M | 26 | Lahore - Tired of going on dates with the boys
Gonna copy the given template.
Height & Weight: 5.11 and definitely need to lose a few, not obese though lol.
Location: Born and raised in Lahore
Accommodation: Living at my parents’. But I don’t plan on staying here forever.
Education: Graduated in IT. When the time’s right I want to pursue more!
Income Source: A managerial position in the IT industry. I’ll go into details, of course.
Marital Status: Single
Religion & Short Details About How Practicing You Are: Alhamdulillah a Muslim. Sunni. I’m far from perfect, I pray 3 times a day, never skip a fast, I don’t indulge in anything haram, I have no vices and I’m not a believer of nazar niaz or blindly follow people, no offense. I want to be better and I know I can. But in no way would I want my spouse to feel like it’s their responsibility or something.
Hobbies & Interests: I love driving, I’m a huge cinephile, I’m very intrigued by tech, watches, perfumes, an F1 fan, and you guessed it; super into cars (something of an expert myself and could talk your ear off). This might not be the right section for this but I adore animals, I have a cat too! Again, I don’t know if this is the right section for this but I’m very independent, always have been, I do all my chores myself, I’m financially independent and I never do anything half-heartedly.
Family Details: I come from a very educated and humble family. We’ve never been flashy or cared about showing off. My father’s retired, was a Finance Manager before his retirement. My mom’s a house wife and a double masters. She volunteers teaching Quran at a famous institute that I’ll of course privately share! I have 2 elder brothers (an engineer and a businessman, respectively), an elder sister (a PhD and a soon to be professor) and a younger sister (a Masters’ and an engineer). Suffice to say I’m proud of them and can’t wait for you to meet them!
Requirements for a Partner: Requirements sounds so blunt 😭 Let’s do it another way. I’m assuming I have some carte blanche here.
We’ll get along perfectly if: You’re 24 and older. A humble, supportive person who can understand me and appreciate me on the things I do right, and stand up to me and disagree if I’m in the wrong. You have dreams, goals, aspirations, you’re a motivated person. You treat this as a true partnership and a friendship and not an obligation. You’re loyal and you stand by me through whatever life throws at us. You’re someone who never stops wanting everything to be better while appreciating what you have and what you are. You love debating and giving your opinion, you’re curious and you truly want to understand someone’s perspective.
Deal Breakers: Before I say anything I deeply apologize if I offend anyone. I have to be as honest as possible here because I don’t want to waste anyone’s time.
We’ll have trouble getting along if: You smoke/vape, you have no dreams or goals, you speak over people and don’t let them present their argument. You have guy friends (I know this is gonna stir things up in the comments but I just don’t believe in this. I understand it’s 2026 and we all have to interact with the opposite gender on a daily basis but there’s a way to it, there are boundaries, I’ve been doing it for 26 years; I don’t think it’s impossible). You have trouble setting up boundaries where necessary. You twist facts and religion to what suits you. You’re rude to salespeople, waiters, guards, etc. You’re not serious about marriage and are not willing to involve your parents soon. Lastly, you don’t like tiramisu (I don’t know man there are people out there hating on tiramisu).
Preferred Family Setup: I’d of course always prefer nuclear but with this economy, realistically I can’t do it right away. It’ll be ‘joint’ until it’s not.
Do You Want Children? Absolutely! Not for a couple of years though and definitely not an army.
Timeframe for Marriage: I’ll be clear, I’m very serious about this and I hope you are too. I’m willing to involve my parents as soon as we get along and would like to make it official soon! If I had to ballpark it, I say nikkah within this year and ruksati in the next one (obviously I’m fully open to discuss this).
Just an fyi I did post here before when this sub was like brand new but my career plans changed and I didn’t want to string anyone along before I knew for sure what my next 10 years are going to look like. I’m where I’m supposed to be and I want to get married before I go into official unc status and cross 30. Already touching 27