Sider 16 Ohio case a religious psychosis?

Hello everyone, this is my first time posting here. I have done some research into the Siders case and I would like to share my opinion and read your thoughts on that. This is going to be a very long post and I will clarify my train of thought as the post progresses. I apologise for the length.
So the core of my opinion on this matter is that this is a case of ***religious psychosis***, specifically perpetrated by the hand of Gary Jr. (the children’s father).
Gary Jr. was born into a conventionally Christian family—a poor family in terms of money but rich in “blessings”: a lot of children, and more daughters than sons (I believe Gary Jr. is the only male son of Gary Sr. and Christina? Correct me if I’m wrong). He was born in a beautiful county but one limited in terms of real opportunities. It is my understanding that marriage between underage girls and older boys, as well as marriage between relatives, is common and often looked over in old Appalachian rural areas.
Gary met Elizabeth. A little about Elizabeth: Elizabeth's family is from Gallipolis, Ohio (42 minutes from the house on Ohmer Street). They are very active on FB. It is a family formed by a mom, a dad, and three siblings: the older brother, a middle son, and Elizabeth. The two brothers have been in and out of jail since forever; the older brother was, in fact, just released recently after spending almost a decade in prison. I’ve noticed that the mother is very close with the older brother, doesn’t seem to acknowledge the middle son very much, and keeps Elizabeth in “her thoughts” on her online persona. In my mind, they are not unlike the Milkoviches.
Elizabeth was reportedly 13 when she met Gary Jr. (that’s what the older brother said) and she fell pregnant very quickly. Since Elizabeth was born in 1992, this happened in the year 2005. Gary Jr. was born in 1989, so he was 16. Since we have a lot of people saying that Elizabeth was in fact pregnant at 13, I wonder what could have happened to the child, because we know that the first-born daughter of the couple, who is alive and now 18, was born in 2008 when Elizabeth was 16.
Elizabeth, after falling pregnant, threatened her mother that she would never let her see her grandson or granddaughter if she wouldn’t let her “run away” with Gary Jr. Now, Elizabeth was 13 and the age of consent in the state of Ohio is 16, so the mother could technically have called the cops or CPS on Gary Jr. I get that he was also underage, but he reached the age of consent while Elizabeth did not.
Elizabeth, along with Gary Jr. and his parents, was allegedly reported to be moving states, but could they have passed unnoticed by the authorities for 20 years? I don’t think so, and in fact, that is not the case. I found something on Christina’s side in Gallipolis, OH, but I cannot trace everything exactly because they moved states and I don’t have the information for the various counties.
First of all, where did the money come from? 20 people living without a dime? Not even Steinbeck could write something like that. Christina and Gary Sr. could have had some sort of retirement fund, or they were all stealing. I don’t think Gary Jr. was working, not legally at least, because that means he would have had to provide his employer with documents. He could have qualified for food stamps and benefits for the children, but that would trigger CPS.
He probably relied on his parents' benefits, and I think they broke into the Ohmer Street house just to stay off the government's radar.
Now, why do I believe some sort of religious psychosis is involved? Well, the poor hygiene matter struck me first. In 2026, what is the reason to not take a shower or use a stick of deodorant? Well, maybe you don’t have running water and electricity, you can’t afford deodorant, or maybe you are against hygiene because of some sort of religious belief. Gloriavale’s members, for example, do not use hygiene products, and neither do FLDS members, the LeBaron Colony, the Amish, and so on. We know that the Dollar General employees gave the family hygiene products but they never used them.
Second of all, fundamentalists are strongly against contraceptives of any kind and they purposely have as many children as they can. Also, they are often in a codependent relationship with other members of the family (like the parents). Why would a family of 18 want to live with their parents? One could say they can provide help with the children, but they were not. One could say they can help run the household more efficiently, but again, they were not. They could split the bills? That could be, or maybe it is a “family of Nazareth” thing.
Another thing that fundamentalists do is stay out of the government’s watch. No tax payments, no driver's licenses, no birth certificates, no employment contracts, no hospitals, and absolutely, for any reason, NO COPS ever. Sometimes they don’t accept benefits either, with very few exceptions. The FLDS collects many benefits from the state(s - Arizona and Utah), but they justify the action by referring to it as “bleeding the beast.” Others accept pension benefits but not child benefits in order to not trigger CPS.
In 2014, we also got a FB post on Gary Jr.'s (second?) page, where allegedly Elizabeth asks everyone to remove her picture from the internet (yeah, it doesn’t really work like that). I’m presuming that was Gary’s request to Elizabeth to write this because Elizabeth’s mother was sharing a picture of her every year on Elizabeth’s birthday. So the reasons could be:

