My husband and I rarely get to go out and tonight we finally have a chance. I want it to be good! Something with a good steak or pasta maybe. Or if anything fun is going on in town tonight? Open to all recommendations.
ETA: thank you everyone for the recs! I decided we will have to make it a point to try all of these places, so hopefully we will have many more date night opportunities from now on!
Lately I’ve gotten into listening to metal music. My husband found a playlist on Spotify to put on in the car to see if he can find songs he likes. (Cause he hates everything I like no matter what genre or category) He skipped one that had a female vocalist and said “I can’t listen to women try to do metal, it just sounds like I’m getting screamed at by a woman”
I sort of laughed and said “that’s sexist.”
He said “oh because I’ve been screamed at by women before?”
I said “no, I’ve been screamed at by men and yet I don’t think metal music sounds like a man screaming at me, that’s just sexist.”
He said “you don’t need to be rude to your husband for this, I’m not sexist.”
Would you say this is actually sexist or am I just moody?
Today it was sexist. Lately I’ve gotten into listening to metal music. He found a playlist on Spotify to put on in the car to see if he can find songs he likes. (Cause he hates everything I like no matter what genre or category) He skipped one that had a female vocalist and said “I can’t listen to women try to do metal, it just sounds like I’m getting screamed at by a woman”
I sort of laughed and said that’s sexist.
He said oh because I’ve been screamed at by women before?
I said no, I’ve been screamed at by men and yet I don’t think metal music sounds like a man screaming at me, that’s just sexist.
He said “you don’t need to be rude to your husband for this, I’m not sexist.”
But the thing is, he says sexist shit like this all the time, and just rude shit in general.
I actually can’t voice my opinion about anything or share with him anything I actually like because he can be so rude and inconsiderate of my feelings.
Anyway, just had to complain for a moment. Would you say this is sexist or am I just moody?
I (30F) have been with my husband for almost 9 years but he’s only made me orgasm a handful of times. We have sex pretty frequently and he always finishes , but I do not. I don’t fake it either, he’s aware I don’t finish. I just need to know if this is a common thing.
I have needed glasses for several years, I got these about 5 years ago. I never wore them much at all because I have sensory issues and feel embarrassed about them as well. But now my eyesight is even worse than before and I just can’t go without glasses anymore.
Before I go in for a new script and frame, I’m wondering how these look on me. I have to wait a little while to get new ones but I’ve been just nearly in tears thinking I look so bad in glasses (In general but the glasses make me feel worse)