u/Admirable_Proof1821

Hi, I’m 21 (F), a 4th-year student, and I’m just waiting for graduation this May. I have two best friends; at school, we were always okay—constantly talking in our group chat and through private messages about our personal lives, gossip, and pet peeves. But now that we’re on break and just waiting for graduation, I’ve noticed that it feels like I’m the only one interested in our friendship.
I’m always the one chatting in the GC and reaching out to them individually. I ask about remaining final requirements and start conversations about gossip or updates just like we used to, but the two of them never reply to me. However, when they are the ones reaching out, I’m always ready and quick to reply, no matter what I’m doing.
I just feel so invalidated to the point where I wonder: is this still a friendship? It feels like I’m only noticed when they need something, but when it’s me, they couldn't care less. We’re all just staying at home right now waiting for graduation. I get that we have personal lives, but I can’t help feeling hurt. I would never ignore them the way they’re ignoring me; I’m always willing to be there. Also, sometimes I think that because I’m a 'Leo girlie,' maybe my definition of friendship is just different.
Can you tell me if what I’m feeling is valid, or am I just being petty? Any opinion is welcome. I just want to know if what I’m feeling is right or wrong. Should I just silently cut them off, or should I just try to understand that this is how it is? Thank you.

Hi, I’m 21 (F), a 4th-year student, and I’m just waiting for graduation this May. I have two best friends; at school, we were always okay—constantly talking in our group chat and through private messages about our personal lives, gossip, and pet peeves. But now that we’re on break and just waiting for graduation, I’ve noticed that it feels like I’m the only one interested in our friendship.
I’m always the one chatting in the GC and reaching out to them individually. I ask about remaining final requirements and start conversations about gossip or updates just like we used to, but the two of them never reply to me. However, when they are the ones reaching out, I’m always ready and quick to reply, no matter what I’m doing.
I just feel so invalidated to the point where I wonder: is this still a friendship? It feels like I’m only noticed when they need something, but when it’s me, they couldn't care less. We’re all just staying at home right now waiting for graduation. I get that we have personal lives, but I can’t help feeling hurt. I would never ignore them the way they’re ignoring me; I’m always willing to be there. Also, sometimes I think that because I’m a 'Leo girlie,' maybe my definition of friendship is just different.
Can you tell me if what I’m feeling is valid, or am I just being petty? Any opinion is welcome. I just want to know if what I’m feeling is right or wrong. Should I just silently cut them off, or should I just try to understand that this is how it is? Thank you.

hi, i’m F21 4th yr student and grad waiting nalang this May. i have 2 best friends, sa school we’re super okay naman and nag uusap palagi pati sa gc namin ang private messages to each other ganyan about our personal lifes and chismis/chika pati mga pet peeves namin and ol. but now na nakabakasyon na kasi kami and naghihintay nalang ng graduation, napansin ko na parang ako nalang palagi yung interested saming tatlo sa friendship namin. to the point na ako palagi yung nagchachat sa gc and sa kanilang dalawa, nagririreach out ako ganyan, nag aask about sa remaining final requirements before graduation and nag oopen up palagi ng mga chismis/chika ganyan and everything like what we all used to do, pero silang dalawa never nang nagrereply sakin. pero kapag silang dalawa yung ganon i’m always ready saka mabilis mag reply sa kanila kahit na ano pa man yang ginagawa ko. wala lang, i just feel so invalidated by them to the point where i think like friendship pa ba yung ganito? na parang papansinin ka nalang ngayon kapag sila yung may kailangan pero kapag ikaw wapakels sila. pare-parehas lang naman kaming mga certified tambay ngayon kasi nga waiting for graduation nalang naman. i get it naman na may mga personal and private life kami pero ewan ko ba, hindi ko kasi mapigilan minsan na magtampo na ganun. like u get me ba. hindi ko kasi gagawin sa kanila yung pag iignore na ginagawa nila sakin, always and willing akong andiyan palagi. also, sometimes, iniisip ko nalang na i’m a Leo girlie kasi so baka iba lang din talaga yung definition ng gusto kong friendship. can you tell me if valid ba yung nafefeel ko or it’s just me and ang petty ng reason ko. any opinion will be accepted naman. i just wanna know if what i’m feeling is right or wrong po. and if i’ll just cut them off silently nalang ba or dapat ko bang intindihin na ganun talaga hehe. thank u po.