Do you think S can have a normal life after all of this?

With the type of digital footprint her father has created for her, all of the horrible things associated with their names, do you think S can ever have a normal future if she were to leave? If she broke free, or got kicked out, or SOMETHING.

Like hypothetically, she woke up, left her family, did the work to become a healthy human, do you think she could get a job? Could she go to school? Or is her reputation forever destroyed by what her family has done?

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 9 days ago

Do you think S can have a normal life after all of this?

With the type of digital footprint her father has created for her, all of the horrible things associated with their names, do you think S can ever have a normal future if she were to leave? If she broke free, or got kicked out, or SOMETHING.

Like hypothetically, she woke up, left her family, did the work to become a healthy human, do you think she could get a job? Could she go to school? Or is her reputation forever destroyed by what her family has done?

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 9 days ago

P is so delusional

“My followers”
“To all of our followers, it’s all lies, don’t believe it”
“Why are we still online? Because I’m not going to bow to the haters.”
And on and on and on.

Does he not understand that this goes beyond haters and is actually about the safety of his minor son!? About the safety (or lack thereof) of S as a minor? The blatant signs of exploitation and trafficking happening in his household being put on blast every night? The neglect of his wife and daughter’s health? The fact that he ADMITTED to writing nasty stories about his child!?

Ugh he pmo so much. Cry me a fucking river, Pat. Cry me a river.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 13 days ago

What’re your predictions for the rest of 2026?

It’s been a crazy year in the Getch-verse…

What’re your predictions for what will happen for the remainder of 2026?

It seems like we’ve had one big thing after the other around here, many people have been predicting it, so what do YOU think?

The prize for whoever is correct is roach-meatloaf with extra chunky onions and cheese. 🪳🧅🧀

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 14 days ago

What’re your predictions for the rest of 2026?

It’s been a crazy year in the Getch-verse…

What’re your predictions for what will happen for the remainder of 2026?

It seems like we’ve had one big thing after the other around here, many people have been predicting it, so what do YOU think?

The prize for whoever is correct is roach-meatloaf with extra chunky onions and cheese. 🪳🧅🧀

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 14 days ago

What’re your predictions for the rest of 2026?

It’s been a crazy year in the Getch-verse…

What’re your predictions for what will happen for the remainder of 2026?

It seems like we’ve had one big thing after the other around here, many people have been predicting it, so what do YOU think?

The prize for whoever is correct is roach-meatloaf with extra chunky onions and cheese. 🪳🧅🧀

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 14 days ago

RCMP asking me for information regarding a prior partner. Do I get a lawyer?

Basically what the title says. RCMP have contacted me asking me to provide information about a past partner who is suspected of committing at least one (possibly more) serious crime.

I have been informed that I will be required to provide official statements to police and likely be a witness in the trial if the individual is charged.

The information they are asking would build most of their case. They contacted me based off of previous reports I made against the person. I anticipate that I’ll be subpoenaed in this situation.

There is no legal threat to me whatsoever, but the officer I spoke with seemed concerned for my personal safety which seemed odd to me.

Should I get a lawyer? I guess I’m just not sure if I should consult a lawyer before this becomes a trial built on information I am able to provide.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 14 days ago

Wellness Check

I’m so frustrated by the wellness check the other day. Whoever made that call, did you mention that there is a minor son in the home? S doesn’t need a wellness check, she’s going to say exactly what her dad has coached her to say, but H is young and he might actually let something slip. It is NOT OKAY that he is banished to his bedroom for 4 hours a day, while he’s also being “homeschooled,” and neglected. The wellness check should have specified that it was for HIM.

ETA: Ofc this post got removed from the big snark sub.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 19 days ago

Wellness Check

I’m so frustrated by the wellness check the other day. Whoever made that call, did you mention that there is a minor son in the home? S doesn’t need a wellness check, she’s going to say exactly what her dad has coached her to say, but H is young and he might actually let something slip. It is NOT OKAY that he is banished to his bedroom for 4 hours a day, while he’s also being “homeschooled,” and neglected. The wellness check should have specified that it was for HIM.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 19 days ago

Wellness Check

I’m so frustrated by the wellness check the other day. Whoever made that call, did you mention that there is a minor son in the home? S doesn’t need a wellness check, she’s going to say exactly what her dad has coached her to say, but H is young and he might actually let something slip. It is NOT OKAY that he is banished to his bedroom for 4 hours a day, while he’s also being “homeschooled,” and neglected. The wellness check should have specified that it was for HIM.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 19 days ago
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Why aren’t they concerned about their address?

