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Bicu kratak sto vise mogu.

Od malena mi tata prebacuje za skoro sve. Dakle ako kupim nesto skuplje, mogao sam jeftinije. Ako uzmem to jeftinije, mogao sam jos jeftinije itd itd. Kad kupim majicu za izlazak (oko 2-3 hiljade), nastaje problem itd. Radio sam od 17-te godine 8 meseci od kad sam zavrsio skolu, tad su sve pare isle kod njih i nisam se njima bunio ali me je nerviralo mnogo, sve pare koje sam dobijao su isle njima itd. Kad god da me je zaposlio negde onda je opet pricao drugima kako me je on zaposlio itd. Ja nisam imao problem da njima dajem pare ali sam imao problem kad bih sebi kupio nesto, bilo sta.

E sad, skoro mi je kupljen auto od 1200e. Pricaju kako sam dobio auto i sve ostalo. To me mnogo nervira.

E sad problem. Oni su hteli da mi daju staru kucu ili plac za gradnju ali ja to necu jer ako mi daju nesto plasim se da ce opet pricati za mene kako sam dobio nesto. Hocu sve sam da uradim. U planu mi je da odem u podstanare a auto sto pre da im vratim. Jednostavno hocu da vidim da sve izgradim sam od 0 (stambeno pitanje, auto, posao, pa i greske da napravim itd). Jednostavno necu da niko kaze da je meni neko kupio nesto, ili da sam dobio nesto od nekog drugog itd.

Zanima me jel ovo problem ili sta? Nek mi kazu svi da li je to problem ili ne. Voleo bih ako se pronadje i neki psiholog da bar nesto ukratko kaze.

Za sva pitanja potrudicu se da odgovorim.

Danas sam bio u nekom servisu i pricamo ovako i jedan kaze kako nece da mu roditelji saznaju da je sjebao branik. U tom neki lik ubacuje foru reci da ti je pas pojeo branik i nastavlja sa "pas pojeo branik, pojeo i menjac, jede i place". Poznato mi je al ne znam da li ima neki yt snimak ili neka scena iz filma serije ili nesto trece.

Udqrio sam parkiran auto. Sad sam srao sa covekom kod cijeg servisa je parliran. Zvali du vlasnika kaze sad ce i policija. Kako sta ide sad, Sta da radim? Kazu nesto evropski izvestaj itd. Koliko me moze i kostati?

Edit: Rekli su mi da je najbezbolnije da popunimo evropski i to je to. Auto ima skuplji branik a ja ga nisam samo ogrebao nego je malo i napukao, samo koliko cu placati kasnije to ne znam. Rekli su mi da ce mi naplacivati registraciju malo vise i tjt.

Zanima me sta slusate dok vozite auto. Pre koji dan sam podigao dozvolu i sad hocu da napravim neku dobru playlistu za voznju. Jel imate neki neke omiljene pesme ili album ili tako nesto?

Video sam ovu temu na stranom sub-u. Ljudi su pisali svoje situacije kako su dobili neke vece pare za malo vremena ili malo truda ili je bilo high risk high reward itd.

Neki su pisali da su uzeli masne pare na meme coin-ima, neki na brzoj preprodaji necega itd.

Zanima me jel imate vi neke price?

Napisacu ovo sto krace mogu.

Poslusao sam vas i resio da se odselim. Ja sam momak iz ovog posta. Proslo je nesto vise od 4 meseca. Za to vreme sam uradio neke glavne stvari poput racuna u banci, nasao sam stabilan posao (plata je onako al jbg) itd. Sad sam resio da se odselim od kuce i imam 2 plana. Prvi je da preuzmem staru kucu za koju bi mi trebalo minimum 5k evra da je uradim i bila bi bar za zivot, a drugi plan je da odem u stan. Ima jos jedan a to je da uzmem jedan plac koji bi mi moji dali i onda ili da gradim montaznu kucu ili zidanu al taj plan sam batalio skroz jer je mnogo komplikovan a i nisam toliko sposoban. Uglavnom prebacio sam u glavi i sam sebi rekao "Imam 10 prstiju i dobra ledja, sve cu sam sagraditi". To mi je glavno jer ne zelim da bilo ko uperi prstom u mene i kaze, kupio mu ovaj, sagradio mu onaj itd a da ja nemam argument. A to mi potice prvenstveno od mog tate koji mi sve prebacuje, i koji prvi prica kako mi je dao a ne kaze koliko sam ja dao (imam post na ovu temu od pre 1-2 godine ako neko bude trazio). E sad bas zbog toga sam resio da do septembra se iselim i da idem u podstanare. Recicu im da mi nije potreban nijedan njihov dinar, pokupicu svoje stvari i odseliti se, naravno na normalan nacin tako da ostanemo u dobrim odnosima jer nisam retard da se posvadjam sa porodicom.

