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Edit: This argument might not be valid. I’m not saying this is 100% correct, it’s a thought experiment.

Doesn’t human development start from a female baseline?

Before sex differentiation occurs embryos follow a common developmental path that is more similar to the female pathway. If male development does not begin the body develops in the same direction. Even men have nipples because they form before sex differentiation takes place and we know they don’t have a major biological function.

Like nature starts with the female form first and then later decides whether male development happens.
And then there’s the chromosome side of it. The Y chromosome (Male differentiator) is tiny compared to the X and mostly acts like a switch that triggers male development.

I was reading some of the recent posts and discussions here and they made me question two common claims I keep seeing that gynarchy is non-hierarchical and that it is not reverse patriarchy. I want to know your opinions about these two claims.

Consider this manifesto discussion for example:

https://www.reddit.com/r/SeriousGynarchy/comments/1fwpjed/a_manifesto_of_sorts_my_personal_thoughts_on_the/

I honestly do not see how we can say “women should hold all positions of power and authority within a government, society, community and family unit (Principle 1)” while also claiming there is “no hierarchy.”

If women have final decision-making power and are structurally placed above men in family or governance then that is hierarchy. It may not be the same kind of hierarchy as patriarchy. It may be less violent, less individualistic, less capitalist or more caring. But it is still hierarchy.

I think some people try to avoid this by redefining hierarchy as only meaning domination, cruelty or oppression. But that is not what hierarchy means. A hierarchy is simply an ordered structure of rank or authority. A captain or leader and first mate are in a hierarchy even if the captain is kind, competent, and accountable. A mother-led household can be hierarchical even if it is loving and caring.

So I think based on the manifesto and general understanding in this subreddit we should not say or imply that gynarchy has no hierarchy if it also says "women hold authority". That is contradictory.

The more honest argument would be

“Gynarchy is hierarchical but it is a female-centered hierarchy intended to be more ethical, relational, and caring than patriarchy.”

That is coherent. People can agree or disagree with it but it does not hide the power structure.

The same issue applies to the labor point (Principle 7) in the manifest. If the proposal is that women decide who does what work then again that is authority. It is not non-hierarchical. It may be consensus-based among women but unless men have equal authority in that decision-making process, the society still has a gendered hierarchy.

This does not necessarily destroy gynarchist thought but it does mean gynarchists need to be more clear about what they are proposing.

I also don’t think the point some make that “this is not reverse patriarchy” really works in terms of hierarchy and status the structure. It is reversed. Obviously it is not identical to patriarchy in every sense.

Principle 2 says men will be “subjugated to the authority of women as inferior subordinates.”

I know some gynarchists might disagree with parts of this manifesto and I know there are softer interpretations of gynarchy but I still think the core issue about hierarchy and authority remains the same.

So we could honestly say “Yes, this is a female-led hierarchy and I think it is justified.” That would be coherent. But claiming it is non-hierarchical does not fit the manifesto’s own wording or the dominated understanding in the subreddit.

This was originally a comment, so I should probably give some context first. The discussion was about how rights and privileges would work in a gynarchic society, and how far a society like that could realistically go in giving women more authority or social advantages over men.

Let me start with inheritance. If the answer is "no, sons and daughters should not get equal shares" then the system that makes sense to me is this. Daughters inherit the core family assets, the land, the family home, the family business. Sons receive a smaller share, but not nothing. For example they can receive 5%, with a maximum cap so they are not given too much and the purpose of the system is not undermined. However, the entire economy around this should be regulated and authorized which I will discuss further.

They receive it when they become adults, and it's meant to be used for building their own life, education, learning a trade. This does not prevent them from being productive or successful, they can still work, rise or serve as the CEO of a company owned by their maternal line. A family council run by the women of the family oversees how it's used. The point is not to leave sons with nothing. The point is that sons don't get equal control over wealth that needs to last across generations. The reason is women carry the physical burden of having and raising the next generation and other reasons which we discussed before. Because of that, they have a deeper stake in keeping the family's material foundation intact over time.

Now apply that same logic to everything else. The version of gynarchy I could actually defend to a doubtful person is not about making men disposable. It's about making sure the default flow of authority and resources runs through women. Inheritance tilts toward the mother's line. Custody of young children defaults to the mother with fathers having clear but secondary rights.

