u/Ant-Western

Can someone help me plan my wedding guest outfits as an autistic woman with eczema?

I am white British female and I am attending a British/Desi wedding in the UK. The bride and groom are mixing traditions and I'm wondering if someone can help me understand what outfits I might be able to wear based on the dress codes? The women are expected to wear predominantly Indian outfits and the men will wear suits.

I am autistic and have eczema so even in my British daily life I find formal dressing up really tough. I'm keen to do right by the bride and groom but struggling to work out what is appropriate to wear. Ideally I would wear cotton outfits and for example I would struggle with a two piece like a lehenga - they are beautiful but I'm that person that wears leggings and a jumper in summer because I feel uncomfortable.

Here's the message I've received re outfits:

Outfits Women Need

Tuesday Yellow, orange or pink Lehenga- Bharat, Telban, Haldi

Dinner and masked party- western black tie

Wednesday - Most Formal Indian Lehenga

Sangeet - Sparkle formal lehenga or saree - Indian

Thursday - smart casual indian or western day

TIA

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u/Ant-Western — 7 days ago