u/AdAnxious902

What people will suggest ways to meet are:

1.) social circles where friends set you up.

2.) Hobbies/acitivities you like to do

Both are huge problems. 1.) Most likely your friends dont have hundreds of female friends to set you up with and most of them are usually unattractive. So no use in using friends. Even if you do find someone and the date goes bad, it can ruin he friends circle.

2.) if you approach a girl in a hobby/activity and she complains for any reason even if your 1000% innocent, you will likely be kicked out of the hobby/activity and have your membership revoked.

3,) Cold approach doesn't work. 4.) bars/clubs dont work.

What the hell is there to do?

You may argue "well they aren't good options" But she is gonna go date them and she will always have an endless supply of men every hour of the day.

Reality is women default to the apps anyways especially when guys they like don't approach them. BY, the time a guy decides to approach them they are already in a relationship of dating seriously.

I have just seen multiple examples of this in my real life.

This is so unfair.

Boys, it over unless you pay $100 a month to get access to mediocre women already dating multiple guys so you end up being a number and she's basically a player.

There is always that fear that she may complain if you approach in person and if its he said/she said, society will ALWAYS BELIEVE HER.

everything is done online nowadays.

Am I wrong anywhere? Explain if you think so.

Simple question. I'll prob get perm banned for this but the question still stands.

It's obvious she was in a FWB relationship with platner and would let him come over when he wanted to or when she called him over. Even after the "rape" she tried to hook up with him some more.

Really? DSA? He should resign over this? This Is nothing more than cancel culture and the republicans won that war and it seems they are headed to another victory.

guy 1: She smiles at him, gives him prolonged eye contact, goes out of her way to introduce herself and strike up a conversation where in she asks questions about him, she's confident and herself around him

guy 2: She gets nervous, intimidated. If he says hi to her, her mind goes blank. She thinks about him when she is not around him continuously and is critical on herself for not being so confident and hoping she didn't mess it up by going blank. When he is nearby all she wants is to be seen by him and get his attention but will never get the courage to speak to him first.

So, Who does she like more? Guy 1 or Guy 2? I didn't ask which guy is healthier to like. I am asking from a pure desire/attraction point of view.

Now, if you were guy 1 or guy 2, how would you approach her?

This is work context. We both work in a gigantic office floor and the company is in a huge building with multiple floors. We sit completely opposite each other, her on one side and me on another.

1.) She will come around from her end to mine and just walk by. Sometimes multiple times a day. She will usually bring a friend for plausible deniability. One time I looked at her and she gave a shriek as if she was just caught. Another time, I looked at her and her friend, both of them remained calm and then when they left my sight and didn't think I was looking, I saw them break down laughing.

2.) Gets electrified when im around, its like a fire burns inside her.

3.) Once on the elevator I was typing something on my ig and she was behind me and she got antsy and couldn't stand still, she was bouncing up and down and kept trying to look at my conversation.

4.). one time I was sitting in a chair in our lounge area and listening to music on my ig talking. She saw me, about an hour later as I was passing the area I see her sitting on the exact chair listening to music. Its like she just wanted to be near me.

5.) Another time I was talking with 2 coworkers and she walked by like 5 times, exhaling loudly like she was frustrated.

6.). Me and her locked eyes last week for the fist time and she walked by my area twice with a friend.

It's like her body moves automatically and this has been going on for now about 1 yr. Now, a lot of the days she is focused on her work and she never see each other.

What do yall think? Crush? infatuation? or is it limerence? AI says limerence.

I just want to know why would you? Was it just a distraction? Did you actually go on the date? Was the conversations active? Things of that nature.

limerence is fantasy bonding right built on uncertainty and fantasy? What if it's no longer a fantasy because your LO reciprocates? What will happen?