u/AdMiserable9841

Kings and queens let me tell you something, I finally dropped that loser of a sp I had.

So let me start where it began, I was in a situationship with someone extremely emotional abusive, who could not care less if I lived or died. (This guy was said sp btw.)

I begged and begged and begged and the last text he sent me was „What the fuck is wrong with you I don’t want to do anything with you.“

I was naive and in love so day and fucking night I manifested and manifested and manifested.
I did in fact see movement, such as him lingering on my account, unfollowing me, and then lingering on my account AGAIN.
Meanwhile I also manifested for my self concept, affirming things like „I am worthy of love.“, „I am the relationship people feel lucky to have.“, „my beauty is unmatched and unique.“, etc. and in the time I did that, for some reason, a lot of people from the past came back, showing me truly what I am worth, such as older friends, my ex (don’t worry we are NOT together again) and even new people I met.
And they are all showing me how lovable and beautiful I am. I was still stuck on my sp though.

Yesterday I saw a post of his friend. SP was posted up with another girl, drinking alcohol, both clearly very drunk. This isn’t the first time I saw a post like this on said friends account. Everytime it was a different girl even.
So I got extremely disgusted and decided to change my assumptions from „He needs me and loves me“ to „He’s a fucking loser who drinks his feelings away.“,
„He’s an abusive piece of shit who treats every girl extremely badly.“ because that’s just how it fucking is.
Last assumption I made up was „He still constantly thinks of me, because he knows what he lost.“

And that was it. Just like that I let go of him. Even if he changed and came back like I manifested first, I wouldn’t want someone with a past like that to ever be in a relationship with me. Someone who treats women like this doesn’t even deserve to be able to look my way.

What I am trying to tell you here: If the person you’re trying to manifest is or has been abusive to you, doesn’t matter if it was emotionally or physically, you should definitely work on your self concept before trying to manifest this person back.
The self concept work showed me who I truly am and it showed me my true worth.
Just like that you will see how much you really need this person, and just like that you will see how much this person really needs you. (And he does need me, but he is a loser I don’t want anymore.)
This is also why I am saying analysing your 3d is NEVER bad, because it genuinely helps you work on yourself.

I hope I could inspire some people who read this right now because it helped me a lot :)

Help me fr. Never thought this would happen since I’m literally manifesting stuff since like 2023, but today is the day where even I started spiralling.

My SP unfollowed me and my mind went fucking crazy so I texted him on snapchat. A simple text asking how he’s doing, the average apology for reaching out etc.
He hasn’t read it yet, idek know if he will. I just needed it for my mind to stop spinning so much. All his friends are still following me, he’s the only one who unfollowed. My mind immediately went like „okay I mean he was thinking of me and definitely still is, but why would he unfollow???!“

Honestly this time I’m the one who doesn’t know what to do now, help me out guys.

That man is sending me into psychosis I’m going crazy over here.

Edit: okay I deleted the text cuz I’m scared as shit, i might text him again but defo not when my mind is spinning. Still I would be glad to accept help !

After a week of fully no contact, no watching anything that the other posted etc. my SP began watching my stories again.

Just a little funny update but damn I know I got him there 😝😝😝

I am SICK of people saying „oh your shit don’t manifest cuz you’re checking the 3d“ or „oh you have to robotically affirm every single minute of your day for it to work“ LIKE WHAT?!
Some people tryna turn manifestation into witchcraft fr.

Manifestation is about your energy and your mindset only. Change your mindset, shift your energy and it will come to you regardless.

So STOP with forcing yourself to not check your 3d. Like if you wanna check what your sp is doing, fucking check.
If you wanna check your bank account then fucking check.

I am so so sick of people putting up random rules and literally even trying to make money profit out of it.

Snap tf out of it.

I hope this keeps some of yall motivated. :)

So I’ve started affirming about this guy and manifesting him like a week ago.
I do robotic affirms, big affirmation sessions after waking up, big ones before going to bed and I listen to subs overnight to train my subconscious mind.

So this morning I wake up, I check my insta. Post from him pops up. (We still follow each other on social media cuz duh why would he unfollow a queen like ME)
I look at the photo, that man is still wearing the bracelet I got him before no contact.
WHICH LITERALLY MEANS:
Even if I never affirmed, that man would constantly be reminded of me anyway. So I am indeed literally on his mind everyday.

after a week of focusing I can tell that this is definitely movement right here.
Also w my self concept - in the past I would’ve said something like „oh he just wears it because he thinks it’s cool“

BUT THIS TIME I WENT - „Ofc he fucking wears it because he knows exactly who I am.“

So not only is my 3d reflecting my manifestations to me rn, it’s also reflecting them in my self concept.

DONT GIVE UP GUYS ITS WORKING ALL THE TIME !!! XX

(Guys I mean „last“ SP btw he did NOT DIE😭 my autocorrect hit me in the head, I can’t change it anymore😭😭😭)

Hi,
I’ve seen a lot of people here attempting to be struggling or close to giving up, so I wanted to motivate you with one of my many success stories which showed me that we are ALL constantly manifesting! No matter if we’re doing it consciously or not.

This here is actually the first ever success I’ve had in manifesting, we’re going back to year 2023.
I got into manifesting in summer 2023, found out about subliminals, affirmations etc.

Spring 2023 I got out of my first long lasting and serious relationship. I honestly only wanted someone to listen to me and to be there for me at the time.

Around June I’ve met this guy. He was really nice but made it pretty clear that he was NOT interested in me.

Little reminder: by that time I had a 3 song playlist with songs w hidden affirmations that I listened to sometimes.

When I finally got the courage to ask him out on a date and he said no, I simply went „alrighty idc just let me move on rq.“ because I didn’t want any drama in my life.
But there was ONE thought that I had on my mind constantly. „They always come back anyway.“ (At that time I had no idea that THIS thought alone, was a manifestation and a decision I made that I would from then on ALWAYS experience.)

I was pretty detached from the rejection and just kept on living because I really didn’t give a SHI about it.
THE NEXT DAY. I REPEAT. THE NEXT DAYYY (!!!) I was with my parents, we were on vacation that time so focusing on myself was even easier than normally. On a car ride, I looped the song playlist (just because I thought the songs were fire).
In the late evening we got some ice cream and suddenly I get a snapchat notification.

That man came back, asked me about my day, my vacation etc. HE WAS INTERESTED. LITERALLY ONE DAY LATER!!
He started flirting with me even and all. By now I’ve already managed to manifest this exact man back to me THREE times!

What I am saying here: We ALWAYS manifest. I made the decision that everyone will come back to me anyways, and now this is what I’ll always experience.

So make your decision, DON‘T CHANGE IT. DON‘T DOUBT IT. Everything you decide you will experience.

By now I manifest constantly and it has always worked out for me perfectly fine. Feel free to ask me questions xx