u/Amazing-Designer1467

my parents are putting lot of pressure on marriage. i am 31 year old and till now either i have rejected the proposal or i called the boy or i told him in person that i cant marry.

but every time my father came to know about this and each time they create a huge drama. i am going through immense pressure and everything. they wont let me leave my house or have a phone. i am only allowed to have a laptop.

i have been depressed for quite some time and currently on medication.

now they have found the match with this IITian doing job in banglore.
they are hell bent on it. And will do anything just so i could marry him.

i told them that this time i wont meet the guy and my father started to have an attack. He was admitted in hospital and my brother had warned me if something happens to my father he will k*ll me.

i still tried to text this guy on insta, fb and gmail. I dont know why he hasnt responded. Maybe he is not a social media person.

i am thinking of cutting my hair very short so no guy ever marry me. but i think my father will again admit in the hospital due to this.

should i do this?

or is there any other thing i could do?

i am even thinking of cutting my finger off or blinding myself.

My father and mother are threatning my bf and his family. My father is saying that he will k*ll my bf and his family and also threatning legally. Now my situation is also not okay mentally. I am feeling that i will loose control over my mind. I am depressed and currently on medication. Now i am worried that my family may put blame on my bf for this too. My father is not at all worried whether he will loose respect in society or not.

tell me what can i do legally to protect them.

my parents are forcing me for an arrange marriage with a guy. He has studied for IIT BHU and currently doing job in banglore. i dont want to marry him. My parents are putting all kind of typical indian parents emotional guilt and threat. I am depressed for quite some time now. I try to contact with this guy on insta, fb, gmail and even linkedin but no response. His insta fb are private account so maybe the text has been reached to his hidden message request folder. i think he is not active on linkedin, but i dont understand about the gmail. I have contacted him 10-20 times by now all through social media but no response. I think he is not a social media guy.

now there will be a meeting between all our family members and now what can i do at that time that the guy family will back out respectfully so my parents would not una*ive me.

i dont have mobile phone So i cant text me him on his whatsapp or mobile no.

help me

my parents are forcing me for an arrange marriage with a guy. He has studied for IIT BHU and currently doing job in banglore. i dont want to marry him. My parents are putting all kind of typical indian parents emotional guilt and threat. I am depressed for quite some time now. I try to contact with this guy on insta, fb, gmail and even linkedin but no response. His insta fb are private account so maybe the text has been reached to his hidden message request folder. i think he is not active on linkedin, but i dont understand about the gmail. I have contacted him 10-20 times by now all through social media but no response. I think he is not a social media guy.

now there will be a meeting between all our family members and now what can i do at that time that the guy family will back out respectfully so my parents would not una*ive me.

i dont have mobile phone So i cant text me him on his whatsapp or mobile no.

help me

my parents are forcing me for an arrange marriage with a guy. He has studied for IIT BHU and currently doing job in banglore. i dont want to marry him. My parents are putting all kind of typical indian parents emotional guilt and threat. I am depressed for quite some time now. I try to contact with this guy on insta, fb, gmail and even linkedin but no response. His insta fb are private account so maybe the text has been reached to his hidden message request folder. i think he is not active on linkedin, but i dont understand about the gmail. I have contacted him 10-20 times by now all through social media but no response. I think he is not a social media guy.

now there will be a meeting between all our family members and now what can i do at that time that the guy family will back out respectfully so my parents would not una*ive me.

i dont have mobile phone So i cant text me him on his whatsapp or mobile no.

help me