u/Agreeable-Reach-6286

do you guys believe that when a girl makes the first move, there is a higher chance of her getting her crush? mas effective ba?

Please suggest things I can do for solo dates. I’m still a college student, so preferably affordable ideas hehe 🥹

since there’s a lot of posts here about having a sugar Ds and Bs… i got curious if being involved in that kind of situation really requires intimate or even sexual intentions? OR kahit isa meron din bang sugar Ds kayong naencounter na looking lang for a sugar b to have someone to talk to?

I feel so proud of myself because after so many years, I finally got to say Happy Mother’s Day to my real mom.

For context, I have a very complicated family tree. On my birth certificate, my grandmother is listed as my mother. So basically, from a very young age, my family hid the fact that the person I grew up calling my sister is actually my real mom.

Even with that setup, I already noticed a lot of signs when I was young that my “sister” was really my mother. I mean, hindi naman ako ganun ka-clueless not to notice. But despite realizing it, I never opened the topic with them. I also never held grudges because I knew I didn’t understand the full story. I was just waiting for them to be the ones to tell me first.

As time went by and I got older, they slowly started implying the truth. Parang obvious na hiya — like an open secret — but no one still directly said it to me.
I always carried this feeling of guilt because the person I grew up calling my mother, my grandmother, is someone I deeply love and feel very protective of. She raised me. And even though I knew my sister was my real mom, I couldn’t just erase the emotional reality that I wasn’t attached to her the same way. That’s where my guilt came from. I felt like she also deserved to be recognized as my mother, yet she stayed in the background, hiding behind the role of being my sister. I didn’t like that — but at the same time, she was also the one holding herself back from opening up to me.

But today, I decided to greet both of them for Mother’s Day — my mom and my grandmother. It was my first time doing that. When I saw her eyes glimmer, I felt so happy.

For the first time, it felt like I finally acknowledged something my heart had known for a long time.

yesterday, i also posted here about my crush. but i don't think my ticklish hands can wait to add him on socialsss.

should i add him or not? if yes, would it better if i add him on facebook or in instagram?

will it make me look so desperate?

please give me an advice! i don't know what to do with my feelings 🥲🥲

for context, i am currently a 3rd year college student and a NBSB.

so i have this crush, he was from different course but we are batchmates. as someone na ang definition ng first move ay mag add friend lang sa socmed, i really wanted to add him sa facebook, BUTTTTT i am overthinking na baka he will find it weird because lately palagi nagkakasalubong ang aming landas sa canteen huhu. I KNOW he might not know me pero baka kasi parang weirdo ako.

what should i do?