u/Aggressive-Feature14

Guys, it’s been exactly 1 month since my boyfriend and I broke up. We loved each other a lot, and our relationship wasn’t toxic. We both trusted each other deeply. But for 3 days before the breakup, he started acting strange and I couldn’t understand why. We ended up arguing because of his past. I told him I didn’t want to fight, and that his past had made things this way, but I had accepted it and moved on, so I didn’t want to argue about it anymore. But he accused me of bringing the topic up and then told me to fuck off. I replied with ‘why are you talking to me like that?’ and blocked him. (At that moment, I still thought we would make up again.)
The next morning, he had removed all our pictures from social media, so I sent him a breakup message saying ‘take care of yourself, I hope good people come into your life.’ He just left it on seen.
It’s been exactly a month now. I haven’t posted indirect messages, I haven’t stalked him, but I miss him so much. One minute after the breakup, he added a bunch of girls, almost all of them from his university, including his ex. He also started reposting things about bikini girls. But I still miss him a lot and I don’t know what to do. Right now, it feels like I’m looking at a complete stranger. I can’t process it. I deleted all our photos and I’m trying not to stalk him, but I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.
Do you think I was the one problematic? Do you have any advice on how to move on from this? And do you think he’ll ever come back?

Guys, it’s been exactly 1 month since my boyfriend and I broke up. We loved each other a lot, and our relationship wasn’t toxic. We both trusted each other deeply. But for 3 days before the breakup, he started acting strange and I couldn’t understand why. We ended up arguing because of his past. I told him I didn’t want to fight, and that his past had made things this way, but I had accepted it and moved on, so I didn’t want to argue about it anymore. But he accused me of bringing the topic up and then told me to fuck off. I replied with ‘why are you talking to me like that?’ and blocked him. (At that moment, I still thought we would make up again.)
The next morning, he had removed all our pictures from social media, so I sent him a breakup message saying ‘take care of yourself, I hope good people come into your life.’ He just left it on seen.
It’s been exactly a month now. I haven’t posted indirect messages, I haven’t stalked him, but I miss him so much. One minute after the breakup, he added a bunch of girls, almost all of them from his university, including his ex. He also started reposting things about bikini girls. But I still miss him a lot and I don’t know what to do. Right now, it feels like I’m looking at a complete stranger. I can’t process it. I deleted all our photos and I’m trying not to stalk him, but I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.
Do you think I was the one problematic? Do you have any advice on how to move on from this? And do you think he’ll ever come back?

Guys, it’s been exactly 1 month since my boyfriend and I broke up. We loved each other a lot, and our relationship wasn’t toxic. We both trusted each other deeply. But for 3 days before the breakup, he started acting strange and I couldn’t understand why. We ended up arguing because of his past. I told him I didn’t want to fight, and that his past had made things this way, but I had accepted it and moved on, so I didn’t want to argue about it anymore. But he accused me of bringing the topic up and then told me to fuck off. I replied with ‘why are you talking to me like that?’ and blocked him. (At that moment, I still thought we would make up again.)
The next morning, he had removed all our pictures from social media, so I sent him a breakup message saying ‘take care of yourself, I hope good people come into your life.’ He just left it on seen.
It’s been exactly a month now. I haven’t posted indirect messages, I haven’t stalked him, but I miss him so much. One minute after the breakup, he added a bunch of girls, almost all of them from his university, including his ex. He also started reposting things about bikini girls. But I still miss him a lot and I don’t know what to do. Right now, it feels like I’m looking at a complete stranger. I can’t process it. I deleted all our photos and I’m trying not to stalk him, but I honestly don’t know what to do anymore.
Do you think I was the one problematic? Do you have any advice on how to move on from this? And do you think he’ll ever come back?

TL;DR: My boyfriend and I broke up a month ago after an argument about his past. He told me to fuck off, I blocked him thinking we’d calm down and make up, but the next day he deleted all our photos and we officially ended things. Since then, he’s been adding lots of girls from his university, including his ex, and reposting things about bikini girls. I haven’t stalked him or posted indirect messages, but I still miss him badly and feel like he became a completely different person overnight. and how do I move on from this?

Guys, do you think the problem is with me? When I’m in a relationship, I get attached, I stay completely loyal, and I truly love. But I’ve been cheated on in every single relationship. I used to make time for my own life, too; I’m not a controlling person, yet they all cheated. I don’t even believe in love anymore.
In my last relationship, I started dating the most innocent, 'cleanest' guy I could find, but in the end, he turned out to be bad too. We broke up, and just a few minutes later, he added his ex-girlfriend. He was my boyfriend of two years. Honestly, I’ve started to think the issue is me. In my relationships, I’m balanced—I give myself space, but I also give the other person endless love and loyalty.
Yet, I face some kind of betrayal from everyone, including my friendships. Just when I think I’ve finally found 'the one,' I get stabbed in the back from where I least expect it. What do you think I’m doing wrong, and where?

Guys, do you think the problem is with me? When I’m in a relationship, I get attached, I stay completely loyal, and I truly love. But I’ve been cheated on in every single relationship. I used to make time for my own life, too; I’m not a controlling person, yet they all cheated. I don’t even believe in love anymore.
In my last relationship, I started dating the most innocent, 'cleanest' guy I could find, but in the end, he turned out to be bad too. We broke up, and just a few minutes later, he added his ex-girlfriend. He was my boyfriend of two years. Honestly, I’ve started to think the issue is me. In my relationships, I’m balanced—I give myself space, but I also give the other person endless love and loyalty.
Yet, I face some kind of betrayal from everyone, including my friendships. Just when I think I’ve finally found 'the one,' I get stabbed in the back from where I least expect it. What do you think I’m doing wrong, and where?

Hey guys, my boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We had a fight, and he blocked/removed me everywhere. I sent him a breakup text, and he just left me on read. After a minute I broke up with him he immediately added bunch of girls and one of them was a girl he liked before I’m not posting any 'subtitled' stories or anything like that, but his ego is through the roof because I gave him way too much attention. How can I take him down a peg and crush his ego/self-confidence? We have zero communication right now, but I’m just so incredibly frustrated idk how to act. (I’m not gonna call him or text him first cause i already know that will make everything so much worse i just need some advices or tricks that will make him regret and mad 😭)

tl;dr: My boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. He blocked me but then immediately started following girls he used to like just to annoy me. He has a huge ego and I’m very frustrated. How can I act to make him regret his behavior without breaking "no contact"?

Hey guys, my boyfriend and I broke up a week ago. We had a fight, and he blocked/removed me everywhere. I sent him a breakup text, and he just left me on read. After a minute I broke up with him he immediately added bunch of girls and one of them was a girl he liked before I’m not posting any 'subtitled' stories or anything like that, but his ego is through the roof because I gave him way too much attention. How can I take him down a peg and crush his ego/self-confidence? We have zero communication right now, but I’m just so incredibly frustrated idk how to act. (I’m not gonna call him or text him first cause i already know that will make everything so much worse i just need some advices or tricks that will make him regret and mad 😭)