  1. Gary Jr. was purely pissed off that the pictures were on FB and asked Elizabeth to write the post.

  2. Gary Jr. wrote the post pretending to be Elizabeth because he thought that could really work, meaning that he thought the pictures would be erased from the internet at his demand.

  3. Orthodox Jews have as many children as they can

  4. because they want to replace all the Holocaust victims.

  5. So it could be a religious point of view, or simple abuse by the hand of Gary Jr. They could also be pro-life (they were pro-guns too).

  6. But why then did Gary Sr. and Christina not intervene if they were all together in the same house? A grandparent who doesn’t share his opinion with his youngest son regarding his children's education strikes me as simply not possible. Did they just hate Elizabeth that much? Or is it because, in my opinion, Gary Jr. manipulated everyone into believing that he was doing “the work of God” to justify his actions? This is similar to the Lafferty brothers explaining a double homicide with “God told me to do it” and the brothers' mother referring to the older brother (Ron Lafferty) as “the one mighty and strong.”

  7. We don’t really have any information right now, but

  8. that is what I’m thinking. What do you guys think?

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u/Alba_2908 — 2 days ago

Siders 16 Ohio case

Hello everyone, this is my first time posting here. I have done some research into the Siders case and I would like to share my opinion and read your thoughts on that. This is going to be a long post and I will clarify my train of thought as the post progresses.
So the core of my opinion on this matter is that this is a case of religious psychosis, specifically perpetrated by the hand of Gary Jr. (the children’s father).
Gary Jr. was born into a conventionally Christian family—a poor family in terms of money but rich in “blessings”: a lot of children, and more daughters than sons (I believe Gary Jr. is the only male son of Gary Sr. and Christina? Correct me if I’m wrong). He was born in a beautiful county but one limited in terms of real opportunities. It is my understanding that marriage between underage girls and older boys, as well as marriage between relatives, is common and often looked over in old Appalachian rural areas.
Gary met Elizabeth. A little about Elizabeth: Elizabeth's family is from Gallipolis, Ohio (42 minutes from the house on Ohmer Street). They are very active on FB. It is a family formed by a mom, a dad, and three siblings: the older brother, a middle son, and Elizabeth. The two brothers have been in and out of jail since forever; the older brother was, in fact, just released recently after spending almost a decade in prison. I’ve noticed that the mother is very close with the older brother, doesn’t seem to acknowledge the middle son very much, and keeps Elizabeth in “her thoughts” on her online persona. In my mind, they are not unlike the Milkoviches.
Elizabeth was reportedly 13 when she met Gary Jr. (that’s what the older brother said) and she fell pregnant very quickly. Since Elizabeth was born in 1992, this happened in the year 2005. Gary Jr. was born in 1989, so he was 16. Since we have a lot of people saying that Elizabeth was in fact pregnant at 13, I wonder what could have happened to the child, because we know that the first-born daughter of the couple, who is alive and now 18, was born in 2008 when Elizabeth was 16.
Elizabeth, after falling pregnant, threatened her mother that she would never let her see her grandson or granddaughter if she wouldn’t let her “run away” with Gary Jr. Now, Elizabeth was 13 and the age of consent in the state of Ohio is 16, so the mother could technically have called the cops or CPS on Gary Jr. I get that he was also underage, but he reached the age of consent while Elizabeth did not.
Elizabeth, along with Gary Jr. and his parents, was allegedly reported to be moving states, but could they have passed unnoticed by the authorities for 20 years? I don’t think so, and in fact, that is not the case. I found something on Christina’s side in Gallipolis, OH, but I cannot trace everything exactly because they moved states and I don’t have the information for the various counties.
First of all, where did the money come from? 20 people living without a dime? Not even Steinbeck could write something like that. Christina and Gary Sr. could have had some sort of retirement fund, or they were all stealing. I don’t think Gary Jr. was working, not legally at least, because that means he would have had to provide his employer with documents. He could have qualified for food stamps and benefits for the children, but that would trigger CPS.
