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▲ 49 r/AmIOverreacting

AIO for deleting my Snapchat after finding out my brother was tracking me?

I found out that my brother was using the location feature in Snapchat to watch where I am when I'm not home. He had in the past months made comments about knowing when I was driving through certain areas and "watching me drive". The last straw was when I was hanging out with a friend and he sent me a message asking why I was at the location I was. After figuring out he had used my location on the Snapchat map and a bit creeped out that he was keeping track of where I was, I turned my location off in Snapchat.

He then started asking to see my phone randomly after I had turned off the permissions. When I asked why he needed my phone or what he was going to do he would pretend like he didn't remember why he wanted it. He's a computer guy and pretty tech savvy, so I usually have him help me if I have phone issues. I let him use the phone yesterday for a second to fix an issue I had. As soon as I got my phone back, I looked at my Snapchat. He had turned my location back on.

Again, yesterday, I left my phone in the other room because I'm a forgetful ADHD and asked him to grab it for me because he was in there. After he grabbed and handed it out back to me, I checked my Snapchat app again. Location was back on. I deleted my Snapchat. Am I overreacting?

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u/AnniesNote — 18 hours ago
▲ 2 r/therapy

Therapist made me cry (in a good way) and now I feel super vulnerable. Should I bring that up too?

First, I appreciate my therapist. I've been seeing her for about 4 years and she has been nothing but supportive and awesome. Yesterday I brought up my fear of rejection and how the more I respect and get to know someone, the bigger the fear of disappointing them and failure increases and I realized that was starting to include her, which was making it more difficult to disclose things to her.

She told me nothing I could tell her would make her disappointed in me, which felt good to hear aloud but made me really emotional. We talked about a few things after that I had been having difficulty bringing up and the session overall went really well. The only problem is I felt really vulnerable after all that and kind of still do, while thinking about our session. Is this vulnerability something I should bring up with her?

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u/AnniesNote — 2 days ago
▲ 3 r/TalkTherapy

Therapist made me cry (in a good way) and now I feel super vulnerable. Should I bring that up too?

First, I appreciate my therapist. I've been seeing her for about 4 years and she has been nothing but supportive and awesome. Yesterday I brought up my fear of rejection and how the more I respect and get to know someone, the bigger the fear of disappointing them and failure increases and I realized that was starting to include her, which was making it more difficult to disclose things to her.

She told me nothing I could tell her would make her disappointed in me, which felt good to hear aloud but made me really emotional. We talked about a few things after that I had been having difficulty bringing up and the session overall went really well. The only problem is I felt really vulnerable after all that and kind of still do, while thinking about our session. Is this vulnerability something I should bring up with her?

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u/AnniesNote — 2 days ago
▲ 5 r/askatherapist

Is this grounds for my therapist to recommemd inpatient?

I plan on bringing up some SI and SH urges and behaviors in therapy tomorrow. I have googled ways to obtain certain resources regarding the SI urges but don't have a definitive plan. While my therapist doesn't tend to overreact, would this be grounds for her to recommend a grippy sock vacation?

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u/AnniesNote — 4 days ago
▲ 2 r/therapy

Would a therapist be concerned about this?

I plan on bringing up my SI tomorrow in therapy and have been googling ways to obtain certain things related to this ideation but don't have a definite plan. My T isn't one to overreact, but would this be grounds for a place with grippy socks? I'm just worried about bringing it up.

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u/AnniesNote — 4 days ago
▲ 9 r/askatherapist

Would a therapist refer out for this or is it something we can work through?

I've come to realize that my therapist has almost become someone that I'm afraid to tell things to. Not because of our relationship, but because I've come to realize that the more I build a connection with someone and come to trust and respect them, the more I become afraid of them becoming disappointed in me and I fear their rejection. Is this something that would come across as rude to bring up or make my therapist want to refer me out?

Thanks in advance to all who reply.

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u/AnniesNote — 5 days ago
▲ 2 r/Anxietyhelp

Overstimulation sucks

I feel so stupid. I was waiting for my brother to get done with an appointment because I was his ride. He got in the car and started yelling at the top of his lungs about his appointment. I shut down and started shaking and crying even though it wasn't directed toward me. overreacted and feel so dumb. Now it feels like my nervous system is on overdrive and I can hardly even bring myself to talk.

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u/AnniesNote — 5 days ago
▲ 47 r/glutenfree

How do people explain gluten sensitivity at restaurants?

Hello all. I figured out this year that I have a gluten sensitivity. Bloating, trapped painful gas, cramping, vomiting, brain fog, migraines the whole nine yards from a half a slice of gluten laden bread. I have been gluten free for about 3 months but have a vast knowledge of it due to a past friendship with a severe celiac.

My question, is what is the etiquette for when restaurants ask if the gluten free request is allergy or preference?

I had a celiac test a few years ago (which may not have been accurate for lack of eating gluten in the prior months before the test) which came back negative. Because of this, I usually say, it's not an allergy, but will make me sick. What is the proper response to this question? Thanks to anyone who answers!

