u/Aggressive_Dish2592

me and this guy (both 19) have been talking for about a month and went on three dates, just in the park, he didn't want to pay for anything. we made out, but he kept talking about sex. i told him i'll invite him when i'm ready after a couple dates. but then he was pressuring me when i asked to go on the fourth date, he suggested to come to my place and absolutely turned down any other idea. i mean i'd be dtf but i hate people who invite themselves over and i don't like men i barely know knowing my adress and invading my sacred space. i liked the guy's personality, but he stopped talking to me, so now i feel bad and wondering if i did the right thing.

hi guys im 19 and a guy my age and i have been tlaking for about a month and we went on three dates, he really wants sex and so do i, but he lives with his parents and i live alone, i want sex as well but im worried that he will know where i live and i am worried, help please what to do!

two years, just couldn't handle the distance anymore, he broke my trust many times and didn't meet my expectations. i love him, or i think i do or am just obsessed. he's avoidant. it's not a good mix. he said i drained the life out of him. i lashed out and said i hate him and that he ruined my life and i wish i never met him, i feel bad, but i told him its hard for me to control my emotions and that its better to leave so he doesn't suffer or trigger my disorder even more. hardest decision ever. so sad. so heartbroken that people dont understand us and barely treat us as humans, he never was trying to calm me down when i was depressed. so it was for the best, still sucks tho. need support