In the last week or so, we’ve seen more than one time where an individual has used their address, including unit number. How are they not worried? They were way too happy and chill about the “surprise” birthday cake… S even commented that it was delivered by DoorDash and fully sealed as a way of defending them eating it.

Yes, eating food sent by a random person is weird af, but what’s even weirder is that enough people have your address that you’ve had a wellness check called and a mystery cake delivered in one week… in the same week, mind you, that they told the entire internet that H was outside late at night while they were occupied with the live.

They have no survival instincts, no sense of what is and is not safe. I’m terrified for H.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 22 days ago

Is Paddy the “friend”?

Do yall remember back when S had replied in comments saying her “dad’s friend” bought her clothes? I just saw someone in another thread saying that Paddy the mod bought her a pair of shoes a hot minute ago. Was it Paddy who was buying S clothes???

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 25 days ago

Small Town Local News is Dying!!

My hometown newspaper is dying. It used to be a hefty paper for the size of our town, and has dwindled down to 3 pages of mostly obituaries. It breaks my heart, but there’s not much else to be expected from the PostMedia owned paper of a town of 6000 people.

I’m desperate to bring news back to my town. I currently write independently with a relatively large following on the platform I publish on, and have been considering how I can revive my own town in a similar strategy.

I work on the side for an email newsletter as well, writing content, publishing, etc, and was thinking this may be a viable option with a low start up cost. My concern though, is that it won’t reach the seniors in town.

Any ideas for a way I can bring news back to my town independently? I have many ideas, but struggling with the how.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 28 days ago

Everything P would spend money on before taking care of his family:

- Skydiving (if they get a uni)
- Top Golf
- Golf Clubs
- Golf gear (including that silly visor)
- New glasses for himself
- A new PC for S
- A TV for the “livestream studio”
- That stupid wolf shirt
- DoorDash/Uber Eats
- “Strawberry” Rhubarb
- Dill
- Followers
- Likes

As a community, I’m sure we can make this list extremely long…

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago

Advice Please: Past DV + Current Situation

Police have contacted me re: my abuser from many years ago. They need help with another matter, however, the original detachment that I reported the DV to chose not to go forward with charges and I couldn’t get an EPO either. Now the detachment that reached out has said they will likely have me give an official statement and has encouraged me to try and pursue charges once again as they feel there is more than enough evidence in my original report.

Should I speak with a lawyer regarding this? I’m only willing to pursue charges at this point if it means it will bring justice for someone else regarding this situation.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago

The breaking point

I think S’s breaking point is coming rapidly.

The biggest change in behaviour has been the incessant bullying and remarks from P. It’s bad enough to get bullied on the internet for 4 hours a night, but to have your own father doing that to you on the internet, not to mention what is happening offline…

I feel like i can see it in her eyes that she’s about to crack.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago

The breaking point

I think S’s breaking point is coming rapidly.

The biggest change in behaviour has been the incessant bullying and remarks from P. It’s bad enough to get bullied on the internet for 4 hours a night, but to have your own father doing that to you on the internet, not to mention what is happening offline…

I feel like i can see it in her eyes that she’s about to crack.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago

The breaking point

I think S’s breaking point is coming rapidly.

The biggest change in behaviour has been the incessant bullying and remarks from P. It’s bad enough to get bullied on the internet for 4 hours a night, but to have your own father doing that to you on the internet, not to mention what is happening offline…

I feel like i can see it in her eyes that she’s about to crack.

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u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago
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Identification?

Old set from my MIL’s jewelry box. The pears are almost a pure white but slightly iridescent and none of them are smooth or round. I honestly think they might be fake, but she has a few sets like this. Does anyone know if these are worth much?

u/Apprehensive-Sink158 — 1 month ago