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u/AnniesNote — 14 days ago
▲ 2 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Sailors, Harry Potter pens, and Vintage Parkers

Hello all. Back with the last of the pens. CONUS shipping is $10. All sub rules apply, comment before pm. Will consider offers! Thanks for looking!

Group Shot and Verification here

Sailor PGS Manyo II Grass--$150 PENDING SOLD

• 14K F Nib

  • [A2] Condition -- has been inked but in excellent condition with no significant signs of use. Includes converter.

Sailor 1911S Burgundy-- $100 PENDING SOLD

• 14K F Nib

• [B] Condition-- All parts original and showing only very slight signs of use. Very slight surface scratching on nib and clip, includes a converter

Harry Potter Pen Set -- $15

  • These are NOT fountain pens, but regular pens
  • A1 Condition, never been used, only opened for inspection.

Vintage 1930s Parker Televisor MK1 Slender Fountain Pen (grey)  --- $70

--[D] Condition. Shows significant use. The Metal clip is quite loose and there are significant scratches (shown in the pictures). I bought it as a collectors item and have never actually used it so the actual condition of its usability is unknown. Please note the pink in the photos is a reflection, not damage.

--14K nib, unknown size

Vintage Webster (Burgundy) --- $90

--[D] Condition. Shows significant use. The Metal clip is quite and I bought it as a collectors item and have never actually used it so the actual condition of its usability is unknown. Please note the pink in the photos is a reflection, not damage.

--14K nib, unknown size

u/AnniesNote — 15 days ago
▲ 5 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Pilot and Sailor, ink and pens

Hi again, all. I've got a couple pens and ink up for grabs as I am thinning out my collection. All sub rules apply, comment before messaging. CONUS shipping is $10, will consider offers. Thanks for looking!

Group shot and product verification here

**Pilot Iroshizuku Tsutsuji -- $100 PENDING SOLD

• This is a discontinued color of ink

• 50ml glass bottle

• A1 Condition -- Bottle is brand new

Sailor 21 mini pocket pen -- $100 PENDING SOLD

• This is a vintage 1960s pen. Uses cartridges, does not come with any kind of converter

• F 21K Nib

• [B] Condition-- All parts original and showing only very slight signs of use. Very slight surface scratching on nib and clip

Sailor 1911S Burgundy-- $100

• 14K F Nib

• [B] Condition-- All parts original and showing only very slight signs of use. Very slight surface scratching on nib and clip, includes a converter

Sailor Manyo Hinoki -- $20 PENDING SOLD

• 50ml glass bottle

• A1 Condition -- Bottle is brand new

Harry Potter Pen Set -- $15

  • These are NOT fountain pens, but regular pens
  • A1 Condition, never been used, only opened for inspection.
u/AnniesNote — 18 days ago
▲ 2 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Diamine, Pilot, Sailor, USA inks and Organics Studio assorted inks

Hello again, all. I've got an assortment of inks up for grabs as I am thinning out my collection. All sub rules apply, comment before messaging. CONUS shipping is $10, will consider offers. Thanks for looking!

Group shot and product verification here

Diamine Claret--$5 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Diamine Jade--$5 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is probably 90% full, about to top of label

Diamine Majestic Purple-- $5 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Diamine Majestic Wild Strawberry-- $5 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Organic Studios Emily Dickinson--$10 PENDING SOLD

• 55ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Pilot Iroshizuku Kosumosu -- $100

• This is a discontinued color of ink

• 50ml glass bottle

• A1 Condition -- Bottle is brand new

Pilot Iroshizuku Murasaki-Shikubu -- $20

• 50ml glass bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Sailor black--$10 PENDING SOLD

• 50ml glass bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Sailor 'Colors of Four Seasons - Special Edition' Yama-Dori -- $15

•20ml bottle
• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

USA ink From Cali-- $10 PENDING SOLD

•10ml bottle
• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Wearingeul Captain Hook-- $15 PENDING SOLD

•30ml bottle
• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

u/AnniesNote — 21 days ago
▲ 22 r/plushiedreadfuls

Will version 1 of asthma rabbit ever come back?

I like the design for v1 so much better than v2 and in the description it says it won't come back for a long time. Will I probably be just endlessly waiting? Haven't had much luck finding a resale and would rather support Plushie dreadfuls directly, too, if possible.

u/AnniesNote — 29 days ago
▲ 1 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Sailor, Pilot, Diamine, and other assorted fountain pen inks

Hi all. I've got an assortment of inks up for grabs as I am thinning out my collection. All sub rules apply, comment before messaging. CONUS shipping is $10, will consider offers. Thanks for looking!

