u/Acrobatic_Opinion575

I'm 42f and just started dating a guy a month ago. He's so sexy in every way. I'm so into him. He tells me he finds me sexy, all the time. Our chemistry is off the charts. But. He asked me if I like to dance. I said "I don't know, not really, but maybe at weddings or on big nights". Honestly, I hate dancing. It gives me such anxiety. I always feel like I don't know what I'm doing. I feel so insecure about it. Now this guy has suggested we do some sort of latin dance class together as a fun couple activity. And I'm worried we'll go out one night or go to a wedding and he'll see me dance. This could be years into the future and I'm already dying inside over it. I've thought about going and taking an evening class. But it must makes me cringe so hard. Guys, have you ever dated a bad dancer and what were your thoughts? What's your advice?

My 43F partner 43M of one month has big trust issues based on previous relationships. I use Whatsapp for communicating with my friends and family. My partner became sensitive or jealous about my male best friend a week ago. I started deleting texts my friend had sent me that - while totally innocent - I worried could make my partner feel like I cared about my male friend too much. I don't think I do, but I was worried about losing my partner. Nothing has ever or will happen with my friend. Anyway, in a moment of panic I just deleted my entire chat history with my friend. Then I realised that makes the situation look even worse, so I deleted WhatsApp from my phone and reinstalled it from the last backup, so I could get my friends messages back. When I did this I lost three weeks worth of messages and that's when the last backup was. I think if my partner went through my phone he'd notice this. Also my partner tried to send me a photo message while we were on the phone while my Whatsapp was reloading (which took 15mins) and so I told him I couldn't see his photo message because my Whatsapp was reloading. And he said "did you delete it to erase messages" to which I said no. If he asks again in the future, what's a simple, easy to understand explanation for why I deleted and reinstalled WhatsApp? Can I just say I went to restore a backup and it was from 3 weeks ago? Why would anyone restore a backup? Thanks heaps

My (43F) partner has severe trust issues based on previous relationships. I use Whatsapp for communicating with my friends and family. My partner became sensitive or jealous about my male best friend. I started deleting texts my friend had sent me that - while totally innocent - I worried could make my partner feel like I cared about my male friend too much. I don't think I do, but I was worried about losing my partner. Nothing has ever or will happen with my friend. Anyway, in a moment of panic I just deleted my entire chat history with my friend. Then I realised that makes the situation look even worse, so I deleted WhatsApp from my phone and reinstalled it from the last backup, so I could get my friends messages back. When I did this I lost three weeks worth of messages. I think if my partner went through my phone he'd notice this. Also my partner tried to send me a photo message while we were on the phone while my Whatsapp was reloading (which took 15mins) and so I told him I couldn't see his photo message because my Whatsapp was reloading. And he said "did you delete it to erase messages" to which I said no. If he asks again in the future, what's a simple, easy to understand explanation for why I deleted and reinstalled WhatsApp? Can I just say I went to restore a backup and it was from 3 weeks ago? Why would anyone restore a backup? Thanks heaps