How to deal this toxic male coworker?his obsessive behavior is getting on my nerves.
Hi,
I am a female and working in Large organisation.
I have colluege. I have written 2 post about it.
https://www.reddit.com/r/work/s/Bvq2pc5V2E
https://www.reddit.com/r/work/s/uPiEhdRfP9
I have started to keep distance from him.he sensed it and trying to be Stay in touch with me. I am pissed off from this obsessive compulsive behavior. I don't know what kind of treatment he expect from me.
This week,I had sever dental Pain and and was in Office after My Tooth treatment with 2 injections in Mouth and half face numb due to local anesthesia. He was walking with a Lady which were bitchy towards me.
I seen him,but couldn't smile neither speak.he Said hi, I Said so and then he sent message.
"I see you didn't greet sara and you didn't greet me as well". I said I Said You hi,he Said you did but almost didn't. Then I wrote few Lines Why you think so? He Said I was joking, I said Why? He Said I was pulling your legs.I Said I was unwell he Said oh Yes I noticed you are unwell but then I Said You didn't ask my health. Then I told him about Dental issues.he Said Sorry.
Next Day he messaged me but didn't ask my Health. I ask him to Talk or meet me on office caffe Room.
Then I told him not to do such jokes with me. And ask him what do you expect? He was clueless he Said I am sorry I didn't know you are unwell but then I asked him What is point to bring that Lady discussions with me for which he Said I thought you guy's are at least staying Hi. I Said Why you think about me like this? What is your interest? I told him not to speak lie for small small Things.In the end he Said you are insulting me but I can sense he was really surprised...
I asked him does other miseries make you Happy? He said no no.then he changed conversation And I told him it was my mistake to trust you.he Said no no... then closed Meeting in caffe corner.
This guy is on My nerves... I don't know if I did it right or wrong but he is pure devil 😈.. he keep checking others Whatsapp and status if someone has removed him.in short he keep sniffing what's going in others life...
Had I done correct to Talk to him openly? How to get rid of this Nigerian phycopath male coworker?