u/Alternative_Yak_4897

Hi! I live in fort greene (small apartment) and my family is visiting in October and looking for somewhere to stay October 10-14 with 1-2 bathrooms, 1-2 bedrooms, kitchen, preferably outdoor space. And available parking. Since air b n b laws have changed since the last time they visited, they're having trouble finding anything that way. Does anyone have ideas of where they could stay that meets as much of that criteria as possible? Really going out on a limb here- but would anyone be interested in subletting their place for those days?

The above. Anywhere. I’m guessing midtown, but if you have specific recommendations, pled advice ! I also have scrap gold (like broken chains , etc). Thank you !

I haven’t done much research on this and I’m new to learning about the iching. I found a copy of the art of war that I haven’t read since I was maybe a teenager - before I knew the iching existed- and I started re-reading because I was so excited to now see how the iching would fit into it- only to find that it’s rarely mentioned and not by name - and there’s a note by the translator that says that this text does not support divination as a tool-even though as I’m reading it , I can literally picture a hexagram related to each numbered sentence. Is this just my translation? The translator also says Confucius did not endorse divination. Maybe not for war- it obviously he revered the iching. What’s the story here?

The above! I welcome all interpretations please! I don’t ask the iching relationship questions, but this has been weighing on me for months and I have been not speaking up because I believe me challenge is to be patient. I have been trying to be patient because this person processes things slowly and is easily overwhelmed. But it has been a long time and my feelings and what I want has not changed. I asked the iching when the right time to share what I feel and what I want with this person is?

Yao in the first would suggest .. now?
It’s funny because I looked up when the 6th day of the 3rd month of the Chinese lunar calendar is in the Gregorian calendar and I found that it was exactly 1 month ago- April 22, 2026.

Thank you !!

I have been grieving a lot of things since September of last year- heartbreak, death, family trauma, my sense of self- there has been lots of change but it has been so hard for so long. It feels like I am feeling and learning things about EVERYTHING that make life harder to confront but more true. This feels like the type of grief that changes who I am. I asked the Iching what the result of my staying with a medication (that I know causes depression for me but feels nearly impossible to walk away from because it controls a debilitating and chronic condition I have that prevents me from working without it) through this grief would be?

As in, is it possible for this grief to pass while I’m on the medication that is certainly contributing to it? The alternative would be to go the medication and FEEL positive about life BUT not be able to work reliably /at all.

I would love help with interpretations. How do people feel about changing lines? If 4 is the minister, does that mean I have real agency over this situation ? And 29 just feels cheeky . Since it’s about grief. Does that mean grief will prevail if I stay on the medication and I will just learn to make the most of it ?

What would you say?

My mom just asked me and I said this: Summary is : time is now, change is always, every moment is its own, and the right time to act is why I keep studying it ..

I’m looking into volunteering at a city hospital while I’m applying to social work grad programs. My cataplexy is well controlled with Xyrem right now. I want to be a hospital social worker. But already during the volunteer interview process, I’m realizing how devastating/confusing/scary it would be for a patient if I had cataplexy episode or zoned out enough that it’s noticeable in front of them. Is this is a wise choice ? How do you navigate working with patients even if you know there’s a possibility you could have a catapelxy episode?