u/Additional_Cow5950

I a 27 F, think my boyfriend 37 M, of a little over 1 year is messaging other women online, no idea if they answer him back or not but idk what to do. I only saw a glimpse but nothing really, but he’s done it before, messaging girls on their stories to say how pretty they are or whatever and lied about it. I’ve been wondering if i should message her myself and find out if they’ve been talking. What can i do? I can’t talk to him because he deflects and lies, then argues and causes a fight saying I’m making it up just to start a fight.

**TL;DR;** : what should i do in this situation?

I think my bf is messaging other women online, no idea if they answer him back or not but idk what to do. I only saw a glimpse but nothing really, but he’s done it before, messaging girls on their stories to say how pretty they are or whatever and lied about it. Would it be wrong to message her without telling him and asking her about it?

I think my bf is messaging other women online, no idea if they answer him back or not but idk what to do. I only saw a glimpse but nothing really, but he’s done it before, messaging girls on their stories to say how pretty they are or whatever and lied about it. Would it be wrong to message her without telling him and asking her about it?