He probably relied on his parents' benefits, and I think they broke into the Ohmer Street house just to stay off the government's radar.
Now, why do I believe some sort of religious psychosis is involved? Well, the poor hygiene matter struck me first. In 2026, what is the reason to not take a shower or use a stick of deodorant? Well, maybe you don’t have running water and electricity, you can’t afford deodorant, or maybe you are against hygiene because of some sort of religious belief. Gloriavale’s members, for example, do not use hygiene products, and neither do FLDS members, the LeBaron Colony, the Amish, and so on. We know that the Dollar General employees gave the family hygiene products but they never used them.
Second of all, fundamentalists are strongly against contraceptives of any kind and they purposely have as many children as they can. Also, they are often in a codependent relationship with other members of the family (like the parents). Why would a family of 18 want to live with their parents? One could say they can provide help with the children, but they were not. One could say they can help run the household more efficiently, but again, they were not. They could split the bills? That could be, or maybe it is a “family of Nazareth” thing.
Another thing that fundamentalists do is stay out of the government’s watch. No tax payments, no driver's licenses, no birth certificates, no employment contracts, no hospitals, and absolutely, for any reason, NO COPS ever. Sometimes they don’t accept benefits either, with very few exceptions. The FLDS collects many benefits from the state(s - Arizona and Utah), but they justify the action by referring to it as “bleeding the beast.” Others accept pension benefits but not child benefits in order to not trigger CPS.
In 2014, we also got a FB post on Gary Jr.'s (second?) page, where allegedly Elizabeth asks everyone to remove her picture from the internet (yeah, it doesn’t really work like that). I’m presuming that was Gary’s request to Elizabeth to write this because Elizabeth’s mother was sharing a picture of her every year on Elizabeth’s birthday. So the reasons could be:

  1. Gary Jr. was purely pissed off that the pictures were on FB and asked Elizabeth to write the post.
  2. Gary Jr. wrote the post pretending to be Elizabeth because he thought that could really work, meaning that he thought the pictures would be erased from the internet at his demand.
    Having 16 children is very, very time- and energy-consuming. It is also reported that the average cost of raising a child from birth through age 18 in the United States is roughly $300,000 (4.8 million dollars for 16 children). Having just one child is the most significant and hardest part of your entire life; you have to provide safety, emotional support, education, entertainment, a balanced diet, mental help if needed, and so on. So why have 16 if you are not taking care of even one? It is not like Elizabeth was parading downtown with her pregnant belly for attention, or that they were collecting so many benefits that they were “working” with that.
    In the FLDS, the more children you have, the higher degree you reach in the Celestial Kingdom. You will—after passing—have your own planet with tons of your children on it. Of course, they have multiple wives, so sometimes a man can have 100+ children.
    Orthodox Jews have as many children as they can because they want to replace all the Holocaust victims.
    So it could be a religious point of view, or simple abuse by the hand of Gary Jr. They could also be pro-life (they were pro-guns too).
    But why then did Gary Sr. and Christina not intervene if they were all together in the same house? A grandparent who doesn’t share his opinion with his youngest son regarding his children's education strikes me as simply not possible. Did they just hate Elizabeth that much? Or is it because, in my opinion, Gary Jr. manipulated everyone into believing that he was doing “the work of God” to justify his actions? This is similar to the Lafferty brothers explaining a double homicide with “God told me to do it” and the brothers' mother referring to the older brother (Ron Lafferty) as “the one mighty and strong.”
    We don’t really have any information right now, but that is what I’m thinking. What do you guys think?
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u/Alba_2908 — 2 days ago
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Hi everyone, I’m new!