Evo par informacija da docaram situaciju:

Posao: Magacioner, plata oko 73k (ja msm na 20 radnih dana), dobra stvar je to sto se radi samo od 7 do 3 pa imam neko fiksno vreme. I tek sam krenuo da radim i imam ugovor na 3 meseca.

Side hustle: Konobar vikendom, nemam mnogo veselja ali jedno veselje mi je minimum 70e, a sef konobara mi je rekao da sam u prvoj postavi od NG a do tad idalje u zameni i uletim kad treba. Da kazem u proseku 200e mesecno.

Ustedjevina: Trenutno imam nesto sitno al to cu morati da potrosim na prevod auta.

Dugovi: Nemam

Grad: Zivecu u Šapcu, tu cu naci neki stan. Sto se kirija tice cena bi bila maks maksimuma 300e, gledao bih do 250e to bi mi bilo iole ok.

Ja smatram za sebe da sam zreo i sposoban da se iselim, a i ako nisam za neke stvari, naucio bih.

Trebaju mi svi saveti kako da sto bolje prodjem, ustedim/sacuvam pare na necemu itd. Znaci svi saveti na ovu temu su dobrodosli.

Ako neko ima neka pitanja nek slobodno pita ja cu se potruditi da odgovorim.

Malo pre sam preleteo malo brze preko rupa i upalila se zuta lamica za ABS. Sta moze da bude? Auto koci sve normalno idalje al zanima me zasto se upalila lampica.

Hi, i am 18 years old guy. Sorry for my gramar mistakes, english is not my first language. I only have three questions: 

1. Is it ok if a man cries? But only on rare occasions. Not like every week or month but once in a year or few years.

2. Should his girl or wife know that? I know that some people say that thats how connection gets stronger, but some people say that your girlfriend or wife will remember that and that it will cost you (I dont know what could cost).

I have also one more question. So last weekend me and 4 other people had BBQ and some alchohol. Like a simple gathering. 2 of those people were my male close friends, and other two were girls that they know. And i made some mistake and lets say i offended one girl, and after that i got to talk with her. I apologized to her and we started talking bc she wanted to be my "therapist". Long story short, we were talking about my "surface problems". And i asked her is it ok for a man to cry, and she said that its complitly normal and that we like live in a rough world bla bla. After that she asked me if i cry and i said that i cried only 2 times in last several years (which is truth) and that it was really hard moments but we didn't go deeper bc i didn't want. She said that thats totaly ok and thats one of best ways to get pain out of youself. She is really really sweet and good girl, also her friend is. I really can't tell how great she is, not only by her look but by her behavior etc.

My question is, if i ever want something with her, like a relationship would my chances of that happening be lower? I am talking mostly about that she knows that i cried. She also knows me and that i am phisicaly really strong and all that, but she knows that i cried those two times.

Hi, i am 18 years old guy. Sorry for my gramar mistakes, english is not my first language. I only have three questions: 

1. Is it ok if a man cries? But only on rare occasions. Not like every week or month but once in a year or few years.

2. Should his girl or wife know that? I know that some people say that thats how connection gets stronger, but some people say that your girlfriend or wife will remember that and that it will cost you (I dont know what could cost).

I have also one more question. So last weekend me and 4 other people had BBQ and some alchohol. Like a simple gathering. 2 of those people were my male close friends, and other two were girls that they know. And i made some mistake and lets say i offended one girl, and after that i got to talk with her. I apologized to her and we started talking bc she wanted to be my "therapist". Long story short, we were talking about my "surface problems". And i asked her is it ok for a man to cry, and she said that its complitly normal and that we like live in a rough world bla bla. After that she asked me if i cry and i said that i cried only 2 times in last several years (which is truth) and that it was really hard moments but we didn't go deeper bc i didn't want. She said that thats totaly ok and thats one of best ways to get pain out of youself. She is really really sweet and good girl, also her friend is. I really can't tell how great she is, not only by her look but by her behavior etc.

My question is, if i ever want something with her, like a relationship would my chances of that happening be lower? I am talking mostly about that she knows that i cried. She also knows me and that i am phisicaly really strong and all that, but she knows that i cried those two times.

Kao npr da se placa neko odrzavanje ili bilo sta. Znam da se u startu plati i onda se dopunjuje "kredit", ali me zanimaju neki razlozi zasto ipak ne bi mozda trebalo da ga kupim.