AITAH? My GF of 1 year and me have been disagreeing about a guy emailing her.
So my gf (18) of 1 year doesn’t make friends very easily. And I tried to explain to her I don’t care who she makes friends with and she was usually fine and respects if I am uncomfortable for any certain reason (ex. They flirt and she tells me and I ask her if she’d stop talking to them and she’d say ok and it’s done) But now she has been emailing this dude (school email) who is a terrible person and I mean like they make him go to boarding school bad. And I tried to have a respectful with conversation her about how she shouldn’t be talking to him because of how bad he is and he is a bad influence and stating my issues and listening to her feedback and I am met with “no” . Keep in mind this dude smokes and is high 90% of the time and is constantly posting about his “guns” and his “drugs”. And so the past few nights I have been fighting for her attention on the phone and trying to talk to her and explain in a respectful way that I don’t want her talking but she always just says I’m too controlling or he changed or something like that. And she always yells at me and gets pissed. So now I’m wondering if I did something wrong?
Edit: from my reread i understand their was some misunderstanding I added more detail to explain the situation. And I have ZERO issue with her being friends with guys if I didn’t make that clear