u/Appropriate-Cat-4190

Hello fellas am M, married but lately there is something that has been bugging me,see I feel like my wife has become too monotonous in the sense that I feel whatever she says to me doesn't make sense;I just pay attention coz I have to but not necessarily listening,this has even impacted our intimacy as she kind of no longer excites me,how do I solve this before it gets out of hand?the last time we had sex was like 2 weeks ago..is this normal?

Story time.. I remember it was circa 2020, when COVID-19 was a serious thing and restrictions were rife, movement was severely impacted so staying indoors was not a luxury; it was a must so I went on Facebook making shitposts about relationships ,that's where I met Josephine wambui, a rather older lady,way older(59yrs old). So our conversations were centered around mechi,that lady would text expletives that made shy especially coming from someone that I didn't expect would make such remarks .. anyway we planned and the D-day arrived..we met somewhere in thika town,a place where I believe no one knew us we talked..from the looks of things she saw our Convo was delaying the match and looked like she could devour me right there and then ..we quickly finished our drinks and then booked a room..the receptionist looked at me in awe, perhaps from shock because she didn't expect such.. any way we entered into the room ,thats when it was my turn to get shocked! Bana alitoa nguo alafu minyama zikaanguka..I lost my appetite bana hadi she noticed and asked kama she had scared me..I was at a loss of words.. I felt cheated.the pictures she had posted looked nothing like what I was staring,I told her she was beautiful just that I hadn't seen someone like her.. told her indeed I was the right person for her.. left her in room in the guise I had gone to look for rubber and that's how I bolted.. don't know what happened coz i switched off my phone

I remember there is this times I was starting with this kuchuism,now kama kawaida point ya kutoa madem(read btms) was fb now there is this guy we met and our vibes kicked and we began chatting until this day we decided to make things official,the guy was In mathare,the little nigga told me the brother is out of the house for the day and wouldn't come back till evening mimi na ulafi yangu nikaona it was a good deal so ikawa ivo we met,he was a slim guy with a firm taught ass nikasema baas,kitoweo imejipa tukaenda Kwa hao,kidogo storo hapa na pale ,sikuwaste time mamunju moto zikfuata alafu kidogo kidogo tukajipata Kwa room,kundress mbio mbio,Kisha tukarudia kuromance when there were no obstacles,nilidara kijana ya wenyewe Hadi nikaona precum imeanza kutoka Kwa dick yake alafu he had those 'please fuck me' begging eyes mimi ni nani,nikamsho abend over,took mafuta ilikuwa hapo,I think it was arimis nikaanza kupaka yeye,we Sasa hapo ndio kizungunmkuti ilitokea kijana ilikuwa Virjo! Kwisha mimi nikajaribu kuweka pinkie wapi! Bana ilikuwa haingii! Na sa hio nimembao nadai kuzamisha my hard dick,walahi ilibidi amenipea bj Hadi nikacum Kisha aka promise angemake it up to me the following day,told him to practice ndio nikikam ikuwe snooth ride ..na hivyo ndio nilileft!

What's your worst experience na hii maneno?

What is it that turns you off when dealing with hoes? I rem kuna this time ilienda kunyandua poko. Nliwanga dryspell mbaya mbaya sasa kufika base nikaget some slnice looking lass sasa unajuwa io time unafikiria na kichwa kidogo sasa kulipa haraka haraka hata sikuangalia kama nlirudishiwa change yenye inafaa,anyways tukaruka hadi kwa room..small convo hivi alikidara dara  mzee abdalla ili achangmke maze wacha aanze kupaka ikusde mate immediately mzee andalla akarudi kudoz na hivyo ndio nilipoteza pesa zangu..