u/Ahsinam_

Hey data fam! 📊 I’m currently sitting on a great dataset, but I’ve hit a bit of a roadblock navigating SPSS to get the exact insights I need. I'm looking for a bit of guidance (or a mentor!) to help me smooth out the learning curve. Anyone free to connect?

Hello everyone!
I’m a 25F currently staying in Jorhat for the next month. I'd love to make some new friends, grab a coffee or find some company to explore the town and nearby spots!
If you have any cafe recommendations or want to hang out, drop a comment or hit my DMs. (Strictly looking for platonic friendships/social company.)

Good day!
I hope you are well.
I am currently conducting research for my Master’s dissertation on the re-emergence of mead within India's craft alcobev landscape focused on the alcoholic beverage industry in Guwahati. Given your expertise and experience in this space, your insights would be incredibly valuable to my study.
Could you please spare 5 minutes to complete my short questionnaire? Your responses will be kept strictly confidential and used solely for academic purposes.
Survey Link is attached.
Thank you so much for your time, support and contribution to my research!

Hey everyone, I’m looking for some perspective on my relationship because I feel like I'm hitting a wall and don't know what to do anymore.I[25F] am questioning my relationship with my boyfriend [31M] of 4 months after seeing each other for 7 months.

The Backstory:
We met on Hinge. Early on, we agreed to go on at least 10 dates to check our compatibility before making things official. However, a few months in, I found out that right after our third date (after we had made that 10-date pact), he went on a date with someone else. He claimed it was entirely platonic, but it still felt like a weird breach of our agreement.
Everything else seemed great, and I wanted commitment. He finally offered commitment a little over six months in. It took me a week to accept because I already had a major hesitation: when he gets angry, he says things that absolutely pierce my heart.
The Exes and the Text Chats:
We are now 4 months into the official relationship. Around month three, I came across his chats with both of his exes who he claimed to say have zero feelings and respect for:

1. With the first ex, he was continuously texting her to wish her well on important dates/milestones.
2. With the second ex, he was offering "solace and sympathy," literally telling her that he was there for her if she "needed a shoulder to cry on."
   I was deeply hurt, but I forgave him and tried to move past it.
   The Current Issue (Long Distance & Zero Effort):
   We are currently in a long-distance phase and because it's still the initial stage of our actual relationship, I expected some effort. Instead, I feel completely ignored.
   I have repeatedly communicated my needs. I've told him I need him to be emotionally present. I've asked for just 30 minutes of undivided attention a day. I’ve told him I love flowers. None of it happens.
   It feels like a massive double standard. Whatever I say or ask for gets completely ignored, but on the other hand, I am expected to follow everything he says.
   When I try to communicate these feelings, he listens but doesn't even seem to comprehend what I'm saying.
   The Mixed Signals:
   Despite putting in zero emotional effort and not being there for me when I need him, he claims he is incredibly serious about us. He says he wants us to get married as soon as possible and wants to move closer to me so he can "pursue me more."
   I feel so conflicted. I have given him more than enough chances and ignored so many red flags that probably shouldn't have been ignored. Is this normal behavior for a 31-year-old guy? Should I even try to take this forward?
   Any advice on what to do next would be deeply appreciated.
   TL;DR: [25F] with [31M] for 4 months (after 6+ months of dating). He says harsh things when angry, stays overly comforting with his exes, and puts zero emotional effort into our current long-distance relationship. Yet, he is pushing for marriage ASAP. Is it time to walk away?

Hi all,
I’m looking for a reliable home cook in the Gottigere area near Bannerghatta Road. I’ve already tried my neighbours’ recommendations and checked the MyGate app, but haven’t found anyone suitable yet.
Ideally looking for:
• Regular home-style veg/non-veg cooking
• Someone okay with coming 1–2 times a day
• Reasonable, transparent pricing
If you know any trusted cooks or cooking services in/around Gottigere/Bannerghatta Road, please DM me their contact details or drop a comment so I can reach out.