For example the father can be given the right to visit in a limited way (once a week etc). This helps us not to destroy the man. I'll explain further.

That's the version I can make a case for to a reasonable person.

Now let me paint "too far," since you asked.

The moment gynarchy stops being a system for running society and starts being payback, it loses everyone except the people who already agree with you. Here are my lines.

If a man can't own things, can't make agreements, can't be heard in court, can't have his body protected by law, that's not a healthy society. But there is a middle ground that makes the difference between a working system and an abusive one. In a gynarchy, a man's legal standing doesn't come from himself. It flows through the woman or women he is connected to, his mother, his wife, or the women's council of his community. He can make contracts because the woman who stands for him allows it. He can own property but the final title traces back to the mother's line. He has rights, but those rights are not self-given. They are granted and recognized by female authority that gave them life in the first place. Being dependent is not the same as having no rights. A child has legal rights without being legally independent. A man in gynarchy holds a similar position. He is protected, treated with dignity, able to function but he is not the one in charge. A man has the right to have essentials of life and the law should protect it.

The moment you force anything on a man's body, forced sexual service, forced reproduction, you've crossed a line. A society led by women should be the one that protects bodily freedom most seriously.

If a woman freely chooses a male partner, a normal family setup, or a traditional life and the system punishes her for it, then you've just built a new set of rules policing women, exactly like the old ones but from the other direction. The whole point of women being in charge should be giving women real choices, not replacing one approved way of living. A woman who wants a husband and three kids in a house with a yard is not a traitor. She's a woman using the very freedom that gynarchy claims to protect. The only difference is that there are no societal structures forcing it on women rather that subset of women has happily chosen it.

A gynarchic system must still be able to describe what a good life for men looks like within it. The purpose of granting men basic protected rights is not to center men but to preserve the stability and moral authority of women’s rule. Men should be protected from physical harm, cruelty, and needless suffering because a well-ordered society benefits women most when those under its authority are healthy and able to serve constructively. Protecting men’s basic well-being ultimately protects the women they serve and the system women lead.

At the end I believe no system is perfect, it can always be refined and fine-tuned over time. We can measure and examine the success of the society by taking and giving rights and move from there.

Serious question for people who truly support gynarchy and female superiority. Where do you personally think the limits should be? What is "fair" eventually.

I’m not talking about slogans or just the aesthetic of “women in charge.” I mean actual rights, laws, and social structure.

For example:

Should sons and daughters receive equal inheritance?

Should men have the same voting power as women?

Should fathers have equal parental rights?

If a woman assaults a man and a man assaults a woman, should the punishment be the same in both cases? (or theft and public crimes)

Should men and women be treated equally when it comes to social services and public support systems? For example if resources are limited should women receive priority access to housing assistance, financial aid, unemployment support, crisis aid, educational opportunities, or government benefits over men?

Is there a universal law that treats them equal or you want to have first and second class citizens in every aspect, where do you draw the line?

I ask because people seem to envision very different end goals. Some describe a more balanced and structured female-led society inclined towards the philosophy of feminity and masculinity while others push things to the extent that it starts sounding more like a fantasy than an actually applicable social framework and some just express an emotional notion.

So what does the ideal version actually look like to you?

Hey everyone 👋

I’m 26M and looking for chill places to play chess in Sharjah or Dubai. Cafés, clubs, parks. I’m more of a casual/intermediate player, mostly playing for fun and good games.

Would love recommendations for active spots with a friendly vibe. If anyone here plays and wants to meet up for a few games sometime feel free to DM

Hi everyone,

This is something I’ve been struggling with and thinking about lately.

Why is finding the truth so difficult? It feels like getting to it often involves years of study, questioning mainstream religions, interpretations, hadith literature and going through a long, confusing process.

If God wants people to find the truth, why isn’t it clearer? Why do people have to go through doubt and contradictions just to feel like they’re getting closer to it?

For those who’ve gone through this kind of process, rejecting certain beliefs, rethinking what you were taught, and trying to hold onto faith in a different way, how do you make sense of it?

Is the difficulty part of the test? Or is there another way to understand it? And how does all of this reconcile with God’s mercy if the result of not finding it is hell?