Husband said he's never experienced a household where the woman couldn't watch the baby and cook/clean.
Is this as bad as I think it is? When he came home from work the baby kept roaming into area that I needed to clean. I said I think I can start dinner but can you watch him. He sulked and mumbled some stuff about how we have "that kind of household" and I asked what he meant and he said his mom, all his aunts and his grandma all were able to watch the baby and cook and clean. I thought he was much more progressive than that. It feels icky to be compared to his mother. But she was also 18 when she had him and I was 38 when I had our baby.
I feel like I suddenly do not care about this relationship at all. I would NEVER win. For the record, I did 3 loads of laundry today and washed baby bottles. I realized the house was falling behind so I sleep trained the baby last week. On my own.
I feel like he's lowkey calling me lazy?? I only just got cleared from my anemia last week, 6 months postpartum.