bed.

This wasn’t a one time thing. This is just one of many example. I will try putting an input while everyone is talking and I will just be ignored or hushed condescendingly. I will stutter a bit and they will tell the whole extended family I have a stutter. They have made fun of the way I talk, mess things up on accident and because of all this ive gotten shy and embarrassed to even talk to people in public to the point they make fun of that now also. They started three years ago to make fun of my unsocial behaviour at shops or restaurants as if it isnt their fault im quiet and barely talk to anyone, even cousins, aunts and uncles.

I don’t know how to even bring this up to my family without anyone ignoring me or just hushing me. I’ve tried talking with them about other problems i face but they would act as if my problems don’t matter.

Im starting to get more shy and shut in by the day and im now worried about myself because we just moved houses and im going to a new school where I don’t know anyone and im scared I won’t be able to build friendships with anyone new because of how antisocial and quiet I’ve gotten

So a bit of background, I’m in my senior years of high school and I like meeting people online. I love meeting people online, even though it can be dangerous but I just like hearing peoples experiences from other countries.

So not long ago, I think maybe mid November, I was just on a server on discord which is rare for me since i usually meet people off video games, but then I get a random DM from this girl who I’ll call “N”, so N is a year younger than me, lives in Italy, I live in North America, so already I knew “a relationship isn’t possible with distance like this” on top of that, I’m not one whos ready for a relationship and ON TOP OF THAT, we both are Muslim, so I thought this could just be somebody I can chat with for fun. So around five six week later, she tells me that she like me, an again, im not someone who wants an online relationship, but to my surprise she tells me she doesn’t want a relationship but she couldn’t hide something like this from me, so I said thats totally fine, it’s okay, I guess where I went wrong was that I did not tell her im not ready for a relationship either especially one online. So fast forward, we’ve made mutual friends also, small little online friend group, she hasn’t told anyone in this group she likes me, i didnt plan on telling anyone because it just isn’t right. But one day she texts me on instagram and I’ll just say word for word what happened:

N: Hii, you awake?
Me: wsg?
N: I need to tell you something?
Me: what?
N: I know ive told you before, I like you, and I also said I don’t want a relationship, and you told me that’s fine. Well now I think I fell for you more, would you be my boy friend?

Now, I don’t consider myself overly attractive, but it’s not extremely rare I’ve gotten asked out, and I’ve always politely declined everyone whos asked, and im not gonna treat N like shes a charity case I need to say yes too, and on a side note, N is attractive. I won’t lie and I have told her this before but that doesn’t mean I find her someone I want to be with. So I reply with this:

“Sorry, N, you’re a nice, and pretty person but I just don’t see you more than a friend. Im also not ready for a relationship. I hope you still want to be my friend”

Tbh, she did not like that response at all. She instantly got mad or at least thats what I thought by the tone of her messages, she was calling me slurs, insulting me, telling me I led her on by being nice??? I thought being nice was something everyone does, just because someone’s nice doesn’t mean they like you. Anyways, after she insulted me, she quite literally blocked me on everything and left the group chat. So I got mad because I felt she was overreacting, i text a mutual friend to send a message though them and I said:

“You’re really blocking me in everything because I don’t want a relationship with you? Real mature. Im not ready for a relationship in real life so why would I want one online? Maybe I should have told you I don’t want a relationship beforehand but dont you dare mistake mt kindness as ‘flirting’”

So the mutual friend told N this, N told everyone I led her on, I left the group chat, not as a dramatic exit but because N was in the GC and was good friends with everyone and I didn’t want to ruin everyone’s friendships bc of this.

Im still friends with all of them except N of course but here’s a lil moral of the story, dont get too attached with people online

So, AITAH?