u/AccomplishedGur2601

Hello, I am dating a guy from the army for 8 months now. Hes honestly great and so loving even over text. He makes time for me to call me whenever he can, he comes to see me whenever he can even if its for a day (even tho we live in cities that are far) and when he is with me he is so great. But there are times when he disappear and he always has a reason. But twice or thrice now he disappeared without telling me bcs he was stressed or burnt out and he needed space. Which is ok, few days ago we met after a long time we both had vacations and after that we went back ( i went back to college he went back to training). He told me he has this special military course this semester and his routine will be 2x worse and i understood that. We were still chatting for 4-5 days at night then suddenly he said ill brb and he disappeared for 4 days. He randomly texted me and explained he is going thru some shit and he didnt feel like talking to me. I consoled him bcs he told me what happened. He said he loves me he is not going to leave me and he will be back once hes better i said ok then he hung up saying he will call me later. NOW THE ISSUE IS THAT HE IS ACTIVE ON INSTAGRAM AND SNAPCHAT but he has been ignoring all of my calls and texts like i dont even exist and it hurts so much ive been crying alot. Whats going on?

Um i never thought id be sharing this here but i am in ldr with an army man we have been together for 8 months now and hes great he makes time for me he calls me whenever he can and he comes to see me whenever he gets a day off even though we live far. So hes great but whenever he is under stress he kind of ghosts me and i get so anxious here and insecure that hes leaving me. Recently we met and then we both went back to life. He is so loving when hes near me anyways we went back and he ghosted me after 3 days, i kept texting him so he randomly responded one day and told me that hes alright hes just stressed (smth happened he told me) i tried to console him and he said he is not going to leave me he loves me etc. Then i called him the next day he was so dry but he said i will be ok once this is over (he also has a special course going on this semester which was already tiring him before he ghosted me).
Now the issue is this time his disappearance has prolonged than usual and i constantly see him using snapchat and instagram but he ignores all my texts and calls like they dont exist. What do i do