u/AccurateArcher1101

Looking for advice

My husbands mother who he has been no contact with on and off for the last 20 years recently was diagnosed with cancer. He is currently no contact w her, but of course feels guilty now after hearing the news from a family member. He would prefer to stay no contact with her given their history together, but fears regretting it later. Without going into too much detail, he has definitely tried to reconcile the relationship several times over the last decade that we have been together. We have children together now and only our oldest knows her, but he has told our child that she is overseas so he doesn’t keep asking about her.

For those who have been in similar situations, what would you have liked from your spouse for support? How did you feel if you were no contact and your parent ended up passing?

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u/AccurateArcher1101 — 3 days ago

Team green possibly ruined

Pregnant w my 4th. Currently have 3 boys. Although I felt like this pregnancy is also a boy, I wanted to wait until birth to find out. At my anatomy scan yday, through out the scan, the dr would ref to baby as “baby”, but after the legs, the Dr. said “his legs look good.” So I feel like she accidentally slipped… at this point, should I just look for myself?? Obv very trivial question, but just curious what you have done/would do in my situation.

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u/AccurateArcher1101 — 13 days ago

Anyone other pregnant mommas feeling this way? I’m 20 weeks and for the last couple of weeks, my emotions have been so up and down. Feel like crying half the time. Nothing in particular I’m even sad about. Just emotional and weepy… not my first pregnancy and I don’t remember feeling this way in my previous pregnancies.

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u/AccurateArcher1101 — 15 days ago

Hello, we are going to become a family of 6 in the fall. Kids will be 7 and under. How do you all plan for lodging when traveling in hotels? Any travel tips for air, boat, and lodging to share?? Thanks!

We likely won’t be the camping type, maybe a couple times, but that won’t be our primary form of vacation. Prefer hotels with pools, would like to fly to Hawaii at some point, and may be open to cruises.

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u/AccurateArcher1101 — 21 days ago