u/Adorable_Unit5132

Why is my career life so difficult?

Why is my career life so difficult?

Difficult as in it's always been hard to find a job, either they never contact me to get an interview or some relative gets me a job and it's toxic and I end up in the hospital because of severe anxiety

I would think it's Saturn conjunct my MC but I don't know if the orb is tight enough for this, it square Pluto as well, I don't know if there's anything else

u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 11 hours ago
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The Office is still the best at using the mockumentary style

This is not to discuss if you like The Office or not.

The thing is, of all mockumentaries shows, The Office knew how to take advantage of it making it seem like it was a "documentary", the crew and the camera were a character. If Michael or anyone at the office didn't want the crew to see it, they would close the door, take out the microphone, they would speak really low or they would talk to the crew. It was fun in the later seasons where we also saw them and heard their voices.

The other mockumentaries seems just like a "optional aesthetic", most don't even acknowledge the crew which is a bit meh for me, like if you chose that genre, you should compromise to it and get the full potential (I always find it funny that the teens on those shows are never embarrassed to be onscreen or afraid to go viral or something cringe like that)

Ok, to be fair, I think "The fall and rise of Reggie Dinkins" is doing a good use of it but I'm still in the beginning.

What do you think about mockumentaries?

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u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 13 hours ago

Is the Lot of fortune luck or just fortune (good or bad)?

I want to understand it more because although I read that it represents luck, like in the book I'm reading, it says

"In natal representation, the Lot of Fortune indicates an area of life where accidental good fortune and happiness may come by means of luck or chance, rather than by an individual's own actions and intent" - Astrology and the authentic self by Demetra George

But when I read it on my chart and my friend's charts it's always on the messiest places. For example, mine is in 10th and I've been unemployed for most part of my life because the majority don't even call me for an interview.

Friend A has it in her 7th house, she is in this relationship where they breakup at least 4 times a year. Friend B wants that specific dream job but he can't pursue it and he is miserable at every job he has. Friend C has in his 6th house and he gets extremely sick for minor reasons like a light rain or different food. I could go on but I think you can understand by now.

So, this is the opposite of what I'm reading. I would like other professionals' perspective and understand it better. Thank you!

Just to clarify, this is not a personal reading request, it's just to clarify why the difference between what I read and real life experience

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u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 14 hours ago

Do you write some sort of Index of the people you know?

I noticed in my older diaries that sometimes I have a hard time remembering the people I was talking about, so now, every new diary I make an Index/glossary (actually, I don't know the right name to describe that) of all people that I interact and may appear a lot on my journal. So I make a micro bio like:

Anna Thompson: born May 8, 1992. College friend. She works as a teacher at blah blah, she lives in a different city now, we try to hangout 3 times a year. Best memory together: blah blah

It takes some time but I like that part and "renewing the cast" every season new journal and realize that some people are not in my life anymore and new people arrived. Yes, I list even people that I don't really like lol. I once even pasted a profile picture for each one. But for now it was just once

So I was wondering if anyone else did that

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u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 5 days ago
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AITAH for telling my friend to search the internet instead of waiting to have money to go to a psychiatrist?

My friend is not living the life he wants, he doesn't like his job, he is overweight, he doesn't go after his dreams, he has a talent for writing for example but never actually writes, instead he just watch movies. It's been like that for years now. He told me he thinks he may have ADHD but he doesn't have money to go to a professional.

I told him that he doesn't need to wait, that the internet is huge, if he thinks he has ADHD then search methods that work for others who has it, read the advices they received from their psychiatrists, read articles, ask something on reddit, try different methods and see what works and what doesn't, like just stop complaining and acting like you can't do anything. He is in his middle 30s, he is always going to rock concerts so it's not like he is poor, for me, he just doesn't have his priorities straight

EDIT: I never said that he should self diagnose, please, read again, I said "methods" like 3 times. I said to search and try different methods, a certain way to use gamify your routine, if he can't go to the gym install an app that makes you "run from zombies", read advices

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u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 7 days ago

As a way to learn and also take a possible advantage of my chart, I got the habit of tracking the moon transits (and other aspects when relevant) and it's so interesting, I noticed that every time the moon transits my 8th house, I feel unmotivated and lack energy, for example

I'm curious, do you noticed any pattern like that in yours? (If you track it)

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u/Adorable_Unit5132 — 15 days ago