Group shot and product verification here

Pelikan 4001 turquoise--$5 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Diamine Aurora Borealis--$5 PENDING

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Diamine Apple Glory--$5 PENDING

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Jacques Herbin Encre Violette Pensée--$10 PENDING SOLD

• 30ml bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Montverde Sapphire--$10

• 30ml bottle

• A1 Condition -- Bottle is unopened and brand new

Sailor black--$10

• 50ml glass bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Pilot Iroshizuku tsutsji-- $100

• This is a discontinued color of ink

• 50ml glass bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Pilot Iroshizuku kosumosu--$100

• This is a discontinued color of ink

• 50ml glass bottle

• A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially brand new and full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch

Pilot Iroshizuku Ama-Iro-- $20 PENDING SOLD

• 50ml glass bottle

~~ A2 Condition -- Bottle is essentially full and has only been used if any for a single color swatch~~

u/AnniesNote — 29 days ago
▲ 6 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Vintage Parker, Sailors, and Case

Back with a few more pens. CONUS shipping is $10. All sub rules apply, comment before pm. Will consider offers! Thanks for looking!

Group Shot and Verification here

Sailor Shikiori Moonlit Night Water Surface Night Cherry blossoms ---$40 PENDING SOLD

-- [A2] Condition -- has been inked but in excellent condition with no significant signs of use. Includes converter.

--F Stainless Steel Nib

Sailor Fountain Pen Pro Fit Light Shining Blue ---$40 PENDING SOLD

- [A2] Condition -- has been inked but in excellent condition with no significant signs of use. Includes converter.

--EF 14K Nib

Vintage 1930s Parker Televisor MK1 Slender Fountain Pen (grey)  --- $70

--[D] Condition. Shows significant use. The Metal clip is quite loose and there are significant scratches (shown in the pictures). I bought it as a collectors item and have never actually used it so the actual condition of its usability is unknown.

--14K nib, unknown size

Vintage 1937 Parker Televisor MK1 (Burgundy) --- $90

--[D] Condition. Shows significant use. The Metal clip is quite and I bought it as a collectors item and have never actually used it so the actual condition of its usability is unknown.

--14K nib, unknown size

PU Leather Fountain Pen Case PU Leather 12 Pen Capacity -- $5

--Holds 12 pens

u/AnniesNote — 1 month ago
▲ 12 r/Pen_Swap

[WTS] Sailors and Pilot Elite

Hi all, I am thinning out my herd of pens. All pens have no cracks or chips. CONUS shipping is $10. All sub rules apply, comment before pm. Will consider offers! Thanks for looking!

Group shot and pen conditions verification

Pens

Sailor Professional Gear Fountain Pen - Seasonal Festival Kiku - Slim --- $180 --- PENDING SOLD

-- [A2] Condition -- has been inked but in excellent condition with no significant signs of use. Includes converter and original box

--MF 14K Nib

Sailor Pro Gear Slim Shikiori Fountain Pen Princess Kaguya (Ruby Red) --- $180 --- PENDING SOLD

-- [A2] Condition -- has been inked and used but in excellent condition with no significant signs of use. Includes converter and original box

--MF 14K Nib
Pilot Elite 95S -- $90 SOLD

--[C] Condition -- some scuffing on the body and cap, but not really noticeable unless you look at it with a light directly on it. Includes a small black leather case and a converter.

--F 14k Nib

Sailor Promenade --- $100 ---PENDING SOLD

--[B] Condition -- has been inked, but is still in excellent condition. Comes with a converter.

-- EF or F14k Nib (unsure, sorry)

Sailor Profit Standard --- $80 --PENDING SOLD

--[B] Condition -- has been inked, but is still in excellent condition. Comes with a converter.

-- F 14k Nib

u/AnniesNote — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/askatherapist

Will my therapist report bringing up ideas of wanting to self harm?

*Tagged NSFW for sensitive content*

I want to make it clear that I have not and do not have plans for current self harm, but, have wants and urges to.

I have cut in the past, but have not done so in over 12 years. I have recently been getting urges to want to do so again, and want to bring this up to my therapist, mostly at why I'm feeling these urges, however, I am worried if this is something she would report? TIA for any replies.

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u/AnniesNote — 1 month ago
▲ 33 r/plushiedreadfuls

My babies came! 🥰

I'm so happy to finally get my first order! I haven't figured a name for the PTSD one, but the other two are Chaos and Audie 🥰

u/AnniesNote — 1 month ago
▲ 3 r/TalkTherapy

Is asking your therapist for more frequent sessions rude?

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Hi all. I have AuDHD so, my apologies if any of this is unclear.

TLDR-- is asking your therapist for more frequent sessions because I currently have so much going on that I always feel like I never get to everything I want to talk about, in any way considered rude (also how would that affect my insurance) towards the therapist? I currently see my therapist twice a month TIA for any replies!

The longer story--

I've been seeing my therapist for about 5 years twice a month. I've been wanting to ask to see her more frequently for some time because I always feel rushed every session to talk through everything that has happened in two weeks. They are usually important things, too (without going into too much detail, I have many health problems, so, for example: in the past two weeks I've been in the ER, need to talk about toxic home life, update my therapist about legal and other health issues etc) and getting to all that in 45 or 50 minutes often just doesn't happen.

I'm A) concerned my insurance would reject the extra sessions (Medicaid), and B) don't want my asking for more sessions to be considered rude or overbearing towards my therapist. Any insight from an actual therapist would be awesome, but any replies welcome. TIA to any who reply

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u/AnniesNote — 2 months ago