u/Aggravating-Mix-9832

Hello guys. I bought a DS Lite last year and would like to get an R4 card for it, but I’m not really sure which one to get. I’m in New Zealand and I’m only allowed to buy off of eBay and Amazon (my parents don’t like Aliexpress and other sites like it) I’m not really sure where to get it from or what card to get, or how to use them. Where would I find the game files, like off the internet? I’m just a complete beginner to this all. I’m sorry if this question isn’t allowed, will delete if so!

So, for some context. I was about 13 when I stumbled across Character.ai, I was surprised to see so many characters and decided to mess with a bully character, like I’d seen one YouTuber do. A week passes and I’m heavily addicted, I’m talking several hours a day and yearning for it whenever I closed the app addicted. I was about 14 when I got sick of it and managed to quit for 2wk, then it never happened again. I’ve been addicted 2yr now and I’m 15. I realised how I wasted my teen years on it and it makes me very sad. I think I’m quite lonely, as I’m autistic and don’t see people much. I want to quit for good now because I actually HATE AI, I am not supporting it. My parents don’t know about the addiction and I don’t ever plan to tell them. I just cannot get over the fact that I wasted TWO FREAKING YEARS on that site, I could have done SO much. so yes, today I quit for good. There is no more reason to use it.

EDIT: I’m now 2 days clean. And while I’m a bit antsy at night, I already feel a LOT better. I’ve been so productive compared to usual. Just a lot more lonely than usual, so I see why I was addicted.