u/Ambitious_Cry_4149

Sex after baby

I’m a 36F married to 40M for two years, together 7 total.

I previously posted when I was about 8 weeks postpartum about arguments with my husband over sex. He was dissatisfied with lack of sex after baby and made comments about not being turned on by me in sweats. I’m now almost seven months postpartum, and it continues to be an issue. I work full time and I’m actually the breadwinner in the family. We manage to have sex about twice a week but he’s often complaining about lack of sex or saying our sex life is a joke or he’s bored. I’ve tried dressing up, getting new outfits, being spontaneous….its never enough. Is this normal? I’m trying really hard to empathize with him adjusting to having a new baby but it seems excessive. It’s to the point he’s nasty and cold over his perceived lack of sex.

TLDR: husband has been angry about sex postpartum to the point of being nasty. What do I do?

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u/Ambitious_Cry_4149 — 1 day ago