Fwb feels like more than that
I am a 17F and my fwb is a 18m. I first met him while I was with my ex and we became acquaintances, we only got close when me and my ex broke up about a month ago. Me and my fwb randomly started talking about craving intimacy and missing being close to somebody and he eventually asked me if I wanted to be fwb and I said yes. We both agreed to stop if we decided to be loyal to whoever else we talked to romantically and we both agreed to have no feelings involved. But I feel like he has feelings for me.
We were talking about wanting kids in the future. He says how he wants to be a girl dad or wtv and says he’s gonna baby trap me (it’s a joke he’s always high and just says wtv comes to mind) I tell him that I wanna start having kids when I’m 25+. I asked him when do you wanna have kids. He says within the next 10 years or whenever you’re ready
He gets upset when I leave him on seen or don’t initiate conversation that much.
He asked me if it was okay for him to say “I love you” when having sex.
I went over to his house a few days ago to have sex. And after we did it he said that he wants our next hangout to not be having sex the whole time. (He’s said how he wants to watch movies with me, wants me to do his skincare, and wants to play fort with me)
After having sex, we cuddled but he was still kissing all over my neck/face (and the kisses weren’t lustful, they were really gentle) and he was running his hands up and down my back after it as well.
I think that’s all I got that made me think that he likes me so far. But I also have this thing where I made a list of qualities my dream boyfriend should have and he filled up like a little less than half of it. And like idk. I asked him if he’s afraid of commitment and he said he was due to bad experiences and not feeling like he can be loyal to a girl rn. I feel like us dating could be a possibility but we both aren’t ready for it and I dont wanna ruin what we have now. But he sending me so many mixed signals it’s so confusing. I’ve told my friends about these things and most of them say he is saying a lot of things you wouldn’t say to a fwb.
Is all that he’s saying signs that he would date me or am I overthinking it?