u/AllNaturalNerd

I’m just so pissed. They have always chosen their crazy beliefs over family in every way imaginable and called it holy, but this just pushed me over the edge. Thankfully, we don’t live close.

They only even told my husband about it because he asked if they’d contribute to a playset for the kids. Apparently they can’t afford anything but this fucked up trip and the new rental house on their property and their yearly cruise and all the conferences my step FIL has to go to as a pastor and nothing else. I know they don’t owe us anything but we don’t owe Zionists doomsday crazies access to our children or us.

Had my precious second and last baby a few days ago and we are still not sure what his middle name(s) should be. Husband and I both would like to honor our late grandpas, Thomas and Ivan. He found the name Ivander while I was actively in labor and it’s really sticking for us both. What are your alls thoughts about two middle names and what order flows best? His big sister is Alula Judith.

Felix Thomas Ivander Mc____
or
Felix Ivander Thomas Mc____