So I saw an instagram reel (I know, I know, it’s the best source of information ever) that said that having your dorm room open would be really friendly and opens up opportunities to talk to more people. So I was wondering if I check with my roommate and stuff for sure would it be a decent idea to keep my dorm room open?
I am an incoming freshman in the engineering department, and I was assigned to a double room with a suite-style bathroom. I emailed my roommate/suitemates with the email the university provided to see if I could get a group chat going, but nobody has responded in like 2 weeks. I tried looking them up on Instagram but couldn't find them and I have no other social media. I don't know how else to get in touch with them, is there any way I can or does anyone have tips on what to bring because I don't know what they are bringing. Any help would be appreciated!
So uhhh I’ve never felt love I think because my girl best friend talked about going on dates with another guy and I feel sick like I’m gonna throw up what the actual fuck do I do
Edit: actual context
So I’ve know this girl for throughout high school and she’s been he only girl whose actually been nice to me ever. She recently broke up with her ex-boyfriend of also four years and she was just talking about how she met a guy and might go on dates with him, and I almost instantly got a massive headache and I feel sick to my stomach. If this is love I want to be apathetic I don’t get why this is happening to me
Random thought popped into my head. The first option means basically how covid was, you don’t need to go outside because everything is online and delivered. It’s all efficient and there’s not really any significant problems, but if you go outside there won’t be many people. OR would you rather live basically pre-covid but all the service workers are robots, not high tech or anything I’m thinking barebones they do their job, but can be frustrating with their programming and slow. TLDR more efficient world or more social world
So me (17M) and my girl best friend (18F) just graduated high school and are gonna go off to college. She had a boyfriend for the full four years of high school but just got dumped and i feel really bad. I accidentally brought it up and she's been leaving me on seen so I'm giving her space. The thing is I think I've had a crush on her before and it's starting to come back? I don't even know if I like her like that or if I just care about her because she's been like my best friend throughout high school and always been there for me. like she's so kind and caring and funny and she listens to me but obviously now isn't the time to tell her. I know I need therapy because I don't know what it's like to be in love, I don't know if I've ever felt it. Sometimes I feel like I just want us to hang out for longer or for her to talk to me more about things that bother her, I want to help her. She kind of doesn't talk about her problems and I have my own problems like insecurity and anxiety and it's making me feel like shit.
I'm scared that I like her because It seems obvious to me she doesn't like me back but she makes me feel so special when i hang out with her. I keep having this dream of us living together as roommates, not even romantically I don't think, but just like be around each other. I don't know what to do cause like first of all how do i know if she even wants to be my friend anymore cause shes not talking to me right now. second of all I dont know if i like her like that or if shes just a really good friend. and third of all what do i do if i do end up liking her? i know like i might live to regret it but i want the friendship to last so i dont want to. shes like the only person I really care about keeping as a friend after high school. I dont know how to proceed other than leaving her alone for a while.
TL;DR i dont know if i like a girl but i dont know what to do because she just got broken up with
All my life I've been told by my peers I'm going to fail, over and over and i've been proven right over and over and i'm scared ill never amount to anything because I never have. Almost none of my friends have talked to me since graduation and I'm scared they don't care about me anymore. I want to enjoy things other than video games so much but I'm so scared and I can't do anything right. I've blocked out most of my early life and I just want to enjoy things and feel emotions, because all I'm feeling is depressed. I'm going to college soon and i'm so scared what if i go down the wrong path? what if i never find the right people? I'm so weak and I can't do anything about it because nothing i do works.
My (18M) life is miserable. I'm not doing anything wrong per se but I'm like a huge loser, I want to go out with my friends but I'm too scared to, I just got dumped for like the third time, and I'm scared to go to college. My life is boring and I don't have any passions and don't really get excited for anything except talking to my friends. I need help on how to enjoy my time alone and figure out a routine to make myself less tired and more willing to do things. ANY help or advice is appreciated.