u/Altruistic-Patient-8

!Spoilers! 3 phases, one hp attacks, and absorbs my character traits. Might be the only chapter boss I skip. Completely broke the fun of the game.

Pretty ridiculous that a boat costs 100,000 leaves. His ability doesn't give nearly enough money.

Update: I ended up selling all the loot that I saved up, and it was enough to buy the ship. I did go to the merchant guild for the 30% off deal. I dont usually use most of the characters path actions, im just trying to get through the story. Appreciate the advice. I do like the character, hes great.

Currently have been unemployed for around 2 months. I quit my last job because I was overworked, a.d the environment just sucked. Saved up some money to pay my bills for awhile, but not really anything for some casual outings. I never made a large amount of money, so im used to scavenging what I can. Aside from this situation, I never had a financial opportunity to really make sone dramatic changes in my life. Never owned an apartment, never traveled to another country, never wore expensive clothes. Etc. Above it all, im just made that I don't have money to spend with my friends. I really feel like a bum.

I do take accountability that I could be more social and approachable. I do enjoy my peace, so I don't interact with people willingly. At the same time, im this way because I've had to put in tremendous effort to receive basic attention. People don't introduce themselves to me, and im usually the last person on their friend list. If I don't reach out to someone first, I get ghosted. Let's not be too hard on ourselves.

I see alot of success stories online, and in person. Someone looked unattractive in their teens, but their killing it as an adult. Someone was cheated on, but they found their permanent lover. Someone couldn't find a person that liked their weird hobbies, but eventually find an equally interesting person. Im just wondering when its my time to find a partner. Im 27m, and never dated. Its very depressing when no woman has ever wanted to give me a chance. Its one thing if I constantly mess up, completely different when no opportunities present themselves; im also tired of chasing. Being told that im young, and will eventually find someone, doesn't help. How can I believe that, when a quarter of my lifespan has been no results?

I started with Primrose, went to the cave, and instantly got killed by a lizard. Then I grinded to lvl 4, had the boss fight with the Tavern boss, and it was just a 1v3. I know I could have recruited an Npc beforehand, but didn't feel like I needed too. Now im about to recruit all the side characters, and wondering how much the difficulty will increase. Im not a stranger to rpgs at all, but this caught me off guard. Maybe I became too relaxed with these newer games having options to double xp and damage.

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You could do everything right, and not have anything to show for it. Someone else can do absolutely nothing, and have a good life handed to them. Its hard not to be a bit of a depressing doomer when you see clear examples of this, every day. Theirs also the idea of a gamblers fallacy: you lose so much, your'e due for a big win soon. Im just waiting on my success era.

I feel like a goddammit beggar. "Can we hang out today? Got any spare time to see eachother? You going to be free, anytime soon?" I usually get a no, or crickets. Then you get told to explore other relationships, and it results in me getting ignored. Fk it, I'll stay in seclusion.

Most days, im fine, but I still can't shake the feeling that I really want a partner. Most of my friends are in romantic relationships, and its just hard to admit that I literally have no luck in that front. They either were already in relationships during high school, or their just casually lucky. I feel like a creep if I express interest, and already know the answer, which is a hard no. Its like I keep losing, with no end in sight. I dont want to give up on the possibility, but feels like I should, for the sake of my sanity.

It's hard to admit it, but if dating someone is difficult, it's not ment to be. If they truly like you, they'll accommodate your preferences, and make themselves available to you. It's pretty clear when things are one sided, but our brains refuse to give up, even when the outcome is decided. Screw the dead chats, emotionally unavailable dates, and desperate need for affection. We deserve better.

I've never had a long term connection with anyone. My family and friends are all scattered, and I barely get to see them. I meet someone new, and it turns into a temporary situation, before Im back to square one. Not sure if it's because it's something natural, or it's because im not that interesting to be around. I get friendzoned, or completely forgotten about. Feels like I dont fit in anywhere, and that's sad to admit.

I say this from a pure neutral stance. Women tend to have more options, so aren't usually focused on one man in particular. If a guy doesn't like them, their are certainly other viable options. I think a man can usually hyper fixate on a woman, because the chances of someone else liking them is slim. Everyone can make up scenarios in their head, but I estimate men are more likely to daydream about a possible relationship.

I dont like or really know how to flirt. I like you, I ask to take you out, and thats about it. I prefer not to dance around the situation. I hate guessing games, too.

Like you can do everything right, but still fail to attract a partner?

Do you think that youre eventually going to be in a relationship, so you keep grinding on your goals, and not worry about it? It's hard for me to have confidence that something is going to inevitably pop off, when it hasn't happened yet. Apparently theirs someone for everyone, but also, no one owes you a relationship. So what's the real truth here?

Are people actually being honest when they say this? You don't care if the person is morbidly obese, skinny, has buck teeth, swollen eyes, yellow teeth, extroverted or introverted, etc? They say that attraction grows, but theirs still a base level of attraction, right?