Fwb feels like more than that

I am a 17F and my fwb is a 18m. I first met him while I was with my ex and we became acquaintances, we only got close when me and my ex broke up about a month ago. Me and my fwb randomly started talking about craving intimacy and missing being close to somebody and he eventually asked me if I wanted to be fwb and I said yes. We both agreed to stop if we decided to be loyal to whoever else we talked to romantically and we both agreed to have no feelings involved. But I feel like he has feelings for me.

  1. We were talking about wanting kids in the future. He says how he wants to be a girl dad or wtv and says he’s gonna baby trap me (it’s a joke he’s always high and just says wtv comes to mind) I tell him that I wanna start having kids when I’m 25+. I asked him when do you wanna have kids. He says within the next 10 years or whenever you’re ready 🫩

  2. He gets upset when I leave him on seen or don’t initiate conversation that much.

  3. He asked me if it was okay for him to say “I love you” when having sex.

  4. I went over to his house a few days ago to have sex. And after we did it he said that he wants our next hangout to not be having sex the whole time. (He’s said how he wants to watch movies with me, wants me to do his skincare, and wants to play fort with me)

  5. After having sex, we cuddled but he was still kissing all over my neck/face (and the kisses weren’t lustful, they were really gentle) and he was running his hands up and down my back after it as well.

I think that’s all I got that made me think that he likes me so far. But I also have this thing where I made a list of qualities my dream boyfriend should have and he filled up like a little less than half of it. And like idk. I asked him if he’s afraid of commitment and he said he was due to bad experiences and not feeling like he can be loyal to a girl rn. I feel like us dating could be a possibility but we both aren’t ready for it and I dont wanna ruin what we have now. But he sending me so many mixed signals it’s so confusing. I’ve told my friends about these things and most of them say he is saying a lot of things you wouldn’t say to a fwb.

Is all that he’s saying signs that he would date me or am I overthinking it?

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u/AdActual3168 — 17 hours ago

Window lock

Does anyone know how to open this 😭. I tried hammering it side to side thinking it would open it. It had a little metal part in it that I took out thinking it would open it and it still hasn’t pls help
Can somebody give me advice 🥹

u/AdActual3168 — 7 days ago

Affirmation routine

Im new to manifesting and i just wanted to see if im in the right path ig. I do robotic affirmations, subliminals and a little bit of scripting. My daily routine is basically waking up doing 10 mins of robotic affirmations (I have like 14 affirmations I do, idk if that’s too much or if the amount even matters) I do a manifestation list everyday as well of 5 things I hope to manifest before the end of the week. And then at night before going to sleep I do another set of robotic affirmations (I end up going to sleep at around 1 am idk if that is important) and listen to subliminals while asleep also. Idk if there’s anything I should add to my routine or if there’s anything to take off 😋

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u/AdActual3168 — 13 days ago

I need help 🥹

Ok so I’m relatively new to manifesting (started about 3 weeks ago) and I need help manifesting an sp. After a breakup with a bf I got into manifesting to try to manifest him back but I decided against it and am just leaving it up to fate. I’m trying to manifest my dream boyfriend rn (I have written down in specific detail and in bullet points all the characteristics and behaviors I want from him as well as how we’ll be as a couple) I’m manifesting him from thin air basically but my ex keeps popping up in my dreams. Is that a sign of anything or is that normal? (For context me and this ex broke up about a month ago and he was in a lot of my dreams in the first of second week but it stopped happening until like two days ago. Idk if it’s relevant but we’re also no contact) also my ex shares a lot of the characteristics I want in my dream boyfriend 😔
Edit: I think it’s important to know that I still kinda want to be with my ex again but with both of us being better people
Edit 2: guys can somebody pls give advice 🥹

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u/AdActual3168 — 13 days ago