u/Agreeable-Heron-3950

For starters, I teach high school and it is my 3rd year teaching. I have roughly on average 8 kids with accomidations per class, with one class being 11 kids but I have a para in that class.

I was worried at first because of the amount of kids and accomidations but my admin have been looped in and told me that I do not have to attend all of the meetings cause if I did I would not have a break at all.

Ive been going to meetings either once or twice a week (the other teachers rarely show up...) and I am exhausted. I just got a new kid on my workload and was informed that they have a 504. When I looked into it, they havent updated the 504 since the kid was in elementary school, meaning the accomidations are for elementary kids.

I was invited to the 504 meeting (would be 3 that week and two in that day) and I declined the invite. I then received an email saying that I was required to make a write up (i was fine with doing that) and that I need to meet with the parents separately because they are requesting all core teachers be there. I respect that decision but also idk.

When I initially talked to admin they told me to not go to all of the meetings and to go to half since I have 40 kids on my workload compared to the 15 I had last year. I emailed admin asking for guidance and what I should do and there is no response. I dont want to go out of my way to schedule a separate meeting with the parents so I have to suck it up and go to two meetings in the same day.

I know legally I have to be there, im not arguing that. The old school i worked at 2 years ago required teachers to attend at least 3, making the workload a bit bearable. What do I even do here? Everyone i have talked too has agreeded that this is not sustainable

I (24) live in my apartment by myself. For context, my apartment is 700 square feet 1 bedroom and it is 2 hours away from my family's hometown. My family loves to pop in with short notice and has a tendency to crash at my place overnight, there is roughly a total of 5 of us. My two siblings (18 and 27) had an event one day last week. I started my work again last week and many were aware of how tired and mentally exhausted I was. My sibling texted me saying how they were on their way and I was confused. When I called and asked what was going on, they mentioned the event. Full disclosure, they gave me a heads up several weeks ago, bit not in the days prior. They were also planning on staying the night as well, which sucks because I do get up at 4 and leave for work around 5:40.

My mom asked me to get them food as they would be hungry when they came over. By the time my siblings came and ate, I asked them if they wanted to crash on my bed while I slept on the couch. They said no and that they would be fine sleeping on the couch and the floor. I then offered the pullout sofa and they said no. By the time they left for their event I was dead asleep and when I left for work, theycwere asleep. I got message from one of my siblings asking if I could go and pick up some bread from a local bakery on my way home (I was heading back to our hometown a d with my 30 minute commute and the addition 30 minute detour for the bread, it would have take. 3 hours ti get back to my family's hometown). I told them I couldn't because I was ag work and asked if they could go instead, since for them it was a 10 minute drive. I didnt hear from them for a few hours and drove back home. When I got home I saw my sisters on the couch tired, I asked them if they were tired from the concert and they replied no. They then proceeded to get upset and explain how they couldn't sleep at all the night prior. They said I forgot to give them pillows and how they didnt want to go into my room to wake me up. They then proceeded to say tjat tjey were tempted to see with me in my bed but I was "sleeping in the middle". I told them that they should have just went into my room and grabbed the pillows or have pulled out the sofa bedthemselves.

When I asked my other sibling if they were mad they said "all we asked you to do was to get bread and you didnt do that". I explained to them that I was at my job from 6:30 to 3 and that going to the bakery would have been a 39 minute detour and would have resulted in my commute to be longer. I feel like i was the asshole because at this point I began to dismiss my siblings to which they said "if youre going to act like that, im going to be pissed". We'll reddit, am I the asshole?

Hi guys. I (f24) have been with my boyfriend (m25) for around five years. It was really good at the beginning because we met when we were both in college but things have been rocky for a while. Hes still in school and focuses a lot on that, does not have a solid plan for the future, and wants me to wait around 5 ish years to get married or move in. I want to move our relationship and move in and everything but hes still in school and has no job and is focused on school, which to make it clear, there's nothing wrong with that.

Lately I feel like we've been on different timelines. I got my masters degree, I have a stable job, im presenting at conferences for my reaserch while he is still in school and is unsure where he will be in the next year or where the job will be. I feel like we are holding each other back so hard because I know he wants to leave the town we are in for a job out of state, meanwhile, I have a great job where we are at. I am very family orientated and want him to learn my language to communicate more with my family, he hasn't learn anything in the past five years we've been together.

Part of me wants to call it off because my heart doesnt feel what I felt when we were in college. Things were so different back then. We both were focusing in school so we were on the same timeline, but now we are not. Im scared to leave because I dont know how to and I really dont want to hurt him. What do I do? Im terrified because my family has made comments about him and I really dont want to tell them my private life at all.

I've posted about this issue a few times on reddit. I (f24) and my bf (m24) have been together for almost five years. We haven't had sex in a year because of busy schedules and us constantly fighting. One of the main reasons why we stopped being intimate was the fact that he couldn't get me to finish. Everything was constantly hurting and I would get so turned off in bed. I didnt think of it as a huge problem but now my sex drive has gone down to shit. And when I try ti fly solo, it doesnt even feel good. Maybe its because of the fact that my bf and I haven't been physical in so long but im not sure. He has never done oral on me, anything else hurts. Any advice or tips are helpful