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i have the absolute worst circumstances. i manifested my worst nightmare, blocked everywhere, no contact order, and he has a new 3p that he seems completely happy with. even swore he would never be back. It seems he completely hates me. he seems 100% over me. After the legal stuff is over and done with is it still possible to manifest him back? i know circumstances “don’t matter” but this feels so overwhelming and impossible. i know it’s probably best to just move on but i love him so much.

what steps should i take? is there still a chance to manifest him back?

has anyone manifested their sp with circumstances this bad?

i have the absolute worst circumstances. i manifested my worst nightmare, blocked everywhere, no contact order, and he has a new 3p that he seems completely happy with. even swore he would never be back. It seems he completely hates me. he seems 100% over me. After the legal stuff is over and done with is it still possible to manifest him back? i know circumstances “don’t matter” but this feels so overwhelming and impossible. i know it’s probably best to just move on but i love him so much.

what steps should i take? is there still a chance to manifest him back?

i have the absolute worst circumstances. i manifested my worst nightmare, blocked everywhere, no contact order, and he has a new 3p that he seems completely happy with. it seems he completely hates me. After the legal stuff is over and done with is it still possible to manifest him back? i know circumstances “don’t matter” but this feels so overwhelming and impossible. i know it’s probably best to just move on but i love him so much.

what steps should i take? is there still a chance to manifest him back?

me and my sp dated for 6 months officially from the months of January 2025-July 2025. He treated me poorly and cheated a couple times but I forgave him. He broke up with me and I have begged and chased ever since. I know I need to have more self respect but I kept reaching out to see him even when he would end things with me. I would try to manifest but then spiral and reach out.

I know many of you will say move on and that it’s not worth it, but it is to me and I still love him months later.

I finally manifested him back end of September of 2025 with robotic affirmations and subliminals, he came to pick up a hoodie and told me I made him a better person and that he wanted to try again. He ended up telling me he fell back in love. But I wavered and ended up losing him again after that end of October. I called him when drunk and we got into a huge fight. He blocked me for about a month and a half and I was so angry that I stayed away for about a month. I started calling from unknown numbers (don’t even say anything I know it’s bad) Even showed up at his house unannounced once. I am in therapy and am working on my attachments, self control, and my self confidence.

Come January I think. Finally I saw him again randomly and we had a good talk in my car, we started speaking casually again but he wouldn’t give me a commitment which I couldn’t move past as far as manifesting and would crash out consistently.

Long story short since then he has continued to say he needs space and doesn’t want to be with me but will hang out with me when I ask and it’s always super fun. He took me on a couple dates the months of April and May but eventually the same problems came up and he wouldn’t commit. I’ve been manifesting the whole time but would waver when the 3d wouldn’t reflect what I wanted. We had a date that went amazing and he started saying he couldn’t commit after.

Last week, I called him drunk and went to his house to sleep and he finally told me everything I wanted to hear. That I was the one, that he only wanted to be with me, that we were going to be together. I was elated, I asked him in the morning if he really meant it and he promised he wouldn’t leave again. This week I was insecure and he completely switched on me and said that he didn’t mean it and that he wants to be alone and couldn’t do it. I completely spiraled this week. It was my birthday on Saturday and he went to rave with a girl he’s lied to me about before despite me saying I wanted him to come out with me. I know this is a reflection of my self concept since I’ve been worried he would leave me for someone else.

He promised to spend time with me the next day (Sunday) it went well. He apologized and we had a really good talk and I left feeling like things were ok between us. He finally said today he doesn’t want me in his life, that he doesn’t want me to contact him ever again and that he won’t contact me. He told me that he was never coming back and that I needed to let go of him. I sobbed, I begged and pleaded and chased him out the door. I know I shouldn’t have but I freaked out. He blocked me as soon as he left on everything. I feel hopeless and like there’s no coming back from this.

Can I still change my circumstances and manifest him back by working on my self concept? Or is this hopeless? Please help me. I love him deeply

how should i go about manifesting a loving relationship with him ?

me and my sp dated for 6 months officially from the months of January 2025-July 2025. He treated me poorly and cheated a couple times but I forgave him. He broke up with me and I have begged and chased ever since. I know I need to have more self respect but I kept reaching out to see him even when he would end things with me. I would try to manifest but then spiral and reach out.

I know many of you will say move on and that it’s not worth it, but it is to me and I still love him months later.

I finally manifested him back end of September of 2025 with robotic affirmations and subliminals, he came to pick up a hoodie and told me I made him a better person and that he wanted to try again. He ended up telling me he fell back in love. But I wavered and ended up losing him again after that end of October. I called him when drunk and we got into a huge fight. He blocked me for about a month and a half and I was so angry that I stayed away for about a month. I started calling from unknown numbers (don’t even say anything I know it’s bad) Even showed up at his house unannounced once. I am in therapy and am working on my attachments, self control, and my self confidence.

Come January I think. Finally I saw him again randomly and we had a good talk in my car, we started speaking casually again but he wouldn’t give me a commitment which I couldn’t move past as far as manifesting and would crash out consistently.

Long story short since then he has continued to say he needs space and doesn’t want to be with me but will hang out with me when I ask and it’s always super fun. He took me on a couple dates the months of April and May but eventually the same problems came up and he wouldn’t commit. I’ve been manifesting the whole time but would waver when the 3d wouldn’t reflect what I wanted. We had a date that went amazing and he started saying he couldn’t commit after.

Last week, I called him drunk and went to his house to sleep and he finally told me everything I wanted to hear. That I was the one, that he only wanted to be with me, that we were going to be together. I was elated, I asked him in the morning if he really meant it and he promised he wouldn’t leave again. This week I was insecure and he completely switched on me and said that he didn’t mean it and that he wants to be alone and couldn’t do it. I completely spiraled this week. It was my birthday on Saturday and he went to rave with a girl he’s lied to me about before despite me saying I wanted him to come out with me. I know this is a reflection of my self concept since I’ve been worried he would leave me for someone else.

He promised to spend time with me the next day (Sunday) it went well. He apologized and we had a really good talk and I left feeling like things were ok between us. He finally said today he doesn’t want me in his life, that he doesn’t want me to contact him ever again and that he won’t contact me. He told me that he was never coming back and that I needed to let go of him. I sobbed, I begged and pleaded and chased him out the door. I know I shouldn’t have but I freaked out. He blocked me as soon as he left on everything. I feel hopeless and like there’s no coming back from this.

Can I still change my circumstances and manifest him back by working on my self concept? Or is this hopeless? Please help me. I love him deeply