Confusing Message
I got discarded by my avoidant 3 weeks ago. I’ve remained strong and not reached out but had to yesterday as I needed to know when he was collecting his cat. He responded very cold, said next week, and randomly removed the background photo (picture of my dog and his cat) I then said ‘are you okay?’ And he’s not responded.
He left with only a few bin bags of clothes to stay in an air b&b. We had a lovely life together (I thought!) and I did just about everything for him, showered him with love and affection every day, I loved and cared for him deeply. He said sorry at the end and even said it wasn’t anything I done, he just knew he had to leave and be on his own.
So why is he so cold towards me now? What does the removal of the photo mean?
I have been doing really well, healing every day but now this has set me back and I’m spiralling 🌀