I’m writing here out of curiosity and also because I’d really appreciate some honest opinions or experiences

I met my ex about 10 years ago, and we got into a relationship 8 years ago. We lived together for 3 years, and during that time I felt a kind of love I’ve honestly never felt for anyone else before. It was very deep and intense for me.

When we broke up, things ended very abruptly. The day after our breakup, he started a relationship with someone else, and they stayed together for about 5 years. During those 5 years, we had absolutely no contact at all.

During that time, I did move forward with my life, but the truth is that not a single day went by without me thinking about him. The feeling never really left.

Then, after all that time, he came back. At first, it seemed like he was sure about wanting to reconnect, but that clarity faded pretty quickly. He became more and more confused and distant, until we ended up going back to no contact again. It’s now been about a month since then, and I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he’s already with someone new.

For my own mental health, I blocked him everywhere except my phone (so he can’t contact me easily, but I also don’t risk seeing anything that could hurt me, like photos or updates).

Recently (about a week ago), I asked a witch from Haiti to perform a love spell for me.

Now I’m wondering… did I basically ask for something unrealistic?

What I mean is: does a love spell have any chance of working on someone who isn’t sure about their feelings anymore? Or is it more like trying to make a complete stranger fall in love with you?

Also, my ex is a very emotionally closed-off person. He has some past trauma he doesn’t like to talk about, and he tends to avoid anything related to emotions. He doesn’t really process or express his feelings, and often just shuts that side of himself down.

So I’m also wondering if that kind of personality could make him more “resistant,” in a way.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Or has any experience with love spells in cases like this?

I’d really appreciate any honest thoughts or personal stories.

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u/Alba_2908 — 2 months ago
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Hi everyone, I’m new!

I’m writing here out of curiosity and also because I’d really appreciate some honest opinions or experiences

I met my ex about 10 years ago, and we got into a relationship 8 years ago. We lived together for 3 years, and during that time I felt a kind of love I’ve honestly never felt for anyone else before. It was very deep and intense for me.

When we broke up, things ended very abruptly. The day after our breakup, he started a relationship with someone else, and they stayed together for about 5 years. During those 5 years, we had absolutely no contact at all.

During that time, I did move forward with my life, but the truth is that not a single day went by without me thinking about him. The feeling never really left.

Then, after all that time, he came back. At first, it seemed like he was sure about wanting to reconnect, but that clarity faded pretty quickly. He became more and more confused and distant, until we ended up going back to no contact again. It’s now been about a month since then, and I honestly wouldn’t be surprised if he’s already with someone new.

For my own mental health, I blocked him everywhere except my phone (so he can’t contact me easily, but I also don’t risk seeing anything that could hurt me, like photos or updates).

Recently (about a week ago), I asked a witch from Haiti to perform a love spell for me.

Now I’m wondering… did I basically ask for something unrealistic?

What I mean is: does a love spell have any chance of working on someone who isn’t sure about their feelings anymore? Or is it more like trying to make a complete stranger fall in love with you?

Also, my ex is a very emotionally closed-off person. He has some past trauma he doesn’t like to talk about, and he tends to avoid anything related to emotions. He doesn’t really process or express his feelings, and often just shuts that side of himself down.

So I’m also wondering if that kind of personality could make him more “resistant,” in a way.

Has anyone been in a similar situation? Or has any experience with love spells in cases like this?

I’d really appreciate any honest thoughts or personal stories.

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u/Alba_2908 